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    Next time this happens to you just look at the reality of the situation.

    Quote Originally Posted by ShannonChicago
    Last night I met a customer who "seems" (I know they could be not what they say they are) like an incredible guy. He graduated from Princeton and is a trader in Chicago. He is gorgeous and young(27) too.
    Then he's obviously eligible to many other women unless something is seriously wrong with him.

    Quote Originally Posted by ShannonChicago
    He didn't want any lap dances from me because he said they weren't genuine anyways.
    This guy is pretty good at bending the truth. He's probably not very new to the game. What Princeton graduate, young, handsome age 27 would have to PAY that kind of money to just sit and chat with an attractive female when he could go to a neighborhood bar and spend all of 20 bucks? He wants the fantasy world and he wants to bang a supposedly easy lay. He didn't want lap dances because he wants to fuck. Point blank. Lap dances aren't "genuine" because they won't lure you in or get him off completely. Next time you could possibly milk it and have a regular or SD out of the deal.

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    What Princeton graduate, young, handsome age 27 would have to PAY that kind of money to just sit and chat with an attractive female when he could go to a neighborhood bar and spend all of 20 bucks? He wants the fantasy world and he wants to bang a supposedly easy lay. He didn't want lap dances because he wants to fuck. Point blank.
    He might spend $20 at a bar on a normal chick, but he already knows what many of us SCJs know; strippers are just more fun. And I certainly wouldn't say strippers are easy lays. And who says you can't get lap dances and still fuck? Oh, wait, forgot I'm on the pink side...

    I'm not saying the guy was completely honest about his intentions, but then again, maybe he was. Still, after only three days on the job, that's a bit soon.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    The saying,"Champagne wishes and caviar dreams" comes to mind with this thread.Shannon,you maybe falling over the fact he's so wealthy.Money can severely distort your vision.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    LOL,this is priceless...Taking notes:Lie about age and profession.Don't buy VIP dances...

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    Slowly shaking head......

    Shannon

    Shannon

    Shannon

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    Your communication with him should have ONE focus:
    Get him back in the CLUB ! !


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    How many have I dated. None.

    How many have I wanted to date. None.

    Why ? Because I follow the don't shit where you eat rule.

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    Ok, I get everyone's drift! I'll go hide in the corner now.

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    I will remember this rule from now on!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Hello~Kitty
    How many have I dated. None.

    How many have I wanted to date. None.

    Why ? Because I follow the don't shit where you eat rule.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShannonChicago
    Ok, I get everyone's drift! I'll go hide in the corner now.
    lol...

    aw, no need. it's advice for you to look out & not get hurt by it, when you can actually MILK the hell out of this customer. lol

    Good luck to you babes.

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    Well ladies, I would have no problem dating one of you. But I wouldn't want to for the reason that you are a stripper. But for the nice girls that is there inside all of you. And for that reason I would not try to pick you up at work. I feel awkward when I am approached when I am in uniform and do not use my profession to meet girls. So I would not approach you at your work.

    lol, but then the hard part is meeting one of you nice ladies out in the real world.

    From my point of view, if a guy is trying to pick you up at a SC he is probably not looking for a relationship, just an extended fantasy. And I think that most well rounded "nice guys" would not try to pick you up there.

    Just a couple thoughts.
    Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It's much sexier than any body part.

    Sexually, we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there's a cat out there exactly the same as me?
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    they always look better in the Strip Club

    same as us
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    Quote Originally Posted by gdamadg
    Well ladies, I would have no problem dating one of you. But I wouldn't want to for the reason that you are a stripper. But for the nice girls that is there inside all of you.
    Despite his tortured syntax, gdamadg's heart is in the right place. Personally, I'd have no issues dating a dancer whatsoever, except maybe for this practical problem (mentioned elsewhere on this board): dancers' hours tend to be very out of synch with 9-to-6ers, like myself. Still, I think it'd be a rare joy in having your one-and-only crawl into bed with you at 3:30-4:00 a.m. after a productive night at the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShannonChicago
    I will remember this rule from now on!!
    Glad to hear it and I hope it will help save you from alot of future drama.

    Best wishes to you, babe

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    Despite his tortured syntax, gdamadg's heart is in the right place.
    I appolgize for the horrible syntax. Technology smart, was never a writer.
    Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It's much sexier than any body part.

    Sexually, we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there's a cat out there exactly the same as me?
    -Jeff Melvoin, (Northern Exposure, Altered Egos, 1993)


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    After almost 3 years, I fell for one of my club's regular customers. I thought it might be okay because he was friends with all the girls and managers. He ended up having a pretty vicious temper. He would come in and get mad because I didn't have time for him when I was making $$$. He also tried his best to get me to quit dancing, saying he would "take care of me", that old line.......We broke up after two months of bullshit---I'm not one to drag out dead end relationships. I still miss his few good points, but it took awhile for us to be comfortable being in the club together. In fact, I had to jump in between him and another customer last night because of that temper of his......

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    Good point.



    Quote Originally Posted by screaminpeachez
    they always look better in the Strip Club

    same as us

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    they always look better in the Strip Club

    same as us
    Well of course they always look better in the SC, but part of the job. Look their best and make money. But it is not always about looks, and I am sure that many of you ladies look absolutely fabulous outside of the SC. Natural beauty is a wonderful thing.
    Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It's much sexier than any body part.

    Sexually, we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there's a cat out there exactly the same as me?
    -Jeff Melvoin, (Northern Exposure, Altered Egos, 1993)


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    Its a shame really.
    Entertainers look good,taste good,feel good,smell good,and really give mind blowing sex.It really is a penthouse letter in every detail from what i have learned over years of extended research and study.

    If you had to choose a female profession that had a high concentration of alpha females this would be it.
    If you had to choose a profession that had above average looking females,this is it.
    They make more then lawyers.
    Less body fat then secretaries.
    They get to sleep till noon and can tell the difference between a bud and a bud lite.
    They are at times,so erotic,it can take your breath away.

    I dont blame the guys at all,I have been addicted to them for decades.

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    Shannon, all traders are dogs. When i started at Vips over a year ago almost all my custies were traders at the board. My ex boyfriend works at the board, and so does his uncle. My ex was a really good guy, but i've been down there on several occations to visit and its not a pretty site. Those men treat all there women like ho's. Thats why they like strip clubs so much. I once went to meet my ex for lunch and i saw a custie from a few weeks earlier. this guys told me he was a pediatric surgeon and operated on newborn babies or some shit like that, well, he was actually a trader. I saw him in one of the pits. He looked like he saw a ghost when he saw me, but i just ignored him. Most of them do major drugs too...I'd stay away

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