"The innate difference between males and females is that males are born with D.N.A, and females are born with D.R.A.M.A." - Me
I'm having a problem and am hoping to solicit some advice. I decided to come here because my friends are biased, and y'all seem to jump at the chance to give advice. Pardon if it's long, I'm apologizing in advance. Here's my new dilemma:
I have a new g/f. Actually, she's the only g/f I've ever had. We've been together about a week. She's a cool chick, and the sex is bomb; HOWEVER, She has a problem accepting the things I do, but expects me to sit back and allow her to continue what she's doing. What I mean is: I like to go to my fave strip club about 1 or 2 times a month to get away from school and softball and unwind. No harm, no foul. It's just a place to escape and not have to worry about seeing people I know, or have any responsibilities (homework, practice) I have never done anything with the strippers besides talk, get dances from, and occassionally get a peck on the cheek or lips. SHE: is still "in love" with a friend of hers with whom she has had sex. She still goes and hangs out at the bar about 2 or 3 nights a week at which her "friend" bar-tends. She has told me that I have to accept the fact that she is still, and probably will always be in love with her, so I should just deal with it, and hope that one day she can love me like that. She jumps at the chance to tell me about their convo's and show me pics of them kissing, and showing me pics of her having sex with other people. Then she bitches at me because she asks me how my night at the club went and I tell her, and she gets pissed because she doesn't want to hear about a stripper being all over her g/f. WTF?? Do I stay in or bail out before feelings start to get thick?![]()





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Just don't get emotionally involved with her because you really deserve much better. I also don't believe ANYTHING that ANYBODY says prior to having sex. Judgement is often clouded and people will say/do anything to get what they want!!!! It doesnt matter whether it is a guy or a girl raging hormones will make a person do and say some crazy things! Best of luck to you!




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