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    Ok Here I go, and I dont know when I'm going to stop! I'm 39weeks pregnant, the entire pregnancy the midwives said I'd most definitly go early. Well now that i'm 39weeks I feel overdue, so i'm going crazy about that.. Then as luck would have it, i lost my mucus plug friday morning (6am) yay! and started to cramp a little, so the hubby and mother-inlaw took me walking in the mall to try and start things up, i stopped by the midwives before we started and got checked only 1cm dialated and still long ok that sucks. So we go we have breakfast we walk all afternoon, go out for dinner, I had a glass of red wine, and when i got home a 4oz bottle of castor oil, and then sat on the couch, contractions started coming a little more frequently and a little stronger after all that. As of like 11pm they where coming 4-5min apart and lasting 1min - 1 1/2 mins. So we call the midwife and she says wait an hour or so if they get closer together or stronger go to the hospital, so i'm sitting there and they start coming 2-3min apart and i'm now yelling at everyone to take me to the hospital. So they take me, the midwife starts on her way there. I get there get checked and the cheif resident tells me i'm 2-3cm dialated but still long and my contractions are coming at a steady 2-3min apart. Great news I think, so they send me to walk around the hospital for 1hr, i get back and no cervix change at all, so they put me in a different room and give me meds to help because my back pain was so horrible, and they wanted me to get some rest since i had been at it since 6am the morning before (its now like 3:15am) so they give me Stadol and Phenegan. The drugs completely knock me unconscious within seconds and i'm out for hours, i came to in horrible shape , and what happens, THE MEDS STALLED MY LABOR!!!!!!!!! UGH!! THEY SENT ME HOME WITH NO BABY (WELL SHE'S STILL INSIDE) Oh my God am i pissed. All because these stupid idiots thought i needed sleep, what i needed was something to relax a little, and the baby out!!!!. So now i'm stuck here waitting for my labor to kick right in which seems to be taking forever and i want to kill the world!!!! Ok I think i'm done now. Any suggestions on how to get this up and going again?? or how to get this damn cervix of mine to cooperate??

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    HONEY. CALM. I know it can be VERY irritating to be pregnant for 9 months, and ready for the kid to be out. All you really can do is wait it out, I hate to say it. Or walk. Walk ALOT. Walk around your mall, your neighborhood if possible. Walk walk walk. Your cervix will cooperate when its ready to. BTW, did the dr strip your membranes? Ive heard that can help. My dr did mine and it wasnt bad at all. Sorry you feel so shitty, lol. Just lay back, go get a pedicure, having fun while your baby is still in there

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    ehhh...I feel your pain...although I refused to let my doc induce me until I was 43 weeks (which is 3 weeks late).

    Just take a deep breath and relax. I know it's hard to do now, but before you know it...you'll have the beautiful little baby in your arms...and time will fly by faster than you ever thought possible.

    Keep your chin up...I know you're frustrated...but it's going to be any day now.

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    I know that a mans sperm has something that they give women to induce labor. When I was having labor, but nothing else was happening my doctor told me to have sex. I had her 4 hours later.

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    Kraft Macaroni & Cheese... and A1 sauce.

    Works every time! Guaranteed.





    Btw... I'm TOTALLY serious about this.


    (*note: make sure yer packed and ready for the hospital BEFORE yer hubby makes this for you. )

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    Quote Originally Posted by kryssy
    I know that a mans sperm has something that they give women to induce labor. When I was having labor, but nothing else was happening my doctor told me to have sex. I had her 4 hours later.


    Am I wrong... or just horny... for wanting details??

    Seriously, tho... that's a damn awesome day for the two of you to always have to remember. Love it.

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    I hear ya! I was in labor for 32 hrs the first time. I'm so glad to hear all is doing well and the end is in sight. As everyone mentioned, keep walking and have lots of sex. Everything happens the way it is supposed to. Keep us updated and I wish you and your loved ones all the best on this very joyous occassion.
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    Thanks all, i'm feeling a little bit better this evening, nothing going on with the body yet, but I see my midwife tomorrow and i'm going to tell her that if she "accidently" broke my water while checking my cervix i wouldn't object. I'm also planing on asking her about stripping the membrane I read about that recently. Sex is out of the question the hubby is paranoid about the baby knowing whats going on, or having the memory of something thumping at her head,lol men are very paranoid. I'll try the Mac and Cheese and A-1 never heard of that method but it doesn't hurt to try. I'm due Friday (11th) i'm hoping things will have already kicked back in by then, and i'm praying that i dont have to be induced because of the labor being stalled the other night. Well i'm going to try and get some rest early tonight, that way if my water happens to break tomorrow and i go to the hospital they can't say i'm not rested this time. Cross your fingers everyone. and Thanks again

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    Quote Originally Posted by kryssy
    I know that a mans sperm has something that they give women to induce labor. When I was having labor, but nothing else was happening my doctor told me to have sex. I had her 4 hours later.
    It's not the sperm it's the orgasms. When you orgasm your uterus contracts, hence it sometimes helping to jumpstart things. Raspberry leaf tea is also known for helping to get things going (it encourages smooth muscle activity).

    ps - I was 2 weeks overdue with both of my girls and went into labor naturally the day before I was scheduled to be induced. I so feel your pain!



