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    Temporary dancing OK?

    I auditioned at a great club, got the job, then my SO threw a fit and I quit before I even started. Now, I want to dance more than ever. Is it possible to audition at a club for just a one-week gig, provided I let them know that's what I'm after? I feel that, if I can't have the whole enchilada (an ongoing job as a dancer), I'd still like to have one tortilla chip (a temporary dancing job).

    Taking a week's "vacation" on my own is not a problem for my SO--he knows I'm due for some "me" time, and he never asks what I do with such time, so I wouldn't have to lie.

    Please let me know how I might go about this, or if it's even possible! Thank you!

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    Default Re: Temporary dancing OK?

    Hmmm...I don't know if a club would go for that. Probably not a good idea to tell them what you plan to do. What happens if you like dancing too much to give it up. The odds are you will, lots of money, new outfits and make-up!! But it might just appeal to you now because your SO says you shouldn't. You may have just created a dilemma for yourself!!

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    Default Re: Temporary dancing OK?

    Hey orenishi,
    Sorry to hear your bf is not being supportive that sucks. I had to deal with the same sort of thing when I met my boyfriend but I had already been a dancer when we met so he never actually told me to quit.He just acted really upset whenever anything regarding stripping came up.
    He is totally supportive now though it just took some time.

    I can totally understand why your SO is bothered. I would be to were the roles reversed. But hopefully he will come around and understand that it makes you happy and give you the freedom to do what you want

    Anyway, back to topic. You said you were hired at gold club right? Danny is the manager there and he is an extreamly understanding and leniant manager when you are honest with him about what is going on.
    Just explain the situation to him(I would go up thier and do it in person)and
    he will most likely work with you.
    I had some problems with my bf when I worked with him and he was really helpful and even let me leave early on several occasions due to me being upset. Your lucky he's a great manager.


    Good luck


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    Default Re: Temporary dancing OK?

    Also, you might want to remind your boyfriend that he should be happy that you are working at one of the high class clubs where you don't even have to remove your top during private dances!
    It's not like your working at one of the market street clubs where sex is normal.

    You are in a clean club with a good reputation and good money he should be happy for you.


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    Default Re: Temporary dancing OK?

    Most clubs wouldn't give a shit if you worked for a week and never showed up again (I wouldn't tell them ahead of time about that, though), but I have never known a dancer to leave after a week of dancing. The money's too good. Good luck!

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