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    A customer came, I think. I felt a warm wet spot. He immediately ended the dance and paid. I ran to the shower and washed myself. I am afraid of diseases. Gah. This was gross. His stuff got on my leg and maybe my labia. What could I have caught from this incident? Please don't scare me needlessly. Just tell me the facts.

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    I am not 100% sure on this, but I am pretty sure that once the semen hits the air, anything you could "catch" dies. Sorry that had to happen to you. It is disgusting.

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    Could have "caught" numerous things. alcohol and antibacterial soap to clean would work. Just would have made sure there was no way while washing that (if it was on your labia) that it would wash out not in if you get my drift. On the subject of disease, Just make sure your immunizations are up to date since you are in such close contact other disease are a hell of alot easier to catch like TB. Also I've learned my lesson with this one... I incorporate a robe or whatever type of clothing into the LD and if I sit on their lap I sit on the clothing never touching their clothing.

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    So if it seeps through their pants and gets on you you can catch an std? Now that is VERY scary!!!! I always pull away when I think a guy is even close to doing that. It grosses me out.

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    i am so sorry that it happend to you, but don't worry you will not get anything... not that it happend to me... like bambiblue i also jump away ha ha

    for next time....
    you can understand mostly when i guy holds you more stronger with other words: "please go on don't stop" then it is time to JUMP AWAY good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    How did you get it on your labia, I'm wondering? Maybe you'll end up having his baby or something.
    I could've sworn that it seeped through my thong. That's how.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muyaha
    ... I incorporate a robe or whatever type of clothing into the LD and if I sit on their lap I sit on the clothing never touching their clothing.
    How do you do that without insulting them? I don't grind much because I know many o' snatches have touched their pants that night. Once, I lay down a lap dance towel and the custy gave me this weird look. I wear shorts if I grind because, well, just because!

    Also, many of the dancers have herpes on their lips and faces. Because herpes can travel down there if you have oral sex and I'm sure they do with their partners (at least I hope they do!), I am afraid of catching something. I am fairly certain that I can't catch herpes from a lap dance but I know other yucky things are out there. Like a vaginal infection.

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    Sperm is very delicate, meaning that it dies seconds after it leaves the body and is exposed to air/water/other elements. As per desease, herpes lives on your skin not in ejaculate, so you probably didn't catch herpes. Even if he did have something nasty in his cum, it probably didn't even make it past his pant material. And your thong material. And you washed it right away.

    Shit happens, but in this case I doubt you caught anything. But don't listen to us, if you're really nervous then go see a doctor. tell him you had sex with a new person if you don't want to admit the real way it happened.

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    I wouldnt imagine you have much to worry about...however meea had a good point...seek professional advice from a professional..ie ask a doctor.
    However I wouldnt be too ashamed to say how it happened, if you want an accurate opinion, give the doctor accurate details to base a judgement on, I think if you modify the details to prevent embarassment you risk a misdiagnosis.

    It occurs to me that your local birth control centre or std hotline might be able to answer this sort of question over the phone, with more reliability than our well intentioned but perhaps inaccurate dancer heresay.
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    That is some repugnant sh*t!!!!!!!!!
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    A better question... and maybe for another thread... is wtf is up with guys that are ok with full-on cumming in their own pants like that??? I mean, I certainly love sex (who doesn't, right?), and I do get turned on by watching girls dance/grind on me... but give me a break! I don't think I could ever actually finish while my pants are still on... but even if I could, why the hell WOULD I??!! Gross, man!

    Yeah... that's what I want... to be hangin' out in public with the front and insides of my pants and underwear filled with spooge. Jeezus. Frickin' low lifes in this world...


    Now... the thing is... when I get turned on, I DO pre-cum a bit. And when I get REALLY turned on... it can be way more than a bit. But even then, I usually have the dancer sit for a few songs (paid, of course) or even allow her to make the rounds, as it were... to give me time to settle down. Maybe it's just 'cause I wear nice clothes when I go out... but the last thing I want is to pre-cum to the point where it has saturated my boxers AND pants. If it's visible... I've gone WAY too far! But either way, I think it's disgusting and just plain unacceptable to allow yourself to reach orgasm in a club. Well... obviously there are clubs where actual HJs and BJs are performed... and that would be a totally different situation. But you get my point.


    Now... to your question (I finally got there! )... chances are, the only thing that is coming into contact with you is his pre-cum and/or seminal fluid. This, of course, depends on what kind of clothes he was wearing... but for the most part, even if he completely ejaculates, only the fluids that are produced to transport and nourish the actual sperm would make it through someone's clothes... let alone your thong, too. There are actually 3 fluids that are produced to do this transporting... and they are thinner in consistency than the actual sperm.

    That being said, minute amounts of sperm CAN make it's way into these fluids... which is what makes "the pullout method" usually inaffective. But the chances that any sperm could actually make it through two sets of clothing... and then into your vaginal opening, in the situation you described, are next to impossible.

    This means... pregnancy is a non-issue here.

    HOWEVER!!!

    It is NOT the sperm that contains HIV... but the seminal fluids mentioned above! Meaning that it CERTAINLY can be a high risk to allow his "wetness" to come into contact with you. ESPECIALLY if you recently shaved down there... and may have tiny nicks or cuts that are not quite visible to the eye. THAT would be your most vulnerable area, imo. Not worrying about his sperm getting in your vaginal opening.... but rather ANY of his fluids finding an opening in your skin.

