Oh my gosh! I just wanted to say thanks to all the girls who replied to my last post. I really really appreciate the help from everyone. But as soon as I take care of one concern, another rears it's ugly head. Today I've been thinking about how to say "no" to guys.
Like when they ask me about personal things like where I live or other potentially dangerous stuff. I don't want to seem unaproachable, but I don't want to get caught off guard either.
Also, how do I refuse a dance for a guy who is being a jerk? I really don't want to say the wrong thing and get a bad reputation for having a nasty attitude.
The last "no" question is for when the custys ask for "extras". I can almost see myself being ofended and snapping back a retort. (even though some guys don't know the difference between a stripper and hooker)
Basically I want to be gracious and still be in control of the info, dances, and services I give out.
Thanks again to everybody!! Muah!!
~Heaven




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