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    Hi girls I dont mean to sound negative but I was wondering what peoples experiences of the other girls in their club are. All girl places ten to be tense anyway (i went to an all girls school) and im worried about bitchiness and fighting.iv heard some bad things about some girls at clubs and im a bit worried because im not the type of girl that likes to get involved in all that. what do you think?

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    it depends on the club, where i work all of the girls are nice and supportive. there will always be drama in the works place when women are involved. you really can't get away from it.

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    Whenever you get 30+ hormonal women in a small atmosphere together there will always be fighting and cattyness. The trick is not to be in the center of it. Don't let them get the best of you, and try not to get involved in all the drama.

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    LOL
    Kit hit the nail on the head and drove it home!!!!
    glad she said it!

    In this business,the "mean"girls are your competition,so are the nice girls.
    Both will extend some love,but the moment you come between them and thier money,they will all seem "mean".

    Dont sweat it.
    Do your thing,make few friends with your peers,and retire into your dreams.

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    In my experience, the meanest, trouble-making, crap-talking dancers are either ugly & don't need to be stripping, or are crazy in the head.
    As soon as management has had enough of them, they gotta hit the road. I mean, a witchy girl can only f*ck so many managers/ owners before they get tired of her.
    This business runs on high turnover, ass-kissing and fresh meat. More often than not, girls who step on too many toes don't get anywhere.
    You should be actually grateful when a woman proves she's mean and untrustworthy. I've heard it said that "The ones you gotta look out for are the ones who are sweet to your face, but behind your back...."

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    In my experience, the meanest, trouble-making, crap-talking dancers are either ugly & don't need to be stripping, or are crazy in the head.
    As soon as m...anagement </SPAN>has had enough of them, they gotta hit the road. I mean, a witchy girl can only f*ck so many managers/ owners before they get tired of her.
    This business runs on high turnover, ass-kissing and fresh meat. More often than not, girls who step on too many toes don't get anywhere.
    You should be actually grateful when a woman proves she's mean and untrustworthy. I've heard it said that "The ones you gotta look out for are the ones who are sweet to your face, but behind your back...."
    Well said....



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    i am also very scared about this. i am not one to fight at all. one of my friends works at a club near here and she says the girlss stole and got into fistfights. i would try to stay out of everything. but i'm worried abut getting beat up or something for being new. i really hope its not that bad and i plan to stay away from that club.

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    Exactly Jess!I dont wanna sound overly dramatic here but im scared about how they might treat a new girl and i dont like the idea of all this stealing and stuff. At a local club (one i dont plan to join) I heard of the queen bee (the lapdancer of the year title holder) didnt like some new girl on her territory so she set her hair on fire and kicked her down the stairs (and this is in a relatively upscale "nice" place) and im also scared of girls who r nice 2 ur face and cruel behind ur back. i dont have the best body and i dont need girls 2 be cruel about it (its not horrendous i just dont have giant implants and tight abs-yet!) it kinda sounds like u cant trust anyone and realy make friends with anyone.

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    Choose your friends carefully and even if you think you know them, be careful anyway. Lock your purse in your car, and carry your money, keys, and smokes with you, Or Keep them in a littel everning bag (NOT your real purse with your day runner, ID, credit cards, etc.) If somebody wants to use your phone, you are running out of minutes. If somebody wants to borrow money, yu need it to apy a bill. Get a suitcase tht locks and a good lock for it, and keep that key on you.

    Take care of all your things all the time. THen you will not get anything stolen from you. I have worked with girls who repeatedly have left thier money in their purse in plain sight in the dressing room, and are REPEATEDLY surprised wehn money comes up missing.

    Stay out of fights. Don't ever take sides or try to prevent a fight or break one up. If you sense one coming on, go in the bathroom. Or out on the floor. Or wherever the fight is not.


    Most dancers are pretty good people and will watch your back if you watch theirs. You will get to know whom to trust and whom to avoid. Don't let the rumors scare you!


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    I seriously doubt that it's gonna be THAT bad you two. Who has time for that? You know a lot of those women have other jobs? What grown woman with a day job, husband and children has time for that? I haven't even seen an argument yet.

    Just don't act intimidated!! Why would they set your hair on fire if they thought you had a gun? Or were a maniac? You should be more worried about the customers or male workers not being rapists. That's why they don't pat YOU down, they expect you to protect yourselves.

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    It really has nothing to do with how old you are.In some of the more upscale clubs being bitchy or drama is not allowed and is a reason for being dismissed.

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    When your around a bunch of half bleeding cramping raging hormonal woman and money there will be no doubt that there will be drama.
    Go to work what ya came for: money.
    Friends are way down the list (at least for me),...be courtious and polite but dont let anyone run over ya. Lock up your stuff when you leave the locker room in case of those really mean ones. Dont worry its probably not as bad as high school.
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