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    So a friend tells me tonite she joined a site. Ok, and shows me the magazine. WTF? She is fucking nuts, divorce the guy...

    (which she is part of now)
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    I mean give me a fucking break. Oh..... (site might not be up...Hmmmm)

    How fucking bizzare....

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    Bah.. I hate that crap. Don't get married if you're going to screw around.

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    LOL. She can't find an affair without joining a website? Why doesn't she just divorce the guy? I agree with Rhi, if you can't honor a commitment, don't make it.

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    I strongly feel that these websites are just more upscale home wreckers!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Bah.. I hate that crap. Don't get married if you're going to screw around.
    Exact-a-fucking-lutly. Marital or even relationship infidelity is utterly dispicable. If you no longer love or want to be with the person, break up or divorce. If you love your spouse/SO and want "more", suck it up and accept not having "more" - thats what a "committed" relationship is. It is complete selfishness and sociopathic self indulgence to do that to the person who professes to love you and YOU profess to love them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic
    LOL. She can't find an affair without joining a website? Why doesn't she just divorce the guy? I agree with Rhi, if you can't honor a commitment, don't make it.
    You know i even got desperate and asked her why she just did not go out with a person by going out....She even has her picture up and major details about herslef. I would love to put the picture up here... but can't.

    She likes to flaunt. So fuck her, i just think i might be pissed at her today at work, damn i met her hubby. He works hard, owns a business, and they have 2 small children. She is a SLUT.

    Pamela

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    My mother is exactly like your friend Pamela. All my life since she was little, she was always looking for a better man. She always had a man on the back burner just in case she got bored. Now she uses the internet as a tool and is on her 7th marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by showgirlschloe
    My mother is exactly like your friend Pamela. All my life since she was little, she was always looking for a better man. She always had a man on the back burner just in case she got bored. Now she uses the internet as a tool and is on her 7th marriage.
    Wow! 7th marriage! I am going to pick this co-workers brain today since she does not give a shit who knows she is on the hunt. I am not sure how many times she has been married, this may be the only one. She is 36 and kinda pretty, i guess.

    Friendly, but to blurt out that she is now on that site..."check it out." I was floored! I sure hope her husbaned is screwing around...And falls in love, dumps her ass.

    Problem now, i work with her (hospital) and have to be nice, when i don't care for what she is doing. again.......SLUT

    Pamela

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    if it's truly infidelity, thats crap and wrong! She should not have gotten married if she was going to play around...and before the kids I'd say they should split up if she wants that

    Now, I say if she wants sex, she has 1 man to go with. Sorry, but once you have kids I think "what a girl wants" comes second. Divorce when there's a reason, not just 'cause you're bored.

    However, if they BOTH want to play, and can do so in a way the kids don't lose their innocense, then MAYBE it's OK. MAYBE

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    Sneaking around and being dishonet is lame, but I like and practice the "open" marriage concept myself.

    A marriage should be whatever the participants agree on, not what "society" or who-ever-the-fuck says it should be.

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    Cyber flings, interesting. This truly is the cyber age, lol. I don't wana come across as rude Pamela, since i don't even know you mate, but people like that will never be happy because they look for faults in people, and thus will never be truly be happy with there other half.

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    It is definitely 'out there'.......My friend has been married for 10 years, and she is actually involved on that site. She claims she 'loves' her husband and doesn't want to leave a good thing (house, cars, income, etc). She posts profiles (or ads in the newspaper) for single males interested in sleeping with a married woman. She has had over 25 partners.

    Her husband is kind of clueless about it, surprisingly. He goes out of town often and she has her 'flings'.....He comes back into town, She does the 'house wife' routine.

    Her husband is going to Japen for a couple of weeks on business. She has found some males on that www.ashleymadison.com site and they are going on a few 'dates' this week.


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    It reminds me of what Chris Rock says about women being offered dick 3x a day on average, "can I get that for you ma'am, and oh would you like some dick with that?"

    Just another gimmick on internet dating. There are plenty of married/involved folks scouting on regular dating sites too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon
    Bah.. I hate that crap. Don't get married if you're going to screw around.
    I couldn't agree more. If people used more discretion in when,if they chose to get married and took it more seriously I think alot of the "bettter deal" obstacles could be alleviated .Not to imply that anyone should settle.But in any circumstance in life there will always be a better, more appealing situation.Or so we think.But most of the time it's just human nature illusion.Marriages end, people fall out of love.They stay together for different reasons,kids etc.They'll give you a bunch of bunk about how "they're so complex a person" to justify their deceit,[email protected]%$ing around.I don't buy it.Whatever works for you great.But I would never go into a marriage myself without the intention of being faithfull. I guess I keep it simple.That's what works for "me".Everyone's idea of a marriage is different I have learned.
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    I agree totally Sh0t!!!

    If a couple is in love, but agrees to have se on the side and they are both truely OK with it, then no biggie.

    But Pam, what your friend is doing is wrong!!!! And especially in the world of "swingers" is really wrong.

    I can't believe that she's doing this and then telling everyone about it. If you really wanted to see her put in her place, tell the hubby what's going on. I mean only if you thinks she really deserves it one, and two if you think he deserves better.

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