Something simple? Something clever? Something out of the ordinary?
Obviously the whole package and the lead up to the "wanna dance" question is just as important but is there any 'final lines' that you just can't say no to?




Something simple? Something clever? Something out of the ordinary?
Obviously the whole package and the lead up to the "wanna dance" question is just as important but is there any 'final lines' that you just can't say no to?
To be honest, if the dancer has a body like yours I'm less interested in the line than in getting to the dance! So often just the simple question is best.
But if you're having trouble closing the deal, I think something clever that catches the customer off guard is the best way to break through their shell. One poster said something which made me laugh--that you should ask the customer if they think you are fat (they presumably say no), then ask for a dance. If they say no, ask if it's because you're fat. If you do that, then ask again--you might find that gets you some dances. It would probably sway me if I were sitting on the fence.
"All this time you were pretending
So much for my happy ending."
--Avril Lavigne
Myself, I can't really be sold; I'm pretty proactive in finding dancers I want to spend money on without their active participation. If I don't ask you, I'm probably not remotely interested.
Two cents.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
I dunno, i guess i always wanted a guy to wonder about me. So after a handshake, and a small chat, i would whisper in his ear that " You have got to try me.! (some guys, the ones who sit and watch you) Walk off and look back smiling. Makes some guys wonder, and watch you in action with others. Go back to him....Always.
You have got to be or feel very hot to say this however.Of course in a dancing kinda way.
Confidence out in the open!
Pamela





I make up my mind during the first few minutes of conversation. If I'm not interested, If I don't feel some sort of connection, there is no one thing any dancer can say that is going to change my mind. At least, nothing that I have heard in the past 20-odd years...


The line that compleately cought me off guard.
A buddy of mine and I were at a bar for lunch, after we ate she came by and said "would you like some dessert?"
Yeah I am corny that way, but it worked![]()




i think if you are genuine you can feel what the customer is comfortable with. if he wants silly, seductive or scandalous. be that, whatever is within your range. just be comfortable with what yourself and success is soon to follow
"may your work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, dance like no-one is watching, screw like your being filmed and drink like a true Irishman "--anonymous
"GOD is LOVE, but get it in writing"- Gypsy Rose Lee
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I agree with the others, both here and in the Hut. The final line you use isn't going to make much of a difference if the customer has already made up his mind (which he almost certainly has). The lead up is far more important than the question. Getting a good read on the customer should give you the clue on how to phrase the question. Instead of a 'standard' final line, have half a dozen in the back of your head, tailored for different personality types.
A dancer once asked me if I wanted a dance, and I said, "No, thanks for asking." She then cocked her head to the side, gave me her puppy dog eyes, and in a very cute voice she said, "Pretty Pleeeaase!"
She was just too cute. I took her by the hand, and we were in the back for a dance!![]()
The line that works best on me is no line at all. Treat me like a real person, show genuine interest in getting to know me without the phoney bullshit, and I'm all yours. Treat me with courtesy and respect and I'll do the same for you. Treat me like just another customer and I'll treat you like just another stripper. Your choice.
Friends Of Naked Dancing Ladies (FONDL)
How rude. Heh.
Just like i told my atf. No final sales will work. most guy have their mind made up their mind within 5 minutes of entering
if your walking around. watch for movement if a guy has his eyes on you longer than is polite then you got him. you just need to push him over the edge.
if your unsure about a cust sit down and engage idle chit chit spend some time
on them. depending on how busy it is. (give him the illision that he's more than a walking wallet)
if they get up and tip then move into the back row during your dance. they might want one go and find out.
if all else fails the the old deversion tactic. just like the bad pick up line. "you wanna come back to my place for pizza and fuck?" then when they turn you down say"what you don't like pizza?" feel free to come up with something less provocative. but if you can force i customer to think you might break thru the defenses if hes a regular.
and never get down about rejection. more than likely it's because you don't fit his vision of the perfect woman. when any guy meets you his mind performs billions of calcutions compareing you to his mathamatical average woman. he either want you or not. no reason to get down about it. each girl
preaches to a different croud.




God haven't posted here in ages. Anyways this got me to thining. The one "sales" tactic I don't like is to be overaggressive. Your not selling me a car! So don't act like a used car sales man.
The times I get a dance the girls seem genuine, and can carry on conversation about whatever.
Basiaclly I would say make the sale for the dance, just don't push like you need to know within the net 30 seconds.
There isn't really any line that works for me. Unless I've just gotten to the club, by the time a dancer walks up to me, I've already decided whether or not I want a dance from her. As a result, and I may be in the minority here, I actually prefer 'wanna dance'; unless I've gotten dances from her before, then a little chit chat is more than welcome and no magic line is necessary anyway.
I agree with Xanthus, there's a proper time for "wanna dance?" And that's when a girl sits down and talks for 5 minutes or so, then uses the line to basically mean "that's all the free talk you get, either buy a dance now or it's time for me to move on." I like that because it give me an opportunity to either indicate that I'm going to spend money on her or that I have no intention of doing so and want her to move on. If I like the girl, at that point I will tell her that I plan to buy alot more than one dance. And if I don't especially like her, I can gracefully say "no thanks but thanks for stopping by to say hello," at which point she will leave and I can look for another girl. If the girl just sits there talking and never asks "wanna dance" it can be a problem getting rid of her if you aren't interested. So the "wanna dance" helps us both.
Friends Of Naked Dancing Ladies (FONDL)
I agree with Xanthus, there's a proper time for "wanna dance." And that's when a girl sits down and talks for 5 minutes or so first, then uses the line to basically mean "that's all the free talk you get, either start spending money or it's time for me to move on." I like that because it give me an opportunity to either indicate that I'm going to spend money on her or that I have no intention of doing so and want her to move on. If I like the girl, at that point I will tell her that I plan to buy alot more than one dance. And if I don't especially like her, I can gracefully say "no thanks, but thanks for stopping by to say hello," at which point she will leave and I can look for another girl. If the girl just sits there talking and never asks "wanna dance" it can be a problem getting rid of her if you aren't interested. So the "wanna dance" helps us both, as long as it's not said too soon.
Friends Of Naked Dancing Ladies (FONDL)
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