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    Quite a few dancers I know in the UK have received proposals of marriage from men who have met them only inside strip venues - i.e. never outside where the dancers work.

    Does this sort of thing happen in the US as well?

    Phil W.

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    I had guys propose to me the first night they met me.

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    Yeah but it was more in a joking manner...

    BUT I did have this one guy who wanted to pay me to have his baby (like as in surrogate mother kinda thing)!!!!! I thought he was joking but he was dead SERIOUS!!! He was a regular and I was quite a bit freaked out!

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    Yeah, it does.


    But they always refuse.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    hmm.... i have had propositions but, not to get married

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    Oh yes! The best is" i will marry you and take you away from all this". Oh how i remember that one.

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    that ihatestrippers link is awful that you put up SeppeSai.

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    Yep. Sometimes in letters with descriptions of their houses, their incomes, etc.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W
    Quite a few dancers I know in the UK have received proposals of marriage from men who have met them only inside strip venues - i.e. never outside where the dancers work.

    Does this sort of thing happen in the US as well?

    Phil W.
    Guys really do that? Please tell me you're kidding...

    'A state of mind'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    Oh yes! The best is" i will marry you and take you away from all this". Oh how i remember that one.

    Pamela
    Oh yeah, "marry me, let me take you away from this, you can have anything you want, I will take care of you"....."how about 50 thousand dollars"? "Would you get on a plane with me right now"?



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    Quote Originally Posted by DantesDen
    Guys really do that? Please tell me you're kidding...
    Unfortunately not. I'd count three dancers as quite good friends. All of them have had proposals from men who have only known them at work. When one in desperation finally told her would be groom that she was married, he begged her to leave her husband!!!!

    I'm also aware of quite a few other dancers who've had proposals of this nature - hence my original post.

    Phil W.

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    I've never had a proposal from a customer. When I have good regulars, I let them know I'm involved in a relationship. It becomes more of a friendship than a dating situation. I still get good money from them though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W
    Unfortunately not. I'd count three dancers as quite good friends. All of them have had proposals from men who have only known them at work. When one in desperation finally told her would be groom that she was married, he begged her to leave her husband!!!!

    I'm also aware of quite a few other dancers who've had proposals of this nature - hence my original post.

    Phil W.
    Man, that's insane. What are these guys thinking?

    'A state of mind'

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    I'm not nice enough to my customers for them to ask me to marry them. I very clearly state that I don't cook nor clean. LOL!

    "Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    I'm not nice enough to my customers for them to ask me to marry them. I very clearly state that I don't cook nor clean. LOL!
    Kat, will you marry me?

    I'll get you cooking and cleaning lessons.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    Kat, will you marry me?

    I'll get you cooking and cleaning lessons.
    SB, she would probably prefer a maid I cant imagine the Kat with dishpan hands

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    SB, she would probably prefer a maid I cant imagine the Kat with dishpan hands

    FBR
    You've got it man! Now...time to wash the dishes....

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Quote Originally Posted by SeppeSai



    I shared this link to a friend of mine who is a mental health professional. He states that Don's quiet desperation was a clear indication that he was on a 1 way path to suicide. Quite sad.

    I'm all for an entertainer milking customers for their money, but there needs to be limits. What this dancer did was inexcusable. Letting him talk his parents into getting a loan based on the equity in their house is reprehensible.

    PS: From the clubs mentioned and various streets, this dancer worked at a club in the Kansas City area. My guess is the Million Dollar Fantasy Ranch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    You've got it man! Now...time to wash the dishes....
    Dishwashing would be quite low on my list of priorities, kittyKat...

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    I used to propose to my ATF regularly but she kept pointing out that I was already married. I thought that was being awfully picky on her part.
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