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    Are you bothered by customer looking you in the eyes?

    I was in tonight visiting my 2 favorites.

    When number 2 was up. i always watch her eyes. when she's on stage. after the dance I asked "why do you seem so bothered look into yours eyes?"
    she replied because she is shy.

    i know why i do it. i have a hair and face fetish. generally the only thing i'm interested in. not to say that she isn't hot. just those two things are why i picked her and my number 1.

    i think it's just she's not used to guys focusing on non traditional areas. (boobs/butt)

    anyone else have any input?

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    Oh that's gotta delve deep into each individual's emotions and psychologica state. I personally don't mind it unless they are doing so with some sort of creepy look in their eyes LOL. Maybe some girls ARE shy, beyond the 'oh hey I'm naked' part. Maybe eye contact makes it personal beyond a point that is comfortable to them. Who know? I mean I've known people who hate making eye contact in general, never mind dancers in a strip club. That's gonna be a tough one to solve.
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    some times guys look at my eyes during a lapdance. I think it's kinda weird considering my pu$$y is right in front of them, but hey, whatever floats your boat. Just look back at them and smile so they will be happy.

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    Only if they make slight negative exspressions at what they see. Otherwise I know im naked or scantily clad so I think they are going to stare.
    Except the ones that just glare in a stalker way ...thats just plain creepy.
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    I'm an eye person. It doesn't bother me in the least, that's how I sell my dances anyway.
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    It can make some people feel very uncomfortable!
    Personally most of the time I don't mind infact i quite like it sometimes, but some of the time I feel irratated by people looking into my eyes non stop. It really depends on who it is and how they're doing it. The irritating ones generally want to hold my hand at the same time as if the whole experience is going to be really meaningful, or they have an airy fairy look on their faces, lol.

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    I've always been a fan of eye contact. So many things can be expressed just through one's eyes. I've always found that the people I've had true chemistry with are ones where I can almost have a complete conversation with them, without saying a word. We could be on opposite sides of a room and still be able to communicate with simple expressions, and of course one's eyes are a big part of that.

    I mean it's not like I have tunnel vision. Just cause I focus on one's eyes, I can certainly still appreciate the rest of her beauty with my peripheral vision.



    Often times the dancers I remember most are because of something special about their eyes. Once knew a dancer with amazing blue/grey eyes that changed hue in under different light or by the angle you looked at them. My favorite dancer has bright green eyes that just light up the room....
    "...her eyes would through these airey regions stream so bright,



    that birds would sing and think it were not night..." - Romeo and Juliet

    One of the reasons I was drawn to my fave dancer is because of how comfortable she is with eye contact. There will be times when she takes the stage and we'll just lock eyes. She may even go and shake her booty or show off for someone else, but we'll still keep eye contact.



    I've also met some dancers who are shy or avoid eye contact. I've seen some just close their eyes and basically just throw their cookie in your face, assuming that's what one wants to see anyway. One time I met a dancer who started to do this, and then realized I was still trying to make eye contact. She said I was the first person she noticed who did this and thought it was really cool. In a way, she was flattered that someone was interested in more than just T&A.

    For me, eye contact is great. Just as long as it's not done is some kind of freaky psycho way.
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    I'm an eye contact person. It's the way I pull someone into the "fantasy". I've always been someone who makes direct eye contact and it's never bothered me. But, eye contact for me is how I know if someone is interested in a dance. It's also how I grab someone who may have been borderline before.

    It's all about the eyes.

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    Eye contact is key...just don't look at them like you keep your favorites in a meat freezer and you'll be fine.
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    I actually asked a customer about this when I was doing a private show with him, and he wasn't looking at my kitty, but at my eyes. I asked him why and he said he was embarrassed to stare at it, and didn't want me to think he was a sleaze. So he felt my eyes and my tits were the safest places to look.

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    Not at all, I dig eye-contact. I'll make eye-contact with several guys in the audience while I'm on stage, lately however, more often than not they'll look away when I do that.

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    A few guys make a huge point to stare at my eyes the entire time like they are trying to prove that they are gentlemen and not horny goats. Perhaps they think it will score them brownie points, more mileage, a date, etc. Not really, but I will let them think that I care and appreciate it.

    I always maintain eye contact because if they are going to do something sketchy, you can usually see it in their face first before they take action.

