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    Asking about her job

    I usually ask questions about her job as a stripper when I have private dances, just out of curiosity how it is like working in the field. They're like: what she does during the day, where she lives, how long she has been working, how she deals with stinky guys... I don't think they're too personal. I found some girls really like those kinds of questions. Some just answer yes, no.
    What do you think about this? Is it OK to ask about her job?
    Thanks for advising.

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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    Unless you "know" (i.e have been her regular for a while, know her outside the club) the dancer, it isn't really appropriate to ask her where she lives. I know you mean by city, but some dancers still have a problem with that question. Other than that, a good rule of thumb is, if you ask two or three of those questions and have gotten one-word answers, stop asking. It's probably annoying her. If she likes answering, ask away, just try not to get too personal. How do you know you're getting too personal? She'll let you know. Some girls, like my fave, would rather talk before and after the dance, but not during.
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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    I like talking to most customers during dances, but personal questions should be a no-no. I know I get defensive if someone asks me where I live, etc. It's just a little too stalker-ish. Talking to a girl about her job is alright, I don't see a problem there.

    On the other hand, some girls would just rather give you your lapdance, and prefer to concentrate on the sensual experience, not 20 Q's about themselves. As was already mentioned, if you are getting one word answers, it probably makes her uncomfortable.
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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    WHy are you asking? If you really ARE curious, that's cool. If you just feel like you have to keep a convo going, for whatever reason, then don't worry about it. You are not under any obligation to keep talking when you are paying for a dance.

    I have done some pretty good dances while simulataneously discussing something we have in common, and then I have done some AWFUL dances becasue the guy was firing unrealted questions at me faster thqn a pitching machine. It was like being interviewed! So I woudl say it all depends on whether the convo is rolling along nicely or feeling stilited.


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    i find it's fun to catch them of guard. like when she does bring her head in real close. i'll say something in her ear along the lines of "i hope he relieses how lucky he is." or "i've been haveing this strange dream, i keep hearing this voice saying
    "if you build it she will come" and then i see a stage with a pole in my living room." guess it means i really like u or or i have a thing for kevin conster?"

    their nothing quite as sexy as a naked women laughing.

    i spend alot of brainpower trying to catch my fav off guard.

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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    Yeup I think you do have a thing for Costner! JK
    Personally I dont like being asked where I go to school, area of city I live in, what clubs I go to....just too personal for me. Things that are club related,not related to my money or doesnt have to do with talking shit about other dancers...go right ahead ask away. There is some certain type of ettiquite with SC conversation (unless your a reg).
    But like Colleen said dont worry about keeping up with conversation or keeping it going for that matter....relax enjoy yourself, have a few laughs and dances.....*boom* great customer status.
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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    I hate being 'interviewed' ,its happens sometimes...i olweys lie ,i never say any truth about myself, i feel protected that way

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    Default Re: Asking about her job

    I don't like answering questions about my work or myself. It's no one's business.

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