okay. i have a real problem. i REALLY want to be an exotic dancer. juss thinking about it gives me butterflies. i've thought about it since i was like 14-15, although it only really started occurring to me as a REAL possibility in the past few days. buh it's something i would absolutely love to do and think i'd be really good at. i've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and i've told him in the past that i want to do this and he obviously said no flat out. buh the other day i brought it up seriously because i'm thinking about it waaaay more seriously than i ever have. and the very thought of it is driving him crazy. he says that say someday i dress up for him and dance or something that it's second hand because everyone has seen it already and that it's like our bodies aren't for each other anymore and that when i've when i've spent all night giving lap dances to other guys even though i'm coming home to him, i'm still coming home from being naked with other men and that REALLY bothers him. he's said repeatedly that he hates the idea. i just don't know what to do because i love him and don't want to lose him, buh i don't see dancing as the disgusting job he thinks it is. i'm faithful to him, i wouldn't ever cheat on him. to me, dancing is just a great, fun way to make money and have a good time. if you can do something that makes you happy and makes you wanna go to work because its' fun and you enjoi it then what's the problem? i don't think i would have a hard time separating work from my relationship because to me, the men i'd be dancing for would just be clients...nothing more. i'd have to act as they were more than just money i realize buh that's all it is, acting. right? i don't know. i really need some advice because i don't have anybody else to talk to and i would LOVE to hear alla ur opinions!!! please help me, i really am in quite a predicament! lol.thanks soooo much in advance!
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