Ok, it's like this. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We met when I was a stripper and it was OK for a while. Then he got all jealous, blah blah blah and I quit. After months of working stupid blister causing, minimum wage paying, rush hour commute, asshole power trip boss jobs I went back (behind his back). After a couple of weeks of this I couldn't stand to lie to him, so I told him I want to go back to dancing. He said to choose between him and dancing, I chose dancing, The next day he calls, crying, apologizing for being selfish , yadda yadda yadda, and says he'll deal with it for a while. Now it's been almost a year since I've gone back and he gives me a guilt trip again. He says I told him it would only be for a few months, I'll get a real job, and all that crap. In reality, I plan on dancing for a while. I also want to travel to dance (to further cities, the US, Japan) and he can't comprehend why I would go somewhere far to do the same job. I am sick of this crap and I want to leave him.
I don't want to have kids, a husband, a house in the suburbs, security, and a blue collar fucking job. He does.
I also have been taken care of by a very good customer and I want to stay under his "employ" for much much longer. My boyfriend can't take care of me like my custy does, and the customer doesn't ask for sex or anything - he knows what time it is.
My bf didn't even get me anything for my birthday (not even a card), and my custy got me a $4000 diamond.
It's not all about money, but where I am in my life, money is more important than a realtionship. For my boyfriend it's the opposite. He has no motivation, drive, ambition, or plan for financial success. How can I be with a man like that especially when he won't support my work choice?
If I tell him all this he'll say How come you've wasted a year of my life thinking this way?
What can I say to that?
Help! He doesn't make me happy and we want different things in life. How do I deliver a break up?![]()



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Good luck. And to tell ya, i am MUCH happier now.. much much much happier.

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