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    LA is a friction place. Guys cum all the time. I try and gauge when this is going to happen and make sure when it does a less vulnerable part of my body is creating the friction (i,e. leg, hip, whatever), so I will move my crotch from their pants if things seem to be getting hot.
    That being said, I also have a sarong that I've recently been using as a "lap dance towel". The way I deal with it is to say, "i'm sorry, I've got to lay this down first, house rules, plus the material is really soft and I like the way it feels."
    I have never had a guy question that. That way you're not bringing up disease, you're turning it into something pleasant, like softness and also blaming the club for the rule. If he says, "Other girls didn't use one", just say, "well they're going to get in trouble with management, and that's a risk I can't take."
    As for whther you caught anything, i'm pretty sure you're fine.
    1.Pregnancy? Sperm through two layers of clothing and one layer of air? Not likely at all. Plus, it would have had to travel up your labia, you'd have to be ovulating, yadda, yadda...
    2. Herpes? is not contracted through sperm. it is skin to skin contact. don't worry, you're fine there.
    3. HIV or TB, although the sperm may live for a few hours, these diseases don't fare well once exposed to air. Infaction usually requires direct sperm to open cut contact, not sperm through his pants, the air, your panties, then a possible cut in/around your labia.
    Be careful with the antibacterial soap in that too much use of it down there will disrupt the natural Ph balance of your vagina and start to cause recurring yeast infections. You need a little healthy bacteria. Anyway, you'll be fine. It's good that you're scared though. Just sit back and ascertain your boundaries and realize that you can give them a good lapdance, even a good grind without having to disturb your peace of mind. Buy yourself a soft little sarong and hang it somewhere in the club convenient so you don't have to carry it everywhere. Shrewdly watch thier body language, and in an emergency, don't be afraid to place your hand between your crotch and thier pants if you think Ol' Fathful is gonna blow. Better your hand is in the wet spot than your genetalia (even though both are gross, I know...)

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    Thank God,I don't dance in LA.I would have to strangle someone if I did.
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    The reason I said TB is that it is highly contractable especially in close contact. There is no vaccine (well that is used in the US) so getting TB tested every year or so is a good idea. Oh by the way TB is tuberculosis. Working a robe or another clothing item is easy. take it off play with it... caress the guy (arms or chest) with it, somehow put it in his lap. There you go you're not sitting directly on pants.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dgtlfnk
    A better question... and maybe for another thread... is wtf is up with guys that are ok with full-on cumming in their own pants like that??? I mean, I certainly love sex (who doesn't, right?), and I do get turned on by watching girls dance/grind on me... but give me a break! I don't think I could ever actually finish while my pants are still on... but even if I could, why the hell WOULD I??!! Gross, man!

    Yeah... that's what I want... to be hangin' out in public with the front and insides of my pants and underwear filled with spooge. Jeezus. Frickin' low lifes in this world...
    Haaaaaahahaha!!! LMAO!!! This guy is too funny! I love it coming from a guy!!

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    It couldn't be more true, tho! I just can't believe that guys are SO hard up... that they are ok with doing this. WTF? At the very least.... get worked up... then leave and "take care of it" yourself. Preferably while NOT wearing yer clothes. lol...

    I thought that maybe I felt this way 'cause I like to wear nice threads. But then I thought, "hmmm... y'know... I wouldn't even do that in my rattiest boxers and oldest jeans!"

    I dunno... just another bit of evidence that I'm in the minority of my own sex. "All other men are pigs." LMAO!

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    I hate when guys do this. usually u can tell if they're getting ready to. i have been worried about getting pregnant..i always feel silly worrying about that, though. at least ya don't have to do all nude lapdances!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dgtlfnk
    A better question... and maybe for another thread... is wtf is up with guys that are ok with full-on cumming in their own pants like that??? I mean, I certainly love sex (who doesn't, right?), and I do get turned on by watching girls dance/grind on me... but give me a break! I don't think I could ever actually finish while my pants are still on... but even if I could, why the hell WOULD I??!! Gross, man!

    Yeah... that's what I want... to be hangin' out in public with the front and insides of my pants and underwear filled with spooge. Jeezus. Frickin' low lifes in this world...
    I'm not sure if i could ever come from just getting dances. However, if I ever get a dance and am driven to the point where I am just about to come, there is no way in hell I'm stopping. I might feel embarrassed later and have to wipe myself with a cocktail napkin, and let myself dry out a bit before getting up and walking around. Sure its kinda gross, and I wouldn't want it to happen all the time, but so what?
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    My boyfriend said that happened to him once when he had a lapdance and he was kind of embarassed but it just happened. He said the girl he used to get a lot of dances from always put down a little cloth on his lap though first and it seems like it would be hard to soak through if a guy is wearing boxers and jeans. I'd feel weird if I made a guy do that though. Yuck. (Unless he's hot maybe).

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    its happened 3 times to me in the last 2 weeks and 6 or 7 times since i started 5 months ago. last week a man took me up to VIP, 5 songs later ($150), thar she blows! I was too shy to ask him directly if he came nicely or not. Then he came in again 3 days later, VIP, 4 songs, pop goes the weasle. He'll be back. personally i dont mind it as long as its inside pants, kinda feel proud of my abilities that i made em squirt, but most of them recently have been nice guys. i dont make a big deal out of it. its only natural.

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    Is there no way you can wear something (like a sarong mentioned earlier) and when you are sat on him you undo it and leave it there for the rest of the dance? Don't know how lap dances work there but over here you start fully clothed so it is a pretty subtle way of laying another item of clothing between his crotch and yours.
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    Yuck, yuck. I hate it when they do that!

    I always lay some part of my outfit on his lap . An extra layer of protection from fricton burn or worse, is never a bad idea, IME.

    On the rare occassion that a guy does loose it without warning me first, so I can move or stop, I will demand a huge tip as compensation. I have never had a man who came refuse to pay extra after, they are usually too happy or embarrassed

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    Quote Originally Posted by wildlands1
    its only natural.
    Diseases are natural too.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    I'm not sure if i could ever come from just getting dances. However, if I ever get a dance and am driven to the point where I am just about to come, there is no way in hell I'm stopping. I might feel embarrassed later and have to wipe myself with a cocktail napkin, and let myself dry out a bit before getting up and walking around. Sure its kinda gross, and I wouldn't want it to happen all the time, but so what?

    Hmmm.... maybe I just cum a helluva lot more than most guys. 'Cause, I'm sorry... but using a cocktail napkin on me at that point would be like fighting a forest fire with a toy squirt gun.

    Seriously... I guess if you cum that little... it's not much of a problem. Still fuckin' gross to cum in yer pants in public... but apparently not much of a problem for some guys.


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