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    I just found out that my partner was with someone else in the weekend Im so angry and hurt. I wish I'd listened to you all when while I was pregnant I posted a thread about him and you all gave me the advice to leave him and I wish I had listened! He is a completely different person than I thought he was. He's been lying to me for months and then cheated on me in the weekend.
    I HATE HIM grrr Im so angry. I cant believe he did this our baby is only 6 weeks old. Now I have to move out I cant stay with him anymore.

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    Ahm. First and foremost, if he had unprotected sex with someone else and then with you, you should get checked. And then, kick his ass out and sue him for every penny he is worth for child support. SUE HIS ASS. Go to your parents or other family members house, stay with them a while until you can get on your feet. Dont let this pathetic excuse of a man make you sad. YOU are the better person here, that is very apparent, and no man that pulls this shit, especially with a new baby around, should be screwing some other girl when he should be spending time with his family. You show his ass that he cant do this to you or your baby. Get as much child support from him as you can.

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    Hindsight is 20/20....you gave someone an opportunity, and there is no shame in that.
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    Im so sorry to hear that hun..I hope things for you and your new baby get stable soon. Stay tuff hun!! I cant believe he did that to you and the baby that is very very low.

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    Courtney....Im sorry about this. Human nature always has us look for the best in people, even when it might not be there.

    Keep your chin up Girl!
    I've heard that a good signiture sets you apart from everyone.
    Well......is this good enough???

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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo
    Hindsight is 20/20....you gave someone an opportunity, and there is no shame in that.
    Yup, hold your head high and don't take any crap!!

    Hugs!



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    You'll grow stronger from this experience so keep your chin up, you have one little person to look after and raise. Good luck



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    Happens to the best of us.

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    Hard to be possitive but maybe it is better to happen now then later when the child is more grown up and may be hurt as well .Sorry

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    I'm sorry, MissC.

    ((Hugs to you and that precious baby))

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    Im sorry to hear this. Hang in there and go with your gut and don't back out of your decison no matter what he says.

    Hang in there, and hugs to you and much love to your baby!

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    Sorry you're going through this right now. I know you're hurt. We've all been hurt in our lives & it sucks, but that's life....always happens to the best of us. And from this will come out something positive, garantee you that. But you know what babe, time is healing as well. In time you will be happy like you were before, as a matter of fact..... even more happier now that you were given a little angel that's gonna bring a smile on to your face for the rest of your life. What's better then that? Be strong, & you'll get through this....i'm 100% sure of that.

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    Once your head clears from all the emotions you're feeling right now...I believe things will have worked out for the best. It just sounds like you and the little one are better off without him. Big hugs.

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    I'm sending you good thoughts.

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    Thanks everyone no matter how angry and upset I am now I know it will eventually get better besides Im better off without him!

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    I'm sorry he did that..
    Hugs to you


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    You are - and be sure to attache the bum's wages FOR LIFE if he hasn't got any $$ now - or even if he does.

    But then, move on! Find a place of your own, love your little angel and know that;s why you did it -because without him you wouldn't have a perfect lil baby (I know, 3am feedings don't seem so perfect). You'll find the right man someday (we're not ALL assholes), just take your time.

    You're smart, young and beautiful. You'll do fine...we're all here for you

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    I'm so sorry, Miss Courtney. What a jerk. Hugs to you and I hope you feel better soon.

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    I'm so sorry this happened to you. I had the same happen to me. It hurts. You will be much stronger when this is over. Good luck to you.

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    Best of luck sweetie...I've had my share of cheated-ons; fortunately not with the father of my angel boy. My thoughts and empathy are with ya at this shitty time...lots of love
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    I'm so sorry to hear that ...if I was still down there, I'd kick him for you.

    You did the right thing giving him the boot. Things will work out, don't worry.

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    This guy is a jerk!!!
    I hate hearing about smart beautiful girls being taken advantage and hurt by useless jerks like this guy!!
    Don't worry Courtenay, you will be strong and move on with your little precious baby!

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