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    Default Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    Several times I have seen men tip dancers on stage by throwing dollars all over the stage. Or they will stand there and fling dollars on a dancer's back while she's doing floor work. Why do they do this? It seems very obnoxious to me, but maybe I'm missing something...

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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    I've seen guys do the dollar bill shower, where they just throw a stack of ones up in the air and the dancer has to crawl around on stage and retreive them all. It's always been my opinion that this is mostly to benefit the customer's ego and to show off. Giving a generous tip is great, but if you like the girl on stage that much, why are you dissrespecting her by making her crawl around on the floor?
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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    The only times I ever just throw the money on the stage is

    a.) when the rules at that club prohibit me from giving it directly to the dancer
    b.) when I'm in a hurry to leave or go to the PD area with another gal

    As for why guys would throw money at a dancer and make her crawl all over the stage for it, your guess is good as mine. Frankly, I think its a lot sexier to give the tip to the dancer, stick it in her garter/g-string, and get some acknowledgement for it, and if she wows we enough, ask if she's free for some privates afterwards.
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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    For a while a few years ago you had to throw the money at the stage in Tampa-6' rule. Some of the girls started holding empty paper cups and the customers would shoot for the cups. This was somehow thought of as less sexualy bazaar than handing a girl money from the side of the satge by the Tampa legal establishment.

    If I'm gonna tip a dancer big at the stage, I'd much rather see the smile on her face when I slip a twenty in her garter than listen to the goons all cheer if I throw a bunch of singles up in the air.
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    The last time I was at a SC, we paid for a "special" dance on stage for the bachelor in our group. He sat in a chair with his hands behind his back and the lady we picked out to dance for him did a raunchy number on him. This got the crowd going - but then she took off his belt, pulled down his pants and started to beat him with it. The crowd got wild and started to toss dollar bills at them. Then Tom made the mistake of saying "Is that best you've got??" to her - so then she started WAILING on his ass with it.

    Well, needless to say, the dollar bills were FLYING in from all positions around that stage. Chloe must have made $300-400 just off of that little encounter.

    IN THIS INSTANCE - I agreed with tossing the money at them because it was such a wild and chaotic scene.

    However - I *always* try to be a gentleman when I tip. I *never* put my dollars in my mouth and I *never* take the offer of sticking it between her boobies. Tacky tacky tacky, IMHO.

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    Yeah, I have to agree. There's nothing like a good "bachelor humiliation dance" to get guys throwing money, and in that case, since the girl is busy bludgeoning the "guest of honor", she can't really walk around to collect tips.

    I don't mind the booby thing if thats what the dancer wants but the money-in-the-mouth guys should be taken out back and shot....or photographed and sent home to their wives with an 8 x 10 glossy of the event.
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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    Once a guy showered me with $200 some in singles. He said it was because he liked the song I was dancing to. It was all over the stage, the floor, and I had to switched stages and couldn't pick it all up or put it in any order. I counted $200 when I got off stage, and the rest I'm sure other girls picked up or customers stole to tip girls.

    It was a nice tip, but a big mess to collect. I'd rather a guy just hand it to me.

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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    this is what I imagine girls at male SCs doing, throwing money on stage. I've had people throw money on stage. Sometimes I do goal posts with my legs so they can shoot the tips through like footballs or basketballs it's fun. If I'm doing floor show then I'll pick it up while doing floor work, like those girls in movies rolling around in beds full of money. But if the music is off, it's curtains on picking up tips. To hell with crawling around like a dog, isn't the bouncer supposed to get it? I'd invest in a snow plow before I did that.

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    I've had a few guys take a stack of ones and "pour" them over my body while I was on the floor. I personally thought it was pretty cool! They thought my show was hot and they were definately appreciating it! Its was a definate compliment in my book! I don't mind picking up money off the floor!

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    Oh yeah, just remembered.....


    I had this one guy one time that kept balling up ones in tiny balls, and throwing them at me, now that PISSED me off! Eventually I started throwing them back....

