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    what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    here the setup

    i went in saturday to talk to my number 2.
    because she has one of the sharpest minds i've ever seen in a woman.
    she has a deep understanding of all things men and is wise beyond her years.
    i sat and talked with her for a good fifteen minutes. after thanking her for wonderful insight into the problem i was having. then got up and left almost imedaitely.

    on sunday i decided to go again because i knew number 1 would be there and that sunday are always slow so their wouldn't be alot of demands on her time.
    after she does her stage dances. she comes over and sits down. after some idle chit chat she says "i heard you came in last night?" with the underlineing thought of "you knew i wasn't gonna be there saturday, why did you come out?" and just a hint of jealousy in her voice. after a few seconds that seemed like an eternity. i explained that i came into talk my number 2.

    just wanting some feedback. what would you do in that situation?
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    Hmmm, I'm a little confused here.
    Is this a question about two strippers, two girl friends, or two wives?

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    You were honest, what else could she expect? That's all you owe anyone.

    "Cheating on your fav" Hrm methinx things have gotten confused. Yeah, I've known dancers who have gotten territorial, but it's silly. It's a SC, and it's a fantasy. You don't own her, she doesn't own you. You mentioned you go in on Sunday, cause there are "usually less demands on her time." I do a similar thing, but if she does go give a dance to another customer, is she "cheeting" on you? Of course not, she's just doing her job. If you talk with another dancer you're not cheeting on her. Heh. You're there to have a good time. If you choose to have a "fav" great. If you find another dancer who you can have a good time with, than so be it. Either your #1 will find a way to win you back, or find another custy. Pulling the guilt trip is poor salesmenship and petty...bleh.

    If she wants to give up her regular over something this silly, you may want reconsider who is #1.

    One of the reasons I enjoy hanging out with my fav dancer is cause she doesn't get caught up in that kind of silly drama. If another dancer is talking with me, who cares? Now if another dancer tried to hustle me while she was sitting with me, that might cause some tention between them, but she wouldn't get mad at me.
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    She is insecure and thinks the other dancer will take her sugar daddy/customer away. I had a regular custy, and when other girls would try to hustle him, I wouldnt get mad. Its their JOB. And hell, if a girl had a regular, and he came in and the dancer had finished with him for the night and he was still hanging around, I might go and sit and chat with him. Its all part of the job.

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    There's no such thing as cheating on a dancer. Does she have other customers? Then you can have other dancers. If she gives you a hard time about it, it's time to move on. She's not your girlfriend, you're not her boyfriend.
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    her response was "Ohh". i explained that she kinda like my shrink she helps me deal with problems.

    to clarify

    #2 is most experienced one their and is generally the mother figure to all the other dancers
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    Who the fuck cares what the other dancer thinks? YOU pay HER. Remember that. She isn't doing you any favors. LOL Just like dancers hate it when customers get all "obsessive" over what they do and who they talk to...your jealous dancer friend needs to remember it goes both ways.

    I am surprised (not really) that you are all "concerned" about the etiquette here. Next time she starts to bitch about something, just put all of your money away and tell her that little girls who throw temper tantrums and don't know how to share lose everything.

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    I echo what everyone else has said. While it's great that you and your #1 have this rapport, she needs to understand that you know other people in the club as well as her, and that just because you come in on a night that she's not there, you're not "cheating" on her, you're just coming in to see someone else. Just like she's not "cheating" on you if she spends time with another customer who comes in regularly to see her. Now, if you'd come in the night before, then not come in to see your #1, *maybe* she could have a beef with you, if you've been somewhat regular.

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    When my regular comes in I love to spend time with him not only for the good convo but also because he takes really good care of me- money wise. BUT, if I get asked for dances while on stage or something he totally lets me go for it and he gets dances from someone else while I'm busy- it's not that big of a deal.

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    I have a few regulars and I personally don’t care if they get dances from other girls BUT if I see my regular getting dances from someone else before me, then comes to me for more.. he wont get as good of a dance from me.... I don’t want them rubbing my back after he was rubbing theirs… He must wash his hands first and or use had sanitizer.


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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    Do you think maybe SHE was just making convo and letting you know that she cares?
    I don't mind who anyone gets dances fom as long his pants are still dry.. BUT I will ask a customer what he thought of a girl's dancing, I won't say I'm jealous, but some customers do like to know that we noticed them doing something besides only spending money on us. It shoes that we do see them other than when they are sitting right in front of us.
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    that's true.

    i'm not mad/upset about it. just fould it odd that it happened. Didn't expect the othergirls/staff to be paying that much attenion to what i'm doing. i was hoping to duck in talk to the no 2 maybe get a dance and duck out.

    guess i'm just to noticable.

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    lol, if you are a regular in there, you will be noticed. It's weird, but in dancer world the staff and dancers alike notice everything. This can be actually work out for you if they are busy, but a server or bartender knows what you drink or if a dancer likes you enough to leave the guy she was talking with to come spend time with you.
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    I would hope they wouldnt get as jealous, the new girls seem to get that way.. I had one girl get mad at her friend for sitting w/ me... she said "I saw him first" LOL

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    I was in sales for years. I cherished my customers and didnt want to share them with competitors. I dont see that things are all that different in strip clubs.

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    I have two favs who work in two different clubs that are 50 miles apart. If I go to club A and get a dance from Fav #1 on a Friday night, Fav#2 in club B will know about it on Saturday afternoon when I go to see her. You did it in the same club, you didn't stand a chance! Dancers just know. Was it "cheating"? No. Should you worry about it? Hell No. It's your money and your business.
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    ummm...these girls dont own you and you dont own them...
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    I'm kind of in the same situation. My fave dancer informed me last week that I'm only allowed to get dances from 3 other girls in the club (who happen to be her friends) IF she's not there. I took it as a joke, b/c that's all I'm going to take it as. She gets all of my $$$ every time I go and she's there, so if I go and she's not there, I'm going to get dances from whom ever I please. She keeps making little comments like that when she dances for me, but I take it as a joke. She wouldn't appreciate me saying "my friend can't buy dances from you b/c I'm possessive." I tell my friends to give her $$, part of being a "fave". Perhaps she was joking with you. That's how I would take it. No one owns anyone else unless there's a band and some papers.
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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    Quote Originally Posted by DSUsb19
    No one owns anyone else unless there's a band and some papers.
    And not even then.

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    Default Re: what do you do if you get caught cheating on your favorite dancer?

    Nothing, since I figured out that she cheats on me, too.
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