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    Okay here goes.I Hate Hate Hate where I work. I'll try to make this short. We are a full nude club. It is house rule that we take off our panties the first dollar we get as soon as we walk up to the tip. It is not very sexy and once you're naked it really does'nt inspire the guys to tip you more .I am so tired of getting naked for$1 the sodas in this place are more than $1. I feel my self worth being taken down a notch.A lot of guys just pay their cover charge and sit at the tip rail and watch .It's not mandatory for them to tip.Our "bouncers" get drunk at work and go to the bar next door to drink while on their shift. So I tip them out to protect me but if anything big ever went down I don't think they could do their job. We have no hot water.I can't wash my hands and it's pretty disqusting that they mop the stage without hot water. I tip out and I get so mad that the owner does not make any improvements to the club because it needs a serious makeover. If I ever have a problem I can't talk to the owner because he is always next door at the bar. He owns it go figure So I guess I am a big whiny baby. But I needed to vent to someone. I want to work somewhere else but this is the only club around and I'm scared to travel far away from my parents they are older and I like to be close to them in case of an emergency. I'm sorry for this rant.

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    Sounds like you need to switch clubs. Its hard to find a good club close to home. Just give your parents your cell number and if they need you they can call. But I wouldnt work in these conditions.

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    Yes, it sounds like its time to switch clubs. I need to take this advice myself. If you despise where you work (as I do), nothing is worth it. I remember having fun dancing and really looking forward to my shifts...but not anymore. We both need to start looking around

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    I understand taking care of a parent. Is there someone that could help you out 2 or 3 days a week? If so than you can travel a bit to work. While you are at work hustle hard and you can make it.

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    can't you take off your panties without taking off your skirt/dress or be nude and have a fancy coat on?

    Where do you live? Maybe I can help you find somewhere else to go. You should also check out www.stripclublist.com.

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    That is awful! I'd leave. It just sounds bad for your health. That's too bad about another club being far away. Giving your parents your cell phone number is a good idea, and having the number of a friend or neighbor or a doctor on hand seems smart. Before you leave I'd make sure the management knew all the reasons why I was leaving. It might not make a difference, but maybe if enough girls left... you should also post that on the club review section of this website. i know that I check it out when I'm thinking of traveling. You might save a dancer some grief. GOOD LUCK!
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    That policy is BS.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RetiredDancer
    Sounds like you need to switch clubs.
    That pretty much sums it up, right there.
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    Wow, that's pretty sad that they consider a soda more valuable than you kitty. If you can't travel right now, I would get a cocktail waitressng job or something else 'cause your self worth is much more valuable than some money.

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    A buck for a panty drop? Hell no...youre worth waaay more than a buck. Yea I do agree with the other posters switch clubs ..seems like they dont value you or your safety. Ive worked at some ugly clubs but still did well b/c they treated the dancers well.
    I know its hard to live away from your parents ..you love them and want to be close to them. Try scheduling some time at some other club but do about 3 days there non-stop then go home...just a thought.
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    I would change clubs, without question........



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    It sounds like my club but worse as we have decent tipping rules / prices and hot water - I can't belive that in this day and age there is a club that doesnt!!! If the boss isn't going to change anything then like everyone says you should leave and find a club that isn't totally run so badly!
    If the boss is approachable though I would talk to him about the $1 thing and make a few suggestions to make the club run better, keep EVERYONE happy and of course, the most important thing to mention to the boss is that he'll make more money if things are better. (You have to say that even if you doubt it, lol!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by VADEN
    I would change clubs, without question........
    I know I know. It's stupid of me to stay at this club. It's time to move on. It's just overwhelming to think of traveling to a new club to a new city where I don't know anyone. I've been at this club for so long and it's the only place I've ever danced so it's just so hard to leave.

