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    I can forsee a time when I will be forced to quit going to the club.

    So I need some ideas on how to leave on a good foot so to speak.

    Was think of doing a nice letter to my 2 favs... thanking them for all they've done and yes it'll hafta be in letter form ... i tend the speak better on paper.
    tend to miss the point when i'm talking to them.

    or like a final bash type thing...


    any ideas?

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    I say have a final bash where you drop loads of money on your faves. Nothing says thanks for the memories to a stripper like cold hard cash!

    The letter idea is sweet of course. Do it if it will create a true sense of closure for you. I often need to write something down for it to become "real" myself. Perhaps you can put some cash or a gift certificate inside the letter for maximum potentcy?

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    If you're truly leaving, then don't come back. Nothing makes things stickier than saying "this is my last night" and then showing up further down the road.
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    money is not tight.
    not getting yanked.
    not moving.

    all good thing must come to an end. getting some RL girls that i'm making progress with. so i'll probibly hafta either stop or cut back alot. just planning ahead. i tend to over think things anyway.

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    i just told a girl i wouldnt be in as much anymore....... then i remembered by #1 girl was returning from a month off and i gotta see her friday before i leave for vacation he he he

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    I wouldn't say a word about not comming back.Just go a couple more times spending less each time.Even better idea.Save your cash for the new lady friends.The Dancers don't really need your money or goodbyes... Sorry bro but that's the truth...

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    You...overthink things?

    NAAHHHH!!!

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    I wouldnt say I was leaving for good, you never know when you may want to go again.......... I would skip a letter and just tell them in person your taking a break.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lurker_001
    I wouldn't say a word about not comming back.Just go a couple more times spending less each time.Even better idea.Save your cash for the new lady friends.The Dancers don't really need your money or goodbyes... Sorry bro but that's the truth...
    Now you know one of the dancers here would get a little offended by that comment. I'll let my son know that mommy doesn't need any cash for bills anymore and we can live without a roof over our heads. Also, who's to say we don't like goodbyes? We are people too. I have some really nice regular customers that I would be disappointed if they just stopped coming in without telling me. Believe it or not, we do make friends with the people and not just their wallet. Shame on you.

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    i'll hafta do something. i owe her more than just a thanks bye.

    if you had a regular that you had change his life. wouldn't you want him to thank you before he decided to give up his hundred dollar habit.

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    Absolutely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Super Cecil
    i'll hafta do something. i owe her more than just a thanks bye.

    if you had a regular that you had change his life. wouldn't you want him to thank you before he decided to give up his hundred dollar habit.
    i think u have it there, thank her and say goodbye........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lurker_001
    I wouldn't say a word about not comming back.Just go a couple more times spending less each time.Even better idea.Save your cash for the new lady friends.The Dancers don't really need your money or goodbyes... Sorry bro but that's the truth...
    No, we don't need money, we dance for fun and are all independently wealthy.. where the hell did you come with an idea like that? This is why we come onto this site, to share the fact that customers like you exist.

    Yes, you can say goodbye, but don't make them think it's their fault. I hate when customers make me think I've done something wrong, even if it wasn't their intention.
    Let them know you appreciated them, that's always nice. A letter is a sweet gesture and I'm sure they'll appreciate it because it doesn't happen everyday.
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    Try this...Tell them the truth! Tell them you are getting more serious with a girlfriend, and you really like her and dont want to do anything to mess it up. I would understand if I were the dancer, hell, customers lead lives outside the club too. I do think the crap about dancers not needing someones money is stupid. Thats why we go to work, to make $$$. Kinda like if you have a job, you go there to work and make money, not to piss around and have fun. Anyway, I would just tell her the truth, and if she doesnt understand, oh well.

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    You Entertainers talk about working for the money... Duh! ...What i was saying to him was the truth.Most of the time.Unless you're really close friends with the dancer(i highly doubt/rare) then what's the point?The fact is the dancers really don't give a rat's ass about customers and only want them for their money.
    This however,is normal and absolutely acceptable behavior.Heck,the reason i go to SCs is to spend money and have someone be nice to me.Even if it's just twenty minutes and only their job it's still a great joy to be able to meet people like you/them.

    DON'T SAY A WORD about not coming back.They forget about you the second your money is gone... not when you're gone.Don't worry she'll think it was her fault you never return,LOL! ...they only feel like that if you're in the club spending on someone else.Besides,you may want to go back


    P.S. Chloe,nothing would please me more then to spend money on a dancer so she could buy little billy a new pair of shoes... Unfortunately nothing hurts more then to spend money on insincere/rude dancers....

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    Lurker you need a hug . LOL

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