This entire thread is the reason I refuse to limit myself to one dancer in any one club. No matter how much a particular dancer "does it" for you, you can always find at least one or two others in the same club who will to and, to me, this is essential for maintaining your sanity and avoiding RILdom. I still have favs, and I even have an ATF-but she's been retired for two years and, the way I approach my SC activities these days I doubt she'll ever be replaced.
As long as a customer/dancer relationship feels like fun it's cool. When it starts to feel like a an obligation or in any other way just kind of "wierd", then it's time to re-think.





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