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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    The balled up money pisses me off too. I love the money shower though. At my club you can't tip a girl on her body. It's the 6' rule like Tampa used to have, so I'm already on the ground picking up tips, I might as well get a workout. Plus thing of a money shower too, if it's a good night, guys start to compete and you may get a couple of money showers. The money balls though, ugh. We had one guy that used to put quarters in the middle of them. Not cool.

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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    I think a lot of guys do it because they see it on TV. SOme rich guy flaunts how much he can spend by non-chalantly tossing bills.

    As far as their mindframe? To me, it depends on the situation. Some guys do it in such a way that seems like they are taunting, ot acting superior, but sometimes... well sometimes I think being showered in cash is fun! Money may ultimately be dirty green paper, but there's a moment in my mind of luxury when I'm covered in cash!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyLaura
    Oh yeah, just remembered.....


    I had this one guy one time that kept balling up ones in tiny balls, and throwing them at me, now that PISSED me off! Eventually I started throwing them back....
    Unless its a game of Beaver Basketball, wadded up bills annoy me.
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    To all concerned:
    This (PLEASE NO OFFENSE!) is originally a black club thing. From what I understand, a Magic City thing. Ballers like to do this,and in the proper club, will stay up there and see who can outthrow the other(SERIOUS cash!!). Absolutely nothing wrong in my opinion, just two "cultures" of strip clubs colliding. I don't particularly favor it, but understand that if a gentleman chooses to do this to me, in his mind it is a high compliment,and I try to recieve it as such. Also, any club who has had this happen on a regular basis should spare a floorman to come up on stage and retrieve the money for the lady so that she doesn't have to crawl around and get it; just like when there's a feature act on. As to the balling up and throwing thing,that's just plain lazy and I friggin' hate it. Just my 2 cents....
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    oh god, i hatttteee when men throw singles on stage. Showers are ok, as long as the money is in one general area.

    Most of the time when i think they are trying to be an ass (very unlikely) I just leave it on stage...

    Actually come to think of it, i sometimes leave 1 or 2 dollors on stage because they were on the other side and another girl just came up to replace my stage set..

    To most of the people reading this, i guess you may think im a prude, brat or a snob.
    But to those that know me... you would know different.

    It can be demeaning to pick up 20 singles strewed all over the stage when your set is over.

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    I love showers of money.

    Personally, I don't care how you give it to me as long as your tipping and not trying to do anything out of line.

    If you want to throw money all over me, have at it.



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    Verfolgung, the method I'm talking about is the deck toss you described. The other methods aren't bad, and like others have said, can be fun and flattering. However, to have a guy stand at the stage and fling dollars all over a dancer seems demeaning to me.

    Sweetvixen, I love the idea of a fieldgoal! Too fun!

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    At the club I used to frequent regularly, sometimes the chairs around the stage would be full, so I couldnt sit by it (which I prefer). When that happened, I would sit on a chair by the second stage (which was close to the main stage and usually closed) and fold my dollars into paper airplanes. I would then zip it over to the dancer who was on stage. This lasted until someone got up and I was able to sit by the stage. The dancers all seem to love it (and I made sure they saw me shoot them over, so they didnt get a dollar airplane in the back of their head). I once landed one between a dancers rather impressive mammaries, which got a cheer from the crowd (and it was pure luck too - I wasnt aiming LOL).

    I personally do not abide by being in a strip club and not tipping the girl on stage, so that solved my problem. The dancers got a kick out of it (and most of them knew me well anyway).

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    The airplanes isn't bad, it's actually kind of cute. I wouldn't be offended by that especially if it's because the stage is full. I say bring it on. But the stripper basketball, still can't stand that. Just put the money on the stage if you're sitting there. There's no need to see if you can hit my boobies.

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    OK, in reference to the balled-up dollar bills....