    While meea is correct about sperm being delicate... and yes they will die within seconds of contact with air.... it's the other fluids you should be more worried about.

    Click here ~~> http://www.jackinworld.com/library/science/semcomp.html
    and here ~~> http://www.jackinworld.com/library/science/semprod.html
    for more into on the makeup of male fluids.

    But for you peace of mind... GET TESTED REGULARLY!! And yes... go see a doctor for his/her EXPERT opinions. As much as we want to help you here, the LAST thing anyone wants is for something bad to happen to you 'cause all you did was take OUR advice.

    In the future... I suggest you listen to Muyaha's, bambiblue's, and naomisantos77's dancing tips. You DEF need to be more observant of your custy's situation and state of arousal. The fact that he may have cum, soaked through his pants... and you think even through your thong... before you even realized what had happened... that tells me you're just not paying attention. PLEASE be more careful and aware.... WHILE having fun and working.

    It IS your life, after all.



    Hope some of this helps.

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    Hate to say it, but it's one of the hazards of the business. You probably are stimulating their dicks, fulfilling some kind of fantasy. Not everyone comes in there with pure intentions and sometimes if they do, it happens. Of course, a lot of times you have to find out the hard way.

    A lot of times you can tell they are getting close. Their legs tense up. Back off. Don't do any kind of movement too long without switching, and don't rub your pussy on their dicks. You can give a great dance with your legs or breasts (of coruse, if this is allowed). That way if anything gets on you, it's less scary.

    Also, if it's already happened, don't freak out on the guy. I mean, it's too late and you can probably get a tip out of him....you should insist on it, in my opinion.

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    Also, WHY dont clubs invest in lapdance covers? One here in Baltimore has them, they are just covers so you wont be touching the customer. I think it would be a good idea at times like these. Of course the guys will still be able to have a great lapdance, but at least it might not get on you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meea
    Sperm is very delicate, meaning that it dies seconds after it leaves the body and is exposed to air/water/other elements.
    Hmmm, I think I've seen where sperm can live as long as 45 minutes outside the body under the right circumstances. I'm pretty sure it doesn't die as soon as it leaves the body.

    I don't remember where I read that, though.
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    Did some searching, and here's what I came up with:






    They all pretty much say that sperm can live out of the male body, and is potent until it dries. I'm glad I looked this up, because I had no idea. LOL.

    Anyway, I think you're safe. He ended the dance and you washed up. It should be alright.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meea
    Sperm is very delicate, meaning that it dies seconds after it leaves the body and is exposed to air/water/other elements. .
    tell my boys that. Sperm need moisture and nourishment to live but without it they will die anywbere between 30 minutes and four hours. they don't spontaneously combust when hitting the air although the visuals might make male masturbation that much more fun.

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    Thank you for all your input. I'm just worried about HIV. I'm laying off the grinding for a while, at least until I figure out how to lay down a lap dance towel.

    This was a gross experience. I've had guys accidentally cum, but never on me! What really pisses me off is that many guys in my area expect to cum from a lapdance. Tacky. This customer didn't want to. He more or less threw me off, paid, and ran.

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    on the bright side, must've been one hell of a lap dance.

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    HIV dies within 3 min of hitting air, usually instantly. So you probably don't have to worry.

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    the only real solution is to not work at friction clubs.
    that way, if the man ejaculated at least it wouldn't be on your genital area.

    also, if you want to work a friction clubs break up the amount of attention on genital stimulation therefore reducing the risk of this kind of incident.
    just because it's a "friction" club does not mean that the man has to ejaculate.
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    Also, if it's already happened, don't freak out on the guy. I mean, it's too late and you can probably get a tip out of him....you should insist on it, in my opinion.
    I'd hate to sound shallow but the above is true. I've done numerous LDs in my time and the ones who havn't forced me (used their strength to hold me and "hump" my lower back or leg or whatever) and just 'cum' coz of the dance (or other factors) tend to tip nicely.

    For me I look for the clues and then "cool" the dance down by either starting a conversation ever so subtly or doing more floor moves. This is how I avoid it. That and I try to avoid the patrons who ask "Will you make me cum?" in the dance whether they are sincerely looking for that or just being smartasses.

    If someone does 'cum' on me.. I use anti-bacterial soap and baby wipes to wipe me down yet I still feel 'mentally' unclean. It's a really horrible awful 'part' of the business.


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    The likelihood of catching anything like this, let alone getting pregnant is pretty infintessimal. I would use antibacterial soap just because of basic hygiene. For a lap dance towel, if you don't want to just tell the truth (which is a perfectly viable option) you can say that YOU need it, otherwise you'll get worked up and make a mess. As for oral herpes - the likelihood of spreading it to your genital is pretty small even if you are having oral sex with an open sore. I mean someone else's genitals. D'oh. The likelihood of it getting back to you in this roundabout way is pretty much non-existant. You are much more likely to get hep from sharing tweezers than you are to get anything from grinding on customers.
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    Guys who allow themselves to behave this way in public have no respect for themselves and have no respect for the lovely women who dance for them

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    Peachez, if you work in a friction place, why not simply place a small towell on your client's lap before you begin dancing?

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