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    Semen contains prostaglandin which may possibly induce labor...rasberry leaf tea is said to "tone" the uterus, my midwife had me drinking 3 cups a day in the last trimester...it is not recommended in early pregnancy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyLeague
    Thanks all, i'm feeling a little bit better this evening, nothing going on with the body yet, but I see my midwife tomorrow and i'm going to tell her that if she "accidently" broke my water while checking my cervix i wouldn't object. I'm also planing on asking her about stripping the membrane I read about that recently. Sex is out of the question the hubby is paranoid about the baby knowing whats going on, or having the memory of something thumping at her head,lol men are very paranoid. I'll try the Mac and Cheese and A-1 never heard of that method but it doesn't hurt to try. I'm due Friday (11th) i'm hoping things will have already kicked back in by then, and i'm praying that i dont have to be induced because of the labor being stalled the other night. Well i'm going to try and get some rest early tonight, that way if my water happens to break tomorrow and i go to the hospital they can't say i'm not rested this time. Cross your fingers everyone. and Thanks again
    if you arent even due till friday, dont sweat it. first babies are usually late. she knows when it's time to come out

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    Got my Raspberry leaf tea all read just baught it yesterday, it also is supposed to cutdown on bleeding during delivery from what the midwife told me. In reguards to sex, its mostly the chemical in the sperm that gets labor going, but an orgasm is also supposed to assist because of the contracting of the uterous during it. Well, i'm going to go jump in the shower and head out for breakfast and my midwife visit. I'll give a baby update when I get home. Maybe if I get lucky my water will break while i'm out, and the next update will be the arrival of baby Haley

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    I was induced with my daughter, then they broke my water later on that day. I couldnt feel a single contraction until my water broke, then I needed some drugs a few hours later lol. I think the fluid acts as sort of a shock absorber. I donno though. But I was induced at around 7 am, had the baby by 930 that night. 3 hours after I had my epidural I was completely dialated, and had to not push till the dr got there. I was so drugged from the epi though that I told my grama I had to poop, lol. Then the nurse came in and checked me, and the babys head was all the way down and into the canal some. The nurse was like..dont push! I was like I dont have to push I have to shit lol. I had her out in 4 pushes though. Good luck!

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    Well the midwife removed the membrane today, sent me for a sono and Haleys approx size is 6lbs 5oz, she stretched me from 3-4cm dialated, and i'm 90%+ afaced, and they had me come home and drink castor oil to help induce the labor, and it seems to have worked, my contractions are about 3min apart right now, but not horribly painful so i'm waitting to wake the hubby for the hospital run. hopefully nothing stalls tonight, and all goes well. i'll keep everyone updated, cross your fingers

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    YAAAAYY baby come on out!!!
    I hope everything goes better from here!
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    that's your flaw
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    i made a half a cup of orange juice...and 2 table spoons of castor oil...not the car oil..lol....and alex was here 12 hrs later...


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    Wooohoo! Come out little Haley!!!

    Wishing you a painless-as-possible, and FAST delivery, Ivy!

    *Hugs*
    Good Luck Sweetie

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    thanks, timing contractions as i pop around the internet, they've been about 2-3min apart for about 45min now, but the pain isn't so bad yet so i'm staying home. They had me drink 4oz of Castor Oil and I mixed is in Sangrea (wine) the oil seems to be doing its job

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    Anyone who feels like chatting with me while i sit here timing contractions is welcomed to do so. My AIM name is Daisycrzy417 the hubby needs more sleep and i need to keep my mind busy

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    Sweetie.. Come on into chat.. We're all here and we'll keep you entertained until you're ready!

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    Ok never gone into chat before not sure how to go about doing this.

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    Just look under the Stripperweb logo on top of the page, then look to the right. Click "Chat", and it'll load for you.

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    ivyleague i can't believe it's time! i hope everything is going well... by now hopefully/maybe you've had the baby! i don't know.... but good luck! ahhh, reading this makes me anxious for aug when i'm due.
    i really hope your labor/delivery goes well, and that your little girl is healthy! congrats!
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    Good luck with your baby, hope you have a speedy delivery

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    It's been 2 days....

    "Mini-Ivy" popped?? Perhaps??


    Hope so. C'mon and face the world, tiny dancer!

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