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    ok, this is a bit of a bitch..


    theres a girl at my club....now shes ok looking, and has been dancing for a few years at my club (maybe 4 years or so off and on) she is one hell of a primaddona....she gets away with EVERYTHING she does ( is late to stage-she doesnt get fines,comes late to work etc) all cos she brown noses the "housemom" hard out. she sucks up BIG TIME. which is cool, if thats how she wants to work.

    but shes also a hell of a bitch to other girls ( no not just me!) shes got 3 other dancers she talks to and the rest shes either a bitch too, makes life difficult, or just totally ignores.


    the thing is, shes also a bitch to customer ( ie "gimme a tip" "uhh i have no money" "oh well fuck off then!!") she is just nasty.

    AND SHE BANKS!!!!!!!!!!
    wtf is with that. im sure guys dont dig it, but she always is a top earner... and all the other girls are "scared of her" tom some extent, and no one really has a go at her for anything she does...everyone just lets her have her own way. it sucks, if she does do something nasty to other girls, we all know we cant "tell on her" to the housemom, cos shes all buddy buddy with her.

    its hard, cos the club i work in is NOT a bitchy club, is really down to earth kinda place and all the girls generally get on really well...ie no fake friendships and no bitchniess



    argghhhhh

    sorry had to vent.

    had issues with her last night


    anyone else have difficult girls like this working withthem??

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    The customers are probably also afraid of her. Just stay away from her if possible. Karma's a bitch. I've worked with those type of people before, they are essentially sociopaths (right erotictonic?) and have no remorse for what they do. Stay FAR away and don't let her suck you into her drama.............

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    Be patient. She'll make the wrong person angry sooner or later. I'm surprised customers don't say anything, even to be funny ("If I wanted a b*tch to yell at me, I woulda stayed home!")
    It could be worse, I worked with a bipolar girl who wasn't going anywhere because she was pals with the family that ran the bar. Customers did mention her bad attitude, and it cost her money. But she was such a messed-up person, I stopped being irritated by her and felt more sorry.
    Heck, nice dancers don't even last forever anywhere........she'll be gone sooner or later.

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    katrine, come here and put her in her place!! haha

    ive always just kept out of her way, but tbh its becoming hard when i see all these other dancers too scared to tell her what they think...grr

    heh maybe i should print this out and remove my pic etc and stick it on the dressing room wall...see if she picks up on it?! muh.

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    I have a few suggestions, but they'll get my post deleted. Actually though, she'll hang herself sooner or later. The last dancer like that I worked with caused not one but two gunfire incidences at our club (the last ending in a fatality- it was the Carribean, folks) with her bad attitude and lawbreaking. And then she had the gall to cry to the owner that "no one here likes me anymore." No kidding, hon.

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    ahh but its worse then that...everyone DOES like this chick...at least to her face...managment loves her, other dancers think shes so great cos she banks ( yet behinde her back say shes all sorts of things!)

    i dunno if she will ever change her ways, shes always been like this as far as i remember.and i duno if she will leave anytime soon

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    as long as a person like this is rewarded for her behavior then why would they change ? As Dr. Phil says "hows that working out for you ?"

    If people would just stop rewarding those who behave like that then the behavior would change.

    I guess the real question is how does anyone get others to see that very simple truth.

    I wish I had the answer but well, like most people I don't

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    we just had a girl fired from my club who did that. not only that but she was dirty with the customers- chewing on the crotches of customers pants during $10 dances, letting guys finger her in vip, etc. not only that but she would hustle custys away from the stage (a no-no at my club) and from other girls. she was bossy and rude to girls. said nasty things against other girls to custys. she just did everything to push on everyone's buttons. i almost punched her. my club is too small for that crap. i mean, i make money and so do other girls, but we dont have to be dirty, bitchy or cut-throat for it. i told her how i felt to her face politely the first time and told her how things work around the club. then she pissed me off repeatedly, despite warnings. so i yelled and punched a table. me and the other girls went to management. she got fired. end of story.

    in other words, pull her aside and have a manager or someone else present (bouncer? dj?). if you can get other girls in this the better- she'll realize it's not just one person who feels this way. when stating how you feel, say things like, ' i dont understand what i've done to piss you off so much', or ' i feel that something's wrong, is it anything we've done?' this makes it look like she's at fault without you accusing her of it. if you can name a particular incident and have witnesses, go for it. this helped me when people saw the way the girl i mentioned above was acting.
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    hmmm thats a good idea toxic.

    but its hard cos, managment is on her side, and will no doubt tell US to leave if we dont like her, she doesnt do anythign dodgy in lap dances ( that ive heard of) and theres not anything wrong that she does.

    she is just a dick. lol shes so up herself, yet is rude to custy and dancers, but makes the club money...so its kinda hard. she kinda pushes the boundries but isnt stupid enough to cross them....kinda wish she would sometimes. then maybe she would get fired?

    it was different when there were other bitchs at this club ( 3 years back tho) she shuttup then and did what THEY said. now she thinks she can rule the roost and just be plain nasty.

    grrr

    its even more fustrating that she makes money and custys keep coming back to her, and requesting her !!


    ( and no im not just jelous of her!!)

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    In my book, what you described on how she treats customers would get me to:

    1. Tell her to find a new job, not in sales; and,
    2. Complain to the manager about how shitty she treated me.

    I've been in sales for too damned many years to treat ANYONE like you described.
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    Get with the other girls and discuss it with the house Mom going in numbers is far more effective then just your personal complaint.
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    I am so glad this thread was started because at my club there is a STRICT NO TOUCH POLICY. However, there is a few girls who like to work around it. And the other day-the first time a bouncer wasn't keeping an eye on me in a private dance, I had a problem with a customer who is a regular. I don't think it is fair for other girls to break the rules to make more money...Then, other girls like me, end up in bad a spot!!!

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    She's probably a top earner because mgmt and the house mom send customers her way. I doubt she gets money from her charm and magnetic personality.

    My former club would send customers to specific dancers, which really made me mad because I lost many chances to present myself and make a sale.

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    I guess we've all dealt with dancers like this to some cailbur or another. My advice to you is to ignore her. Don't let her walk on you, and if she tries politely put her in her place. It's best if you stop letting her get under your skin and let her do your thing while you do yours.

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    Mermaidnz, have you ever watched the movie Mean Girls? Your story kind of reminds me of the plot line of that movie. I saw a lot of similarities between the social depictions in that movie and how social highairchy is in the strip club enviroment.

    Anyway, the nasty girl you are working with may be banking off of the submissive element in your customer base. They get off on having beautiful women be mean to them. There is also the whole fetish of financial domination that is starting to become more well known in western society. Another submissive behavior by men who want women to be mean to them and demand money.

    If she has worked at your club for a while, these are the kind of guys that she is attracting. I could see how a speciality type of personality could bring guys in from far away. I am very open (and enjoy) foot fetishists. I make good money letting guys fantasize about my feet. Many girls I have met think foot fetishists are wierd, and won't indulge the fantasy, therefore I bank!

    Just a thought, although I am usually wrong anyway!


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    Hey mermaidnz

    Look I know this girl makes you very very angry...But she will hang herself...I know you would like to smack her in the mouth,, but keep your composure its much much better this way...

    Shes a lowlife...She will get hers in the end....I can promise you that...Just don't say anything to her,, or if she says something roll your eyes....Don't buy into her drama,,although I know she gets on your nerves.

    Plus management could be talking shit about her as soon as she turns her back,, trust me....and she probably tips really well...thats reason for that...

    Just do your job...Let Karma swing around and smack her right in the face.

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