Okay, I've been reading some posts today, and lately I've been just really fucking fed up with some people who know me etc.. and I thought I would do a post on this.
Reading a few posts from others on this board about concerns about what they do for a living, whether to tell, not to tell etc. Of course, we all joke about things which are said about us, but THAT is OUR right to joke amongst our selves in pure fun.. we all know how hard the work is, and we all know first hand at times what comes with it.
Has anyone ever noticed that the people or rather, WOMEN who stereo type dancers, or former dancers are not women who could actually do this type of work?
I don't know about all of you, but I am so fucking sick and tired of the bullshit. I get so tired of being told "Oh, well you can't be serious, you were a stripper, what do you know". Its so god damn funny that most of us former "strippers" are people who have educations that are paid for, homes that are paid for, time with our kids, some hold professional licenses. When is it going to stop? When are these stupid sexless fat housewives going to realize that not all of us are dirty, not all of us are stupid and that we make great moms, great friends, and we probably give their husbands more than they do because we look at things with an open mind?
I'm sorry, I just am pissed. pissed. pissed pissed. Who says that I am a shitty mom for what I used to do? How dare someone who doesn't have children say that I am a shitty mom for what I used to do? As a parent, and guys, this is your chance to comprehend this to, you will do ANYTHING for your child's welfare. Call it mother bear syndrome or whatever else you want to. I think that dancers and former dancers who have made the ultimate sacrafices for their children are more exceptional than those women who make their husbands work two jobs so that they can stay at home and sit on their big asses and "raise" their kids.
Input if you want. As you can probably tell, I've had a bad fucking run in with someone who I thought was a friend.



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that's why the little cartoonist aaron mcgruder said "that's like me saying 'I'm above the NBA'".

Please keep in mind that I am not trying to generallize too much; you all know who I mean. There are always exceptions to any grouping.


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