Just wanted to ask some advice about club etiquette. I've been about 6 times total to 3 different clubs in San Diego and am not quite sure on a few things. Hoping to read some advice from others.
I've been to Pure Platinum (Topless only) and Deja Vu (Totally nude) by the airport, and The Main Attraction (Topless only) in Oceanside.
I usually just sit at the stage and tip $2 for an average performance and $5 for a great performance from a top 3 performer, which is usually only 2-3 times in the hour... i.e. ...A dancer that I would definitely be interested in a couch dance from. I usually stay for 1-2 hours.
My first question is why or what is the benefit of doing the VIP Room or Champagne Room dance over the couch dance? I believe it was 3 songs for $100 in the 2 clubs by the airport, the club in Oceanside only has table and couch dances. I was perfectly happy with the 1 song for $20 for the couch dances I received. I believe that they were the 1 way contact type. What is provided or different in the VIP room? Do they talk dirty or allow you to have your hands on them or just provide more frequent contact on your package? Why would I pay 3 songs for $100 instead of getting 5 of the couch dances?
My second question is about throwing money on stage during their performance. Would the dancer prefer to have the money thrown out during the performance or have the guy give them $5 at the end? I also don't understand the guys that wad up the dollar bills and try to hit the girl with them instead of just throwing a few dollars out in front of where they are sitting. Oh yeah, what about the guy with the dollar bill in his mouth and the girl biting it from him. Does the girl think, "What a Jackass?" Does she like that or does it mess up her routine? Is she flattered at all or does she think for the dollar in the mouth trick, that it should be a $5 or $10? I've only seen it 3 times and it's always been by the drunk guys who are pretty loud. I think it's cool and I get a chuckle out of it, but just wonder what the dancers think about it.
My last question for now is about Tips. What is the tip amount supposed to be for the $20 couch dance? What should it be if you get 3 or 4 songs from the girl? Should it be $5 per song or is it dependant on how many you get with the girl? I got 2 couch dances from 1 girl and gave her $50 and 3 songs from a different girl and gave her $80. Is that right or too low?
Thanks for any advice you can give. I have others, but will wait and see if I come across as a rookie that should hit the road or get some good responses. Thanks for your time.


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As if she was a great waitress and gave you great service (ie great dance..non-robotical) then yea I would tip...but whatever you can is always appreciated.

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