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    Smiley AAAH! New girl panic!!

    Hey all you girls out there! I just ran across this site and I swear it has taken a huge load of stress off of me!!! I feel way more supported than before!

    Anyway, I'm looking to start dancing here soon, I already have a club chosen, a couple of outfits and a pair of shoes I can comfortably walk in. I worked a few FETISH club gigs in Detroit before and I know that it is a lot different from any strip club. So I feel a little lost.

    I have a fun attitude and I think I'll make a lot of money, but I'm worried about looking like a dork. I mean, at the fetish club things we had sets. Like planned out skits to work with and we didn't go out on the floor.

    I also feel like I may not do as well because I worry about lap dances. How can I look like I know what I'm doing? I also worry about the other girls at the club being nice to me. PLUS, even though the picture shows my hair how it was a few months ago, I have DARK hair now and fair skin I don't want to look like a ghost up there....

    Ugh...I also am terrified of my interview. What are those like??

    Another thing - What do I do with my money? I mean, literally wheree do I put it when I get off the stage? I hear sometimes it can go "missing"

    I'll be checking back often and I sure hope to make some new friends!!!

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    Default Re: AAAH! New girl panic!!

    Don't worry about the interview because there, most likely, will not be one. Just walk into the club and tell them you want an audition. They will probably put you on a side stage. Don't be too nervous about what to do. As long as you have a decent body and interact well with the customers, you should do well.
    Last night was my first time dancing and I was incredibly nervous, but once I got up there I was fine. I was also nervous about the girls being nice to me, but I discovered that, for the most part, if you are nice to them they will be nice to you. It sounds cliche' but it is true.

    Good luck to you!!

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    Default Re: AAAH! New girl panic!!

    It doesnt matter what the other girls say or do to you. Youre not there to make friends. Youre there to make money and entertain the custys.

    Dont act new. Just go out and have fun and act like you have tons of experience. Have fun with it.
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    Welcome, Heaven!

    There are tons of new girl threads. Read all the Newbie section, Hustle Hut, and Stripping general threads you have time for. You will get Tons of ideas. Also, when you do get friendly with the other girls (and it's true, most dances are a cool bunch of people) you can ask questions. MAny girls will be glad to help. The trick is, ask a girl who is confident and experienced enough to not be intimidated by a new girl.

    The videos they advertise at the top of the forum page are good if you can afford them. THe lap dance one shows how to give contact and no-contsct dances and is pretty helpful. You can get a lot of good ideas from it.

    And most important of all: DON'T PANIC! You will do fine.


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    just to let you know I ordered the videos from Fawnia and the lap dance one is good, and the pole one too, worth buying. But the dance moves/floor work one isnt good, it doesnt teach very much dance moves at all, a little floor work but thats it so dont get that one. I was very dissapointed. I visited my perspective club 3 times this month to watch and pick up moves and that helped.

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    I also find I learn a lot by watching other dancers. You have to keep picking up new moves all the time or you will get bored with yourself and your stage work. When I started at my current club, I figured out who was getting the most table dances and made it my business to watch carefully and figure out what made THEIR dances so good. One girl in particular just fascinated me; she had SOOOOOO many regualrs who wanted no one but her. I practacally followed her around the club, chatting with people in her vicinity and giving free back rubs and half-price dances jsut to be able to "spy" on her and figure out what she was doing. (it turns out she is an extremely cool person and porbably would have jsut taught me if I had asked her!) HINT: She moves extremely S-L-O-W-L-Y. LIke watching a movie in super-slow motion. I still pace myself on her if I find myself in the same corner of the bar, and it is still hard to move that slow. Just goes to show, ther is always room for improvement!

    As for your money, keep it fasteed to your garter or your thong (not in a nude club, b/c you will have to take the thong off at some point) or in a tiny little evening bag, depending on the rules of the club. There is a thread about this in the newbie section. In general, most girls wear a garter on their thigh, and then when they get money, they flatten it out and slip it long ways under the garter, then they fold it over and fasten the ends together with a rubber band or a pony tail holder.


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    Welcome top the site!

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