Results 1 to 11 of 11

Thread: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

  1. #1
    Curious Guest ThaiShorty's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2005
    Posts
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Angry Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    I got hired and danced for the first time today in a club that has stage dancing only. The girls working there were sooooo nice to me and helped me feel very comfortable. I was having fun (except for my knees-OW!) and getting a lot of positive attention from the guys there and then halfway through the shift this one creepy guy seemed like the kind of guy that has control issues with women and thats something that has always made me angry. I felt violated for the rest of the shift even after he left. Does this mean that dancing isnt for me or should I stick it out for a while and try to get used to it? Thank you so much!!
    Last edited by ThaiShorty; 04-12-2012 at 10:33 PM.

  2. #2
    Featured Member Sunshine73's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2004
    Location
    In Love!
    Posts
    1,621
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 13 Times in 11 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    This is an industry in which you are going to encounter a lot of weirdos. While I have personally never had anyone tell me what to do while onstage or make licking gestures at me, men have been known to "aim" dollar bills at private parts and throw them onstage. Men have also asked me if they could lick my armpit (my answer: No.) During lap dances (which your club does not have) men have made pervy comments, and one even barked at me like a dog during my perfomance LMAO!! I think you need to remember that their words and actions are a reflection of them, not of YOU. Don't take any of it personally. You are young and I think it is going to take some time and experience to see that there are some strange individuals who frequent the clubs. If their antics are harmless but weird, I let it all roll off my back, or simply ignore them, unless they overstep their boundaries. If you DO feel particularly threatened, by all means give a heads-up to the bouncer. Do whatever it takes, but don't let them get ya down!

  3. #3
    Member
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    TN
    Posts
    19
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    Good for you for having a bit of fun and doing well your first night. It sounds like dancing may be for you but you will not get used to "it." What will happen is that you will very quickly learn that you do no have to put up with that crap.

    You're new and it takes a while to get comfortable with yourself and your environment, but don't worry about it. You don't have to get used to feeling uncomfortable or being creeped out every night. Stripping is actually incredibly empowering and you will find that you walk taller and feel stronger than you've ever been (at least this is what happens with quite a few girls). You will soon be telling the guys that creep you out to "knock it off" or just avoid them completely (even on the rail). Maybe, just maybe, I'd put up with someone "darting" money at my coochie if they were $100 dollar bills.

    You do not have to do or put up with anything you don't want to. NO amount of money is worth making you feel bad about yourself.

    Have fun!

  4. #4
    mermaidnz
    Guest

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    its hard, but stick with it, if its something you really want to do...theres tonnes of nasty customers in stripclubs, but if you ignore them move onto the next guy you could meet a lovely deep pocketed guy to make you feel a lot happier.

  5. #5
    Veteran Member foxee555's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    319
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    Most guys are not like that. The ones that are I would ignore. If that doesn't work. Tell him that you don't do requests for a piddling dollar. And/or my famous line, throw his money back in his face and tell him "you need it more than I do".
    I am lazy and I like to party


  6. #6
    God/dess
    Joined
    Dec 2004
    Location
    London, UK
    Posts
    2,218
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 209 Times in 142 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    Quote Originally Posted by ThaiShorty
    I got hired and danced for the first time today in a club that has stage dancing only... I was having fun (except for my knees-OW!) and getting a lot of positive attention from the guys there and then halfway through the shift this one creepy guy kept telling me agressively to lay down and flip over, making licking gestures at me, stuff like that. He seemed like the kind of guy that has control issues with women and thats something that has always made me angry. He would also roll the dollar bill like a dart and aim to hit my coochie like it was a bullseye and after that I felt violated for the rest of the shift even after he left. Does this mean that dancing isnt for me or should I stick it out for a while and try to get used to it? Thank you so much!!
    One dancer I used to know ran into a similar situation of a guy licking his lips - said it was like dancing for a lizard - now maybe there's a line you can use on him if he tries it again.

    Phil W.

    PS: this same dancer also used to sell her knickers over the Internet. She kept being hassled by some guy for a pair, so in the end got fed up and put them on her dog until they were suitably soiled. Now there's an image for you.

  7. #7
    Featured Member screaminpeachez's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    Illinois/Iowa
    Posts
    817
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    one time this guy layed on my stage and asked me to sit on his face. so i yelled at him "why is your nose bigger than your dick?"

    stick it to them baby!

    you work them not vice versa! if you need to go back to the dressing room for a minute and just shake it off.
    "may your work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, dance like no-one is watching, screw like your being filmed and drink like a true Irishman "--anonymous
    "GOD is LOVE, but get it in writing"- Gypsy Rose Lee

    http://www.myspace.com/screaminpeachez

  8. #8
    Featured Member exotica17's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Somewhere over the rainbow
    Posts
    884
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    If I see a "licker"--GROSS--I will completely ignore them. I'm not quite sure what they think they are doing. As far as the throwing of money at questionable body parts, I don't mind. Sometimes I'll even use my cleavage as a target for money-throwing--kind of like a basketball game. And if they make the goal, I say "Good shot!" To me, that's all in good fun and hey, at least they are giving me money!

  9. #9
    Featured Member Lizette's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2004
    Location
    state and main
    Posts
    1,071
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 39 Times in 19 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    I tell these kinds of guys to leave my stage cuz I'm that kind of woman. If they make a scene, oops, they're kicked out of the club.

  10. #10
    Featured Member screaminpeachez's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    Illinois/Iowa
    Posts
    817
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    Quote Originally Posted by exotica17
    As far as the throwing of money at questionable body parts, I don't mind. Sometimes I'll even use my cleavage as a target for money-throwing--kind of like a basketball game. And if they make the goal, I say "Good shot!" To me, that's all in good fun and hey, at least they are giving me money!
    i agree but, i can understand if it's not expected it can be a little jarring
    "may your work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, dance like no-one is watching, screw like your being filmed and drink like a true Irishman "--anonymous
    "GOD is LOVE, but get it in writing"- Gypsy Rose Lee

    http://www.myspace.com/screaminpeachez

  11. #11
    Featured Member tragic-beauty's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    KC
    Posts
    1,150
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Help creepy guy threw off my mojo!!

    well you could take the dollar and throw it back at his head?


    had a girl at work do that with a kid who put 50 cents on the stage for a tip everyone laughed

Similar Threads

  1. creepy guy ...
    By innes in forum Camming Connection
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 09-18-2011, 02:06 PM
  2. Creepy Dude You Blocked is Being Creepy
    By bun in forum Other Work
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 04-28-2011, 12:02 PM
  3. What is it that makes a guy so creepy, besides the obvious?
    By mollyzmoon in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 04-24-2007, 07:07 PM
  4. Mojo Make Mojo Laugh!
    By MojoJojo in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 09-03-2006, 07:39 AM
  5. creepy old guy
    By breezy24 in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 02-05-2006, 01:58 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •