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    What do you veterans think of this? Customers do not ask for my #, but there are a few out-of-towners who seem eager to come back for repeat business. I'd like to be in the club next time they come in.

    I was thinking about making a business card that said I was a hairstylist or some other non-threatening profession (just in case they are committed to other people).

    EDIT: Found a similar thread http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=34361

    It might be illegal in my state. Gah. It's so damn hard to find the (readable) laws governing stripping. I was told grinding is illegal but it's everywhere! The managers are not a very good source of information. I'm frustrated.

    A few of the club's regulars are cops and they don't even know.
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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I think if you feel comfortable making cards and giving out your number then go for it.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I start out with email, then if I think he's not going to be obnoxious, I give the cell number or get his so I can call him when I am going in to work.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I agree with AZAmber...email first. Creat a new email account with a cute name or your stage name in it..nothing to complicated so guys can remember. Take thier business card if they have one. I always get thier number or email first and then contact them. Because even though I may take a number, card, or email...they will only hear from me if they spent some serious money, seem like a promising regular, or is an upscale gentleman. I don't call back the sleazos that buy one dance and want to hook up and cheat on thier wife!!!! I had that b.s. happen to me last week...GROSS!!!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    no, no, no NO!!!!

    E-mail (yahoo or hotmail) is sufficiently anonymous. But NOT your cell phone. In some jurisdictions, this might be borderline to running an escort service. Also, you invite stalkers. NO!

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Buy a pay as you go phone, and be selective about who gets the #. Don't give your real info when you hook up the phone, then you don't need to worry about stalkers.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I think I'll do the email thing first. When I get more money, I'll get a prepaid cell.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Noooooooo don't do it!!! No cell phone, you wont know what to do with it later. Just do the e-mail thing, you can even just have cards printed with your schedule on them.

    Cianna

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I agee with everyone else.
    I don't know about you but the LAST thing I want when im not at work is customers calling me. I made this mistake when i was new and had a strange customer calling me untill I moved and changed my number.
    It was stressful and annoying having to screen my calls and not pick up certain call's because I did not reconize the number and was scared it was a customer calling.

    I would set up a seperate account for work(hotmail is free) instead of giving out your regular email address .Then at least you don't have to worry about loads of emails from a customer.


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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I'd say if you're comfortable with giving out a cell phone or voicemail/pager number that it's perfectly acceptable. HOWEVER, be absolutely clear on the parameters - ie. whether the guy can call to chat/BS or only for work purposes, what times are acceptable, etc.

    If you aren't that comfortable, then an email address would work as well. I'll echo what I mentioned in a similar thread about giving those out - make sure of what is displayed in the email headers of outgoing messages, because they may include a name next to an address, like this:

    FROM - Susie Realname <[email protected]>

    And if you don't want your custies knowing your real name yet, this would not be the best way for them to find out.
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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Quote Originally Posted by Lizette
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    A few of the club's regulars are cops and they don't even know.
    I'm willing to bet those cops know the answer.......because it would look really good for them if they busted on a stripper........frankly, it's not a good idea ever to give out any contact information because you never really know who you're dealing with........
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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Quote Originally Posted by susan
    no, no, no NO!!!!

    E-mail (yahoo or hotmail) is sufficiently anonymous. But NOT your cell phone. In some jurisdictions, this might be borderline to running an escort service. Also, you invite stalkers. NO!
    I agree. Take their number, but never ever give out your number. Wanna know the best and fastest way to get a prostitution ticket? Give " apromising customer" your number. I make awesome money without bringing the club home with me. Best way to be sure your customers kno your working is to keep set days and stick to them. Works like a charm, and you don't have to deal with the "let's go out for dinner" bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cianna
    Noooooooo don't do it!!! No cell phone, you wont know what to do with it later. Just do the e-mail thing, you can even just have cards printed with your schedule on them.

    Cianna
    That's a great idea.

    Has anyone else done this?



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    As soon as I walk out of the doorway at the end of the night,I no longer want to deal with any customers.Several hours a night is plenty enough.
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    Regretfully, I have given out my number. Nonstop rings, at all times of the night. Very uncool. I haven't danced at this one club in like three months, still getting 1am calls...........don't do it, girl.
    Bands will make me dance..........

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    SELECTIVELY give it out. To guys who have spent money on you in the club and seem to have potential.

    I work bookings in a different city each week and rebook the same clubs every 4-5 weeks. I give my number to guys who want to come see me when I am rebooked or guys who want to see me in clubs in other towns when they are traveling. That has been lucrative.

    That way guys call me and tell me when they are coming in. Some guys are duds but, you just fade them out.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Personally, I do email because then it's easiest to control how often you really talk to them outside of work. An extra half hour before shift answering letters isn't a big deal if it's bringing in hundreds. Some of my coworkers have a separate "work" phone that they turn off when it's inconvenient to receive calls. They seem to like that better because you can actually call a custy when a shift is slow.
    ...and the day came, when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became worse than the risk it took to blossom.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    Its not worth the hassle... if you want the business u should get an agency screen for you and maybe you can do privates for these customers.

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I was thinking about giving out my cell # or email to ONLY out-of-towners who tipped me very, very well. No one else.

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    If you're only worried about the out-of-towners, i'd do email. It's much easier than having them call when it's inconvenient but having to answer since you haven't hear from them lately...
    ...and the day came, when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became worse than the risk it took to blossom.

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    No I only do email.
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    yes.. DO EMAIL!!! Sooo much better!

    and only use email if the guy has spent more then 500 or more on you!
    You don't need low paying customers clogging your in box, that you have to decipher between...

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    I have an email only card I give out. I get asked my # all the time and I just say "I don't give out my number, but I do have an email you can have." It is strictly a business email to find out when I am working. I would say the majority of emails I get are the guys asking me out and saying they don't want to see me in the club anymore and would prefer to take me out. So that's a good sign I didn't give out my # or else I would be screwed.

    I do know girls who give out their cell #'s, but they do it with guys who spend over a grand/night and understand our jobs.

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    I have a "stripper" email address... I give that out but never my phone number... ever... I have had guys who didnt want email, they wanted phone... how rude.. youre lucky you get ANYTHING!

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    Default Re: Giving out my cell #

    yes i myself am having a hard time with this some jerk said to me the other night ill let you dance fore me if you give me your # i laughed in his face and told him to forget it. Ive given out my # a few times and one guy was calling me 4 times a day eventually he gave up. Now i will tell a customer a share the phone with a friend so i dont think thats a very good idea and they usually give me there card.

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