I am in a bit of a dilemma with my girlfriend whom is a dancer. She is only doing this temporarly, money for medical bills. She wants to do modeling full time, non-nude, not too racey. She has done some work and was a cheerleader for a NFL team. She came to me and asked me to help her with this career. Doing research, helping her find jobs and a reputable agency. She saw I was upset by this and said she thought I would be happy and supportive of her and that I would want to see her out of the club as soon as poosible. It did upset me a bit, honestly I am afraid of losing her to someone else or to the job itself. I do feel deep down I am being damn selfish feeling this way. I do love her and care about her. I do want to see her happy. I know the right thing to do is to help her as much as I can.
Aside from I guess needing a kick in the butt from everyone who dances on what the right thing to do is here I have several questions. First I was wondering what are everyones opinions of Maxium Magazine or FHM? As in do they fall under the not too racey catagory. Second, I know of one that is taking pictures for a contest, a 'hottie next door' type of thing. Do I go ahead and tell, help her get the pictures she needs to submit, help her with all the forms or do I bypass this for now and look for something that may not be so border line racey? I think I know what the answer is, I guess I just would like to hear it from some other women in or retired from the business.![]()
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I guess I am a bit on the defensive about this because honestly, I feel like I would be 'sharing' her with guys who would be spanking the monkey to her pictures. I guess I am in that mode cause she asks me to come to the club when she dances, she feels safer with me there and I am getting tired of getting on guys when they take out their camera phones and try to sneak pictures of her on the stage. The club does not allow them in there but they can't police every guy who comes in.
Feel free to give me a verbal kick in the butt if any of you wish, it is ok with me.


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