LA is a friction place. Guys cum all the time. I try and gauge when this is going to happen and make sure when it does a less vulnerable part of my body is creating the friction (i,e. leg, hip, whatever), so I will move my crotch from their pants if things seem to be getting hot.
That being said, I also have a sarong that I've recently been using as a "lap dance towel". The way I deal with it is to say, "i'm sorry, I've got to lay this down first, house rules, plus the material is really soft and I like the way it feels."
I have never had a guy question that. That way you're not bringing up disease, you're turning it into something pleasant, like softness and also blaming the club for the rule. If he says, "Other girls didn't use one", just say, "well they're going to get in trouble with management, and that's a risk I can't take."
As for whther you caught anything, i'm pretty sure you're fine.
1.Pregnancy? Sperm through two layers of clothing and one layer of air? Not likely at all. Plus, it would have had to travel up your labia, you'd have to be ovulating, yadda, yadda...
2. Herpes? is not contracted through sperm. it is skin to skin contact. don't worry, you're fine there.
3. HIV or TB, although the sperm may live for a few hours, these diseases don't fare well once exposed to air. Infaction usually requires direct sperm to open cut contact, not sperm through his pants, the air, your panties, then a possible cut in/around your labia.
Be careful with the antibacterial soap in that too much use of it down there will disrupt the natural Ph balance of your vagina and start to cause recurring yeast infections. You need a little healthy bacteria. Anyway, you'll be fine. It's good that you're scared though. Just sit back and ascertain your boundaries and realize that you can give them a good lapdance, even a good grind without having to disturb your peace of mind. Buy yourself a soft little sarong and hang it somewhere in the club convenient so you don't have to carry it everywhere. Shrewdly watch thier body language, and in an emergency, don't be afraid to place your hand between your crotch and thier pants if you think Ol' Fathful is gonna blow. Better your hand is in the wet spot than your genetalia (even though both are gross, I know...)



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its happened 3 times to me in the last 2 weeks and 6 or 7 times since i started 5 months ago. last week a man took me up to VIP, 5 songs later ($150), thar she blows! I was too shy to ask him directly if he came nicely or not. Then he came in again 3 days later, VIP, 4 songs, pop goes the weasle. He'll be back. personally i dont mind it as long as its inside pants, kinda feel proud of my abilities that i made em squirt, but most of them recently have been nice guys. i dont make a big deal out of it. its only natural.

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