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    Hi all........I'm new here and I been browsing for some time now just trying to get the lowdown on some of the bad things that might occur while giving lap dances. Has any custy ever attempted to stick his fingers in your vagina and if so...what happened then? Or what about the wall dances? I heard from a report that wall dances take place in a private room where custys stand back against the wall and the dancer bends over with her backend facing the man, allowing him to finger her? According to this one report this happens....as anyone gave a wall dance before or let a custy finger you?

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    It happens a lot where customers will try it, especially in clubs where extras are prevalent. If other girls in your club are letting guys finger them, those guys will try it on you...

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    Things like this can happen in champagne rooms so on and so forth. When I was on the floor doing $20 dances a couple of menfolk tried it on me. As for me, I giggled coyly, gave a "No, no, no, naughty boy!" Lightly slapped his hand away and continued dancing while I smiled like a prom queen and imagined the pleasures of removing his eyelids with a carrot peeler.

    But I much prefer DJoser's idea. Look at the big brain on you, daddy-o!

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    Lucky me,I have never had a man try to finger fuck me dancing.I dont think I could refrain from breaking someones hand.I could not be nice and smile and say "Oh you naughty boy" like Nurse and just smile like a prom queen.Fuck that.Not after someone totally disrespected me like that.Make sure to get your money up front for your table dances.If any guy tries to finger you,than stop the dance and get a bouncer or break his fingers.And keep the money that is rightfully yours.

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    Most of the few that have tried that on me get a stern warning. Not many try after that. The rare ones that do get either a spike heel to the groin or a hand tight round the throat.

    Yes, I'm the violent one. No, I dont suggest it. Most clubs I know of have a good policy for guys like that. If they wont quit, you leave, tell a manager or bouncer, and they toss the guy, after getting the money the asshole owes you.
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    nope that hasn't happened to me yet *knocks on wood* I would probably just get the bouncer and make him leave. The other night a girl was giving a dance and was standing on the couch and had her vagina right, I mean right, in his face. I saw her start punching him in the face, I guess he had licked her completely! Yuck...but she was breaking the rules so she had it coming

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    I've heard of this happening, but it hasn't happened to me yet. I've had a lot of men try to lick my breast/rub my ass. We have an absolutely no contact club, but a lot of girls allow these kinds of things anyway, making it harder for those of us who don't do it.

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    Where I work it is a very small pool of regualr customers, so you have to stay in their good graces. You are also jsut out at the bar, not in a porvate room, so you don't want t6o sound like a bitch to the next guy. And oddly, we collect our money AFTER the dance; don't ask me why. My particular problem is they are laways tryiing to grab my crotch. When they try to grab me, I just twist away out of their reach. If they are more aggressive, I do the Nurse Betty "Oh you naughty boy!" Routine. If they still don't get it, I STOP dancing, explain politely to them that "that kind of behavior is strictly against the law and the rules of this club, and I don't care what the other girls are doing, I am a claean girl and I can't afford to take the slightest risk of losing my job, because I have a child to support. NO please let me fisinsh giving you one incredible dance. It will be SOOOO much better for you if you remember the rules, you can touch anywhere except my tits and pussy. OK?"

    I don't have many problems this way. sometimes I even have repeat customers who figure out that once the learn how to keep their hands to themselves, I am freer to do my thing and give them a good show.


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    I don't care where I work, what other girls are doing, or if some guy wants to finger me or not.. that is just NASTY... YUK ! ! You don't have to do anything you don't want, EVER.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser
    The best defense is to put in a tampon and hide the string.
    I wouldn't advise it. Wearing tampons on every shift won't protect against genital touching, but it will increase the risk of toxic shock syndrome, which can be fatal. Tampons also have traces of dioxin that accumulate in fatty tissue over time.

    Hand checking and naughty boy warnings work with most guys. For the remaining few, end the dance and have them tossed.

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    My question is,why would any dancer let the customer get as far as the general crotch area,much less let his finger go inside?????That is just some repugnant sh*t!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    I wouldn't advise it. Wearing tampons on every shift won't protect against genital touching, but it will increase the risk of toxic shock syndrome, which can be fatal. Tampons also have traces of dioxin that accumulate in fatty tissue over time.

    Hand checking and naughty boy warnings work with most guys. For the remaining few, end the dance and have them tossed.
    All that TSS hype is baloney. It's almost impossible to get TSS from tampon use and there have been very few documented cases of it. Tampon manufacturers put a warning on the leaflet just in case anyone miraculously did get TSS and decided to sue them.

    If you use the lowest absorbancy and take it out after your shift (or about 6 hours max) you should be fine.

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    Gee, I'm quite lucky here in Sydney then - very strict no touching here, we can't even be on the floor where they are (we have to be on a small stage about 2 feet away).

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2

    Hand checking and naughty boy warnings work with most guys. For the remaining few, end the dance and have them tossed.
    That's what I've done. And I won't keep on any skirt that covers me up during the dance. Guys who request leaving half your dress or skirt on will try to play with that area since its covered and hard for bouncers to see.

    A stern lecture IS appropriate. You need to inform them that women's soft bits are very delicate and jamming up there isn't going to get him anywhere.

    Can you tell I danced in Houston for a while, LOL?

