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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    Then again, I really like money, and guys asking me to blow them don't generally bother me that much. I just say no but offer to have unprotected anal sex instead. Then they say "Really?" and I say no again. But these are just my small ways of amusing myself. You have to find your own.
    LMAO Jenny! That is great! If you don't mind, I'm going to use that next time a customer asks me that.

    Tampadancer, I think that you should find another club to work at as your main club, but stay with your current club and work there occasionally. Some people are saying leave the club, but I know that money is hard to pass up. If you only work at your current club one or two days a week and find another club to work at which has less money potential but not as much stress, I think you'll be less burned out. Good luck.

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    wow girls i hope this is just a small minority of clubs and that there are actually nice clubs to work at where u can also make money2!

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    Well, Tampa.. I left the first club I ever danced in two years after I started (this was three years ago) .. the money was wonderful, but I had to deal with a club thief that stole my id and bought cell phones in my name and stole my outfits and money. then we had a ndacer that did extras right in the open and when we complained we were told we were just jrealous, I was asked a number of times if I would do the things she did which included pulling aside her g-string so they could lick or touch her, lettting them cuck on her breasts or outting her hand down their pants. This was a topless club so all of the above was not only illlegal but had to be started by her. I'm not being a jealous dancer, I just watched it all happen, plus I kept being partnered up wiht her and she would stay in front with the crowd the entire four songs, even when we were supposed to switch up.. \
    Well, to make an extermely long story short I quit and went to the next only clubin town deemed the "whore house". I was owrried and scared, but I took the plunge and found out that they NEVER EVER allowed any of that to happen. We had no thief, no extras girls.. Well, if they did it it wasn't right in front of everyone. I felt protected and loved and made more money.
    So I sat take the plunge yourself, try out the club you think you'll hate and you never know if you might just have heard more nasty rumors.
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    sorry, i can't relate to that kind of club, but i have to say that sucks! i feel for you, "extras" going on everywhere? that would even be more impossible to compete with. i'd hightail it out of there.

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    I think you're making a good choice looking for another club. I worked in Seattle for 2 years and it was just as bad as Houston and Tampa sound like. I started out in an extras club, so it took me a while to realize that I could count on one hand the number of dancers who, like me, gave only dances. I took a trip and worked in another city and never worked another night in that club. I started driving 200 miles to work in Portland. Even though the commute and cost of hotels cut down my take-home, it was definitly worth it to get out of that nasty club. As other girls have mentioned, it is not only a risk to your self esteem, but to your safety as well. I recently got a message here on SW from a girl who worked at the same extras club as me, and she told me that she was raped by a customer IN THE CLUB. Don't look back. Money is only temporary, but the experiences that come with such extremely high mileage clubs will stick with you. Best of luck to you, whatever you choose.
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    I think its an entirely different experience to go into a job as an escort knowing what you will have to do, and getting "turned out" through constant pressure and physically overwhelming customers at a dirty club.

    If a girl goes on a "date", she knows that chances are, her boobs are going to get grabbed by that one gentleman, and something will be sucked or penetrated. When a dancer comes into a club to work and EVERY customer is trying to sneak in a quickie, it really begins to interfere with self-worth. Its not that doing the sex acts is wrong in the proper venue, but rather the girl begins to think that her company, physique and dances just aren't good enough, hence she isn't good enough......

    Its a psychological game they play with your mind and it will eat you alive.........

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    i worked in a place like this in upstate new york. the final straw was when a group of customers went too far and the bouncers did nothing cause i didnt buy coke off of them. there was lots of money to be made. but to do that, extras were provided- which is illegal and certainly not worth the money they charged (being a high class escort, one would do far better $wise) breaking the law is no way to sell in this environment- period.

    dont take these guys crap. i got in so much trouble at the other club for busting beer bottles on people's heads, urinating on customers faces (hit the eyes- it burns), punching, kicking- but security did nothing for me.

    i'd rather spange on the streets. yep. if you're crying leaving work. you're not happy there. it's obvious that this major money to make wouldn't make you happy either, due to what you must do to acquire it and the emotional unhappiness it would cause. money doesnt solve all problems.
    "RIP THE SYSTEM"

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    i noticed people on here posting about 'men getting horny'. i like girls. if i went to strip clubs, i would never treat a girl like that (even before i started dancing and knew the rules). i would've probably turned beet-red, asked a girl for a dance and giggled nervously the whole time talking to her about bands, bod mods and makeup.
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