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    Default Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Because I just recently turned 18, I went to my first strip club a little while ago and had fun. I was amazed at how perfectly the dancers bodies were sculpted, how they could manuver so well on the pole, and how fast my money ran out.

    I had heard the question, "wanna dance?" more times that I can remember, and had replied "Sorry, I don't have anymore money" an equal number of times. I felt loved when one of the dancers sat down and talked to me for a few minutes even after she knew I was broke.

    My worst experience so far was when me and my friend sat down at one of the chairs surounding the table, not knowing that it was required or even impolite to not tip when the girl was done with her dance (I would've anyway if I had the change, but I wasn't really thinking about that). When she kneeled down to us from the table I was expecting her to say something sexy, but the conversation went like this:

    Stripper: (glaring at us) Pay up.
    Me: umm....what?
    Stripper: (raising her voice, half the people just stop and look in our direction.) What the fuck!? It's required to tip when you sit here!
    Me: (embarassed) oh..umm....sorry...one second.

    I left the chair like an idiot and asked random people if they had change for a $20. No one did. So I walked all the way across the room to the bar, and got change.

    Anyway, facts about me:

    1) I'm homeschooled
    2) I work as a dishwasher for a gormet chinesse restaurant
    3) I'm working towards going to Cal art, and getting a degree in musical composition.
    4) I'm 6 feet, half white, half black, slim runner type body.
    5) I am a dancer...........a hip/hop dancer.

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    Hi jonny. Well, we know you've already had a chance to make an 'impression' on the ladies...

    As I'm sure you've figured out by now, you'll need to watch your attitude in here. Whether one of the reactions you got earlier was a little extreme or not, it illustrates the point. Remember, first and foremost this is a support and advice site for dancers. It's their house, they just let us visit if we're good and keep the toilet seat down and our feet off the table.

    I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt, and chalk up your first few posts to inexperience. Some words of advice, based on your posts so far:

    - Don't argue with the ladies (and most of the guys on the pink site) about the touching/mileage issue. Just...don't. If you want to do that, go to the blue site:

    - Unless you have something both constructive and relevant to say, leave the 'Stripping' forum to the ladies. This also applies to the 'Newbie Board' and to a lesser extent to the 'Hustle Hut'. Unless your opinion as a customer is going to add something to the discussion, keep it to yourself.

    - Take in the advice/answers you are given. You're talking mostly to people in the industry, and even the customers who bother to come here are vastly more experienced in the strip club scene than you are. Listen and learn, and you'll make yourself into a 'good customer'. On that note, read this:

    This is a pretty friendly place, and you should be given a chance to make up for your initial gaffe, as long as you mind your Ps and Qs.

    Welcome to SW.
    Last edited by kymchoon; 02-16-2005 at 05:14 PM. Reason: 'cos I wasn't fair earlier

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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Considering I only have seven posts including this one, I don't really think I've made a bad impression yet. But if I have, I'd like to apologize. None of my posts were made in a negative manner, just out of curiousity. I guess It's kinda hard to tell the tone of a message through text.

    I'm mainly here to get an idea of the stripping scenario from a different perspective. So far it's kinda depressing because all I've been hearing is how guys are disgusting perverts, and how strippers are not "impresionable" because they've met guys who have everything. It seems as if the job has numbed them sexually.

    About the arguing thing, It just comes naturally. I have a wierd urge to express my opinion, but I see now that this isn't the place for that. I didn't know the whole "Pink vs Blue thing" and how guys are unwanted here untill a little while ago.

    And lastly, about trying to impress the girls....I don't know, maybe I was, but I wasn't really thinking about....I usually think of physical attributes as a solid part of my description., but I don't really think I said anything too impressive about myself. And I doubt working as a dishwasher is impressive

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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    18 year olds? I remember those days.

    Keep your penis to yourself, and Have fun!


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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Welcome,newbie!!!
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

    中国大CHINESE BIG BOOBS!!!中国大




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    Hi and Welcome. Hope you enjoy!!
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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Hullo, hey, another homeschooler. I'll forgive your club ignorance.
    "I still have my name
    I still have my face
    I have not run away from home
    Doesn't seem so long
    If I now embrace
    Every single thing I've never known"

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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    when you goto a club sit back watch and take it easy.. dont need to get 20 dances in a row with the first girl that talks to ya

    maybe look around you a little to see whats goin on and such


    but dont worry about it. not everyone is strip club literate when it comes down to being their first time

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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Heh, like I said dude, I don't think any of it was malicious, just inexperience with the way things work around here. You may not have seen the specific response I was referring to - I notice that it was taken down. Suffice to say, I was cringing when I read it, and it wasn't even aimed at me!

    And I'm not saying not to express your opinion - that would defeat the purpose of being here. Just warning you that there are some topics around here that you might want to stay away from, as they're sore points for some people. Mileage, for example, is simply an intellectual issue to you and I, but the ladies are the ones who have to deal with the grabby drunks. We're not exactly 'unwanted' here, but we are expected to behave within certain guidelines.

    As I said, I figured I may have been doing you as disservice with my last comment, and if so I apologise. Just wary due to the 'if a guy's cute, will you let him touch you?' thing you said earlier.

    If I came across as harsh, it wasn't my intent (I have an irritating tendancy to lecture). There's just some unwritten rules around here that you could violate completely innocently and get yourself blasted. Figured I'd clue you in, is all.

    Seriously, compadre, welcome.

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    Default Re: Hi I'm jonny, nice to meet you.

    Your Pretty Cute

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