    Never heard of a wall dance though, sounds like strip club folklore....

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    Quote Originally Posted by tearstearstears
    All that TSS hype is baloney. It's almost impossible to get TSS from tampon use and there have been very few documented cases of it. Tampon manufacturers put a warning on the leaflet just in case anyone miraculously did get TSS and decided to sue them.

    If you use the lowest absorbancy and take it out after your shift (or about 6 hours max) you should be fine.
    You are right I always use tampons when i am working.
    Of course i do not use them for protection of the finger fucking striptease
    oh my god i still can't believe that there are man outside who try to do this...

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    That has never happened to me, and I will never LET that happen to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    My question is,why would any dancer let the customer get as far as the general crotch area,much less let his finger go inside?????That is just some repugnant sh*t!!!!!
    I am going to quote myself and re-emphasize on this point.If there are any dancers out there letting the customers go that far with you,you need to stand your ground and put a stop to this f*cked up behavior.I don't even let the customers go even as far as my thighs or my stomach!!!!!These *ssh*les are on your turf,so make them play by your rules.
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    I'm with OTB. Once one girl in a club starts something like that, then everybody is forced to compete with it. That can pull a whole club down, and once club A goes down taht road, then club B down the street is sure to follow. I;m trying to work my way out of lapdance and extras hell now because one girl started giving extra services and priviliges to customers, and it has now infected the 3 bars on this street.

    If anybody is thinking of allowoing this or any such behavior, I beg of you,

    DONT GO THERE!


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    yeah it can be tough when other dancers allow that shit..... I've seen a fair share of Xtras since I moved to Tampa.... not fun ! I've had some customers try to pull stuff on me 2 but so far ( knocks on wood) I've been able to stop them in time...... a trick I've started using 2 gauge how the customer is going 2 behave in the nude clubs is 2 do most of the 1st song w/ my t-back still on..... if they don't complain or try 2 move it or take it off then I know he's probably gonna follow my rules

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    Thank you all for the responses, you've been great! I see that it could be a real problem where extras are the norm, hopefully I wont have to work at a place like that. Even if I did, I would take the advice given here. My thougts on this issue is that, it would be totally revolting and awkward to be stuck in the cuchie with some stranger's nasty fingers whose been scratching his ass, adjusting his sack, picking his nose or whatever else they do with there fingers. The only guy that'll ever poke his fingers in my box, is either my b/f or my hubby if I ever find one, lol.

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    From Health Canada, the national department of health. I added boldface for those who don't want to read the whole list.

    The following advice will help to minimize health risks related to the use of tampons:

    • If you have ever been diagnosed with TSS, do not use tampons.
    • Use the lowest absorbency that will meet your needs. All tampons licensed for sale in Canada conform to a standardized absorbency labelling system. This means that any tampon of a stated absorbency, no matter which brand, will absorb the same amount of fluid.
    • Read the information pamphlet that comes with tampons, and follow all directions.
    • Do not use tampons until your period begins. Do not use them as a precaution because you expect your period to start on a given day, or to control other types of discharge.
    • Wash your hands before and after inserting a tampon.
    • Change your tampon every 4 to 8 hours, and do not use tampons overnight.
    • Remember to remove each and every tampon.
    • Alternate the use of tampons with external protection.
    If you experience any of the symptoms of TSS while using a tampon, remove it and seek immediate medical attention. If you cannot reach your doctor, go to the nearest Emergency Care facility. Make sure the health care professional treating you knows you were using a tampon when the symptoms started.

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    Well, it's a well known technique in clubs where way too many customers, perhaps incited by hearing about and seeing the finger-fucking going on all around them, decide that they'll just go ahead and shove it in there.

    If the toxic shock syndrome from tampons was anywhere near as bad as some would have us believe, no one would wear the damned things.

    Furthermore, the health hazards, physical and mental discomfort experienced by those dancers--who prefer not to have some asshole they just met five minutes ago gleefully attempting to thrust his digits in them, and who could well have just done the same to another dancer with God knows what diseases--might be much worse than the slightly increased risk of a rare problem occuring from wearing a tampon a few extra hours on those nights they might decide to work.

    I cannot take credit for this clever little trick for discouraging guys hell bent on digital penetration. I heard about it being recommended by the house mom in the biggest and 'best' stripclub in Detroit.
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    My friend (a dancer) was hospitalized for toxic shock syndrome.. Apparently years of using tampons when NOT on her period created residue and bacteria leading to this.. she was VERY ill… I don’t recommend it.

    If you so happen to go ahead and do this, it is curtail you take regular baths to clean out your insides.. stay in the bath tub as long as possible!


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    I have NEVER been fingered in a dance;well there was this one time....BUT it was my hubby. And he didn't pay for the dance, so I think I'm still fine on that count.

    The last time a guy tried that crap on me I hit him in the nose with my forehead. "WHOOPS!!! My feet slipped!!!"

    I do not let guys go that far by any means.

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    DJ, I think your intension is worthy pointing out customers who applaud this sort of nastiness… It is disgusting and degrading to the industry!

    I would hope that FEW girls are this desperate and weak.. But for the customers who post about it, it makes us all look like desperate whores, which simply isn’t fair. .


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