    CUSTOMERS: NEVER ever do this to a girl! This has happened to me so many times and what a pain. Literally. Once, a balled-up one hit me in the [open] eye. That was not pleasant. Countless other times, the customer misses and the little balls end up all over the floor, to be picked up by goodness-knows-who. It's not like I can (or want to) get off stage and chase around nearly-invisible little balls guided only by black light. Usually the only time this happens is when the customer is too lazy to get out of his chair and he figures this is the easiest way to go about tipping a dancer. Get out of your chairs, guys. It won't kill you.

    I agree with the idea that the customers like to show off when they throw wads of ones on the stage. I don't mind it.... it actually helps focus attention on me when something like this happens. Then other guys start wonderig why I'M so special that I deserve all this extra attention and pay more attention to me. Sometimes, there is that "power battle", where two guys fight it out, throwing more and more ones, trying to outdo each other. That's fine with me too.

    On the other side of the coin, some guys won't tip me after that, thinking that I won't appreciate their measly little one after receiving a hundred or two hundred other ones on stage. Hey, a measly little one IS appreciated.

    And sometimes, too much is too much. One customer I had threw $1,000 in ones on the stage. It took us ten minutes to clean it up, then I ended up with $200 missing bills.

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    I like dollar showers,but hate it when the money is all balled up,like spit balls or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Boobie Monster
    It's great when it happens because it also prompts others to tip you too. BEST is if the customer gives it to another girl and has her do it for him.
    I posted about this around two years ago, but this is the first time I have seen an unpleasant reaction to it. I suppose it could look like a show-off type thing, and certainly I have seen it done that way, by a couple of egotistical types. And it does seem like a pain in the ass for the dancer to have to crawl around picking up money. But if it's done correctly, and especially if you know the dancer in question and have a good rapport with her, it is generally taken as the compliment it's meant to be.

    I started doing it when I became a DJ, especially for the dancers that have tipped me well, after they have moved on to another club, and I'm there on my night off. I too prefer to give the money to a dancer and have her do the honors--and this way no one can accuse you of trying to show off, it's all about making the girl on stage look good! In fact, two of the coolest, sexiest, and most professional dancers I have ever worked with did this regularly to each other, with the same money (so no one really spent anything) just to put on a show of it.

    On good nights, I will have an 'Outfit of the Night' award, and the prize will be 5-10$ of my money. In this case, if at all possible, I will go and do it myself, but quickly--no big deal, especially if it's just 5$ (the absolute minimum you can shower on a dancer, and even this looks stupid unless you do it just right). It's worth it to me to make a fuss over them, it gets the crowd going and tipping too, so I feel like I get it back at the end of the night anyways.

    The big advantage of doing it this way for the customer is also that the dancer knows she has been tipped more than 1$--I can't count the times I have been asked "Did you see who gave me this 20$ bill?!". You don't want to be that customer, do you, lol? Holding the bill up and making a big deal out it's denomination is tacky, and tipping 10-20 1$ bills takes too much time--thus the money shower.

    In future, though, maybe I will make sure the dancer won't have a bad reaction, as some of the above posters have said.

    Oh, and PJ, that's cool, I thought I was the only guy to make paper airplanes--this is also a fun way to tip a favorite dancer from the booth, lol.
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    Default Re: Pls explain why some men tip this way?

    I don't mind guys throwing cash as long as it is not in a rude manner.

    I don't like having to interupt my show to go pick up tips so I prefer my tips be set on the stage in some fashion or another so I can just do one sweep at the end of my set and then just go around thanking the tippers & asking them 4 dances

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    I really don't mind it either, nobody has ever made me feel disrespected. I do think for some guys it's to flash his money. This one guy came in once and started showering me with 20's and I could tell he was being flashy and trying to show off by his demeanor.

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    The club I've been in... when you put the tip on the tip rail... the girl will swat it onto the floor herself and when she's done she will crawl around and pick it up! So the only reason any of it is on the floor is because she put it there.

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