I see so many threads on "What will my S.O. think?" and "How will they feel?"
I am asked why a pretty, straight woman like myself doesn't have a boyfriend. I answer truthfully: Because I strip. The usual response is that I haven't found the right man who understands.
Who says it's about the guy?
I'm not okay being in a relationship. Me. It's about me and my choice. I am so sexed out at the end of my shift that I have no energy to pay attention to someone at home. I don't feel like calling anyone either. I'd rather sleep.
I broke up with someone before I started stripping. He thought it was for the best because he couldn't "share" me like that. What about my long day at work? What about my feelings?
I like being single. My libido is consumed on stage. I don't miss sex. I don't miss the drama. I have friends and family. I think I'm okay.
Dating would be just a burden to me.
The guy that I ditched, he requested before we broke up that I pay extra special attention to him so that he could feel secure with my stripping and the relationship. *rolls eyes* No. Fuck that. My feet hurt.



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Good for you Lizette!


Heheh. I'm glad I have my bf, he's just okay with me dancing. He doesn't feel possessive, or like "My Girlfriend, the O Exulted Stripper." He gets that it isn't easy money every day, but it lets us be comfortable. His family knows, so it's not a taboo thing. He cuddles me after a crappy day and comforts me. He doesn't say the wrong stupid things so many people do when they find out I'm a stripper - a friend of his, after hearing about my family being in foreign service, blah blah blah, was like "heheh, and now their daughter is a stripper." 
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