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    [QUOTE=aussiepunkshocker]It sounds like my club but worse as we have decent tipping rules / prices and hot water - I can't belive that in this day and age there is a club that doesnt!!! If the boss isn't going to change anything then like everyone says you should leave and find a club that isn't totally run so badly!
    If the boss is approachable though I would talk to him about the $1 thing and make a few suggestions to make the club run better, keep EVERYONE happy and of course, the most important thing to mention to the boss is that he'll make more money if things are better. (You have to say that even if you doubt it, lol!)[/QUOTE ] He's not approachable.This is what happened before when I talked to him about something that was bothering me.This is me "hello,can I talk to you about something?" This was him Then a little of this happened which resulted in That's me not him.So now I just try to

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    yea but you dont always fit at a club forever. you may turn out doubling or more your money if you move. new face and all that

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    I hear you, so much! I was terrified when I first started traveling from home to dance, I'd danced at my home club 6 months and it was my first club. It wasn't terrible, but it annoyed me so much! We had to go OUTSIDE with customers to another club do to lapdances. We had NO bathroom in the dressing rooms, we had to use the customer one. We handed over half of our lapdance money to the house. We were required to outside bachelor parties [high contact and frequently nude, and we were a topless mid-contact club!].
    Anyway, back to trying a new club, I was so worried! What if I wouldn't be hired and I'd driven all that way for nothing?? what if money wasn't really any better?? WHAT IF I ASK YOU!??

    But there was nothing to worry about! A big city will always have clubs always looking for dancers. I've switched clubs five different times. Always works out, one way or another.
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    Okay... I like my club now however how about this one:

    We have to go full nude within the last song.... regardless if we are tipped or not. Yes. We are nude for free.

    My personal protest is to only take my knickers off for $10. I will move them down a tad and play with them provacatively (sp?) for $5.... if no one tips... then I go to the back of the stage... if possible, behind the waterfall feature... and take off my knickers there.

    I then do moves that do not show my pussy in any way.

    I'm "over" the free show. The only problem is that the owners will never change their stance on this... so I just do as I do.

    Otherwise.. CHANGE clubs.

    I remember the first time I was seriously thinking about switching clubs... and I was only going "across the road" (literally).... however it was still a risk.

    I took that risk, it paid off whilst I was there... I have also since learnt to use the 'new girl' thing to my advantage and have subsequently travelled and worked outside the Gold Coast.

    Forget the "what if"s... just do it. Most of the time the doubt, the fear (FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real) is not really justified... or real.


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    get out of there.
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    You aren't being whiny. Those are reasonable gripes. Go find a new club!


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    I would just find another club to work at.

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    Thanks everyone! I feel alot better now and I think I'm going to start looking for a new club.Ohh I'm soo nervous.

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    Okay here goes.I Hate Hate Hate where I work. I'll try to make this short. We are a full nude club. It is house rule that we take off our panties the first dollar we get as soon as we walk up to the tip. It is not very sexy and once you're naked it really does'nt inspire the guys to tip you more .I am so tired of getting naked for$1 the sodas in this place are more than $1. I feel my self worth being taken down a notch.A lot of guys just pay their cover charge and sit at the tip rail and watch .It's not mandatory for them to tip.Our "bouncers" get drunk at work and go to the bar next door to drink while on their shift. So I tip them out to protect me but if anything big ever went down I don't think they could do their job. We have no hot water.I can't wash my hands and it's pretty disqusting that they mop the stage without hot water. I tip out and I get so mad that the owner does not make any improvements to the club because it needs a serious makeover. If I ever have a problem I can't talk to the owner because he is always next door at the bar. He owns it go figure So I guess I am a big whiny baby. But I needed to vent to someone. I want to work somewhere else but this is the only club around and I'm scared to travel far away from my parents they are older and I like to be close to them in case of an emergency. I'm sorry for this rant.
    Well my experience in most clubs, most of the bouncers are too messed up on drugs to do anything.

    You will be lucky if your stage gets cleaned.

    It’s hard to find a owner that will look at you with any respect any way, if they even show to club once that month.

    And as far as fixing the club up I don’t know if every one knows about what is going on here in Missouri or not but, We are have a big deal with a new law that is going to be passing and if it passes there wont be many clubs left in Missouri. So if I was a club owner then I probably wouldn't do anything either until I knew what was going on with this new bill.

    If I were you I would take a few weeks off go and check out a new club and if you don’t like it then you will always have a place to go back to.


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