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    Default Dancers who fall in love/marry custmers

    I just thought this Valentines after a customer gave me some nice gift, that there must be a lot of dancers out there who actually fall for their customers. I know of some who married their customers too.
    Maybe girls meet custoers outside in the hope that they will be the 'one'

    Does anyone know of any dancers who have done this? Its kind of like every dancers dream to be swept off her feet by a man who can tak ecare of her so she never has to work again and who adores her like no other has.
    What do you think?

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    The ONLY happy ending story I know is:

    Dancer loved customer, customer loved dancer, they got married, opened a club, had a child and seem to be living happy. They are now in their 50's.


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    Well I met my boyfriend in a club that I worked at. He was never, however, my customer. It was just one of those "I've got to talk to this guy," magnetic attraction things. He gave me his card, and we started out emailing. Eventually we chatted on the phone, and then went out. It's almost a year later now, and I love him more than ever. I don't doubt that we will get married eventually. But before him, I would have never thought it was possible to find love at a strip club! lol

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    I have a friend/colleague met, fell and love with and got married to a dancers about five or six years ago. She was in her early 20s, and he was in his late 40s at the time. He was married, but she wasn't. They are still married and,from what I can see, happily so. She left dancing and is now a housewife, raising her daughter from her first marriage.

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    yes, i've seen it, but i couldn't do that simply because they fell in lust with me before they fell in love, looks are not going to last forever, don't depend on a man financially.

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    My best friend and her husband met in the club. He was never her customer and they were both seeing other people at the time. They just became close friends. Lots in common, etc. She actually moved back to Michigan (from Fla.) they kept in touch and a few months later he called saying his previous relationship had broken up suddenly and he was heartbroken. They talked alot as friends and she went to see him to take him out and cheer him up. They have been together for a few years now, got married about a year and a half ago and are working on making babies! She is a happy and spoiled housewife madly in love with her husband and he with her. So it does happen, just not very often!

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    I met my husband when i was dancing.

    I fell over on stage right next to where he was sitting! We were married within six months and we're still together two years later.

    I don't dance anymore - he'd NEVER let me dance again... but i miss it like crazy sometimes, i even dream about being onstage.
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    Wow. Those stories are so sweet. I just met a lady who danced in teh 70's, met her husband who was one of her regulars, fell in love and since then have had 3 kids (now teens) and are just getting married. That seems unthinkably romantic to me. Maybe Valentinehas go to me too hard.
    Oh and one of my freinds married a customer 4 years ago and moved to Europe. Shes still dancing and they are still so in love.

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    Wow, these stories are kind of uplifting in a sense...I've met a few guys at the club that I thought were cute/nice and could have seen myself getting together with, but maybe I'm sort of a scardy cat in that department. Although it is a very sweet thought that some handsome well to do man might want to sweep me off my feet at work, I'm not counting on it.

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    a staff member, yes; a customer, no.
    Carpe Diem!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    Well I met my boyfriend in a club that I worked at. He was never, however, my customer. It was just one of those "I've got to talk to this guy," magnetic attraction things. He gave me his card, and we started out emailing. Eventually we chatted on the phone, and then went out. It's almost a year later now, and I love him more than ever. I don't doubt that we will get married eventually. But before him, I would have never thought it was possible to find love at a strip club! lol
    Awww.......that's such a sweet story belle


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    I agree these are very sweet stories. But to be real about it, I think it's VERY unlikely that something like this happens nowadays.

    I guess I am being cynical, but I just don't see it working like it used to.

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    Wow belle,
    I didnt know that. Nice story!

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    I have a friend who is engaged to a man she met at the club. They have been together for 3 years- living together for 2.

    He wasn't really a reg of the club or hers and I don't think he really bought but maybe a handful of air dances all told. They just met at the bar in the club had a few drinks and clicked. She doesn't work at all anymore and they live quite nice

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    Default Re: Dancers who fall in love/marry custmers

    I had a girlfriend (a real professional, top-notch girl) who fell in love and married a customer. he just so happened to fit her criteria.
    they're still married and he's a successful doctor. she quit dancing and opened a tea-house.

    but, i have had bad experiences when i have met men in a strip clubs. they were always losers but, that was a few years ago when i was a loser magnet.
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