I use my real name as my first choice (and preference) of 'stage' name. Since no club can have two girls with the same name I have also chosen a second ("back up") name to use which is fake.
When someone asks "c'mon what's your real name" ... I say "my stage name is my real name". If they continue to persist and don't believe me... then I will make up a fake real name just to satisfy them (some patrons (not customers) can be that annoyingly persistant and argue with me). Whether I tell them the name I'm using is my real name or give them another name as my real name.... I always inform them "That it is useless for you to know my real name as no one at the club will know who you are speaking about as they all know me by my stage name only".
I'm personally not worried about security as no one can stalk you based upon knowing your first name only. They need to know soooooo much more information. Besides, in this day and age, if someone is really determined to stalk you.... "if there is a will there is a way". It isn't like I'm totally dismissive about personal safety just that I don't find I need to adopt another name for security/safety reasons.
As for the fantay, fun aspect and separating my stripper self from my real self... I don't really ascribe to all of that... as the aspects I use as part of my stripper persona at work are parts of me... I'm a natural flirt, I love performing, and so on are parts of me I won't deny... I just "exagerate" certain aspects whilst at work. As for the fantasy and fun... that's why strippers don't have a formal last name or the environment is 'normal' in any way.... that's just part of the experience... having a 'fake' name won't necessarily 'add' to this (nor will it take away from it).
So there you have it. I use my real name as my first preference. If I can't use my real name, then I have another 'fake' name to use (my "back up"). For competitions and anything else, I have a more "full" stripper name (two names which is actually my real name and my "back up" name together).
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