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    I like eye-contact and such, but mostly what happens is I'll smile into someone's eyes for a bit, maybe a giggle, and then they'll say "what??" uhm... nothing? Just being happy?? ;P
    Had one guy that just stared. No change in expression, no flirty looking-away and looking-back, just staaaaaare. that makes me uncomfortable.
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    So, inside a strip club, a woman might see a guy looking at her eyes and say "hey, my breasts are down there".

    Indeed, it is bizzarro world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    So, inside a strip club, a woman might see a guy looking at her eyes and say "hey, my breasts are down there".

    Indeed, it is bizzarro world.
    That's a funny one!

    I don't mind eye contact, I use it a lot, but I also smile flirtatiously when I do it. Sometimes when a guy makes a point of doing it the whole time you are dancing, that creeps me out. Like when bend over in front of them and they are looking past your booty to find your eyes. It's like, hey buddy, look at my butt damnit.

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    I can tell alot about someone by gazing into their eyes for a few seconds. Pupil reaction, gaze lock or aversion. The facial expresion exhibited at moment of 'contact". It is also a fairly honest form of communication, as it takes a lot of skill to blank it out entirely or to show false impressions. It is a subtle form of body language and well worth learning to understand. While the eyes may not be the window to the soul, they can decidely be a clear indication as to a persons initial reaction to you, the nature of the way they comport themselves, and other interesting bits of information.

    Also, I have a very powerful stare that I use only when in the mood to disconcert someone or as a joke a parties sometimes. I will actually fix the back of the head of a someone and, almost without fail, they will turn around and face me within a few seconds. Telling me later that they could, literally, feel my eyes on the back of their head. They tell me that when they get that feeling, turn around to find me fix them right in the eye when doing so, that it can be a little unsettling.

    As I said, I don't do if often. I do find it handy on sales clerks who ignore me though. It's a highly effective means of getting their attention.
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    I don't mind them looking into my eyes for a few seconds, but if that's all they do for the most part it's kind of creepy and makes me laugh.

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    Uh, I don't know. I make a lot of eye contact and try to be as personable as possible, but frankly, I can handle a guy who is physically demanding easier than a guy who is emotionally demanding. I mean this is a strip club afterall, not a singles bar, it's a dance, not a marriage. Trust me, I am about as affectionate and cuddly as they come and prefer regulars to strangers, but when a guy uses the words "eye" "face" and "fetish" together... chances are I that deep down inside I'd think he had more emotionally invested than I was willing to give. And although I'd placate him politely and with professionalism, in my mind I'd chalk him up to one of those customers who "doesn't get it".

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    Not at all.I look right back into their eyes.
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    I always look in my ATF's eyes and she looks in mine. She sometimes asks me what I'm thinking while she's doing her thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dancerlala
    Uh, I don't know. I make a lot of eye contact and try to be as personable as possible, but frankly, I can handle a guy who is physically demanding easier than a guy who is emotionally demanding. I mean this is a strip club afterall, not a singles bar, it's a dance, not a marriage. Trust me, I am about as affectionate and cuddly as they come and prefer regulars to strangers, but when a guy uses the words "eye" "face" and "fetish" together... chances are I that deep down inside I'd think he had more emotionally invested than I was willing to give. And although I'd placate him politely and with professionalism, in my mind I'd chalk him up to one of those customers who "doesn't get it".
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    I'm kind if weird about eye contact. I'll hold it for a little while, but then I tend to turn away. I'm really self-conscious, so when people look into my eyes too long, it makes me uneasy about myself, and I look away. I can't look into a dancer's, or any nude woman's eyes too long. My ex would even ask me about that b/c I'd close my eyes all the time while we kissed and while we were being intimate. Kind of like the ostrich with its head in the sand. If I can't see you, then you're not looking at me. Makes me nervous I guess.
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    Where I come from, it's called "dogging"........

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    I have noticed that I make better tips off of the men who give me eye contact. I also take their eye contact as a little power trip on my part. As I look back into their eyes, they get all nervous and the more nervous they get, the better tips they will dish out. : )

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    Part of the reason i like eyes is it's very hard to control them. and hence extermely hard to use them to lye. By looking into her eyes for those few seconds i can tell alot about her. along with body language and those few
    words you may catch while she is up there. you can know everything you
    need to know.

    if your observant you can pick up alot.

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