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    I thought i saw a thread on here about thisbefore but i don't remember where, and now I can't find it!

    Ok so I"ve been having this problem at work, I'll be dancing for a guy and I'll notice that there is a guy who has like moved closer to me, and is very obviously checking me out. Problem is guy that I'm already with is spending money on me, but I can tell that guy B wants me to dance for them. A couple of times guys have come up to the table and interrupted and were like, I want to leave, but I really want you to dance for me so can I steal you for a moment, ususally the other guys says sure, but tells me to come back when I'm done. Or the customer will just tell me that he was leaving and wished I could have danced for him and what days do I work.

    What should I do? I feel like the buisiness woman should some how come to a point that can utilize both custy's but I don't know how or if I should do that - but this keeps happening to me!


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    Nice problem to have!!!

    I'd suggest this approach. Just say to the first guy, "would you excuse me for a few minutes, I need to go speak to someone". Then slip over to the guy checking you out. Introduce yourself to the second guy, if he seems interested, tell him that you'd like to spend some time with him and can he wait for a bit. Give him an approximate time! Nothing pisses guys off more than a girl that says she'll be right over and never comes by or comes by an hour later. If he seems agreeable, you might point out another part of the club, out of sight of the first guy and tell him you'll meet him there. One side benefit to this is that it sort of puts the pressure on the first guy to keep the cash flowing. On the few times I've had two guys interested I've tried to do the whole, "I've got to go the ladies room, check with the DJ" etc... stuff. It never works, one guy either gets up to go to the bathroom or something and sees you with the other guy and then is mad 'cause you've lied to him or thinks you're not interested. To me honesty is the best policy.
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    Politely excuse yourself from Guy A--tell him that you have to speak with someone and that you will be right back. Go to Guy B, tell him that as soon as you are done with Guy A you would like to dance for him. Go back to Guy A and continue. If he has you there for a while, check up on Guy B. Then, when you go back to Guy A, let him know why you must keep excusing yourself to talk to the other guy (Guy B), and maybe apologize for excusing yourself again. They usually understand, and find it nice that you are such a popular girl and THEY are with you! It's honest, and you've got your foot in the door with Guy B.

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    Just figure out which one if more ga-ga over you and make him wait. If you;ve been with guy A for a while, let him know that you are in demand and that he should take a quick break while you do a quickie dance for B. Then just juggle them back and forth for a while.

    OR, suggest to one of them to take you back to VIP, where you are more likely to get constant dances and a tip, so you won't have worry about the other coming around.

    I do this all the time, it usually works. Sometimes one of them gets pissed off, but what can you do.........

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    Once when I did this, guy A just talked about how old guy B was , and how happy I should be that I have someone "better looking to talk to.LOL I was like not anymore..........

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    I just had this "problem" the other day, and I did the thing that I wrote about here. Yeah, it's hard. One of the guys was getting antsy, but he still waited for me. I was sweating, trying to keep up. What a fantastic problem it is to have, though, isn't it? Wish more days were like that . Anyway, hope the nifty advice given by the girls helps and that you make the most money possible from it.

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    Default Re: working mutiple customers

    What a great thread I wonder about this stuff but never remember to make a thread about it

    These are great tips. I hate sitting to long I like to be busy but always wondered myself how to keep mutiple people interested w/o being rude. Now, I just have to remember to come back EEEeeeeppp!
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