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    Believe it or not i'm getting lap dances that i consider too dirty.They really are.She isn't doing anything illegal,it's just the way she does the grind.should i tell her?I've known her for over a year now but lately she's been getting so naughty...
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    Default Re: Too dirty.Should i say something?

    Oh i know how you're feeling man...i speak for myself when i say i wouldn't want anything to change but we aren't all the same.I think it's possible to talk about that with her because i'm sure there's a way to explain that won't hurt her.When there's something that i don't like much i usually just make an harmless joke about it.I get my point across and there's no awkward moment afterwards.
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    Wow , where is this place I need to do some personal research LOL .One idea dont get anymore ld , wear a cup ! HE HE I'm sorry that was uncalled for I just have never seen a guy concerned too much with getting a hard dirty grinde before it seems that a sc is just the place to get this kind of treatment above and beyond the call of duty .

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    <Wry smile>

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    < not-so-subtle guffaw>
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    Just go ahead and tell her....."Quit giving my penis ginormous slobberknockers please".She'll understand and smile sweetly.
    What would Kenny Rogers do ?

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    My fave sometimes gets a little too into getting me turned on. She'll grind away and get pretty heavy with it. I'm a female, and it's different giving dances to women. She knows how, and I don't know if she likes doing it or what; but when she gets going too much, I kind of pick her hips up a little, shift over, and laughingly say "hey hold that down". She just laughed at first, then changed it up. If you're being serious, try a little joke or something along the lines of shifting over or sliding away while making a similar comment. If she asks why, just tell her the truth. As long as you're crossing her palm, her job is to make you happy. She certainly shouldn't have a problem with that request.
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    I'm just not getting where this is a problem....though it DOES shed new light on all of those guys bragging on other threads that a dancer could never get them off during a Lap Dance.
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    Maybe hes looking for more of a sensual dance instead..but still contacty? I would just say youd like things a bit softer during a dance. Just like that too but nicely.
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    Ask her, "how about some TLC today instead, sometimes I like to be held." Really, give it a try.........if she is your regular girl, she WANTS to know how to serve you better............

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    I agree with TM. You might try, "Remember the way you used to ________? I really loved that. I like it much better than _________." We all feel under pressure to compete with the next girl, and things do tend to shift toward the dirtier side over time. If it was me, I woudl be thrilled that you like my dances as they are, adn I don't have to do the same old thing for you as for everyone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    We all feel under pressure to compete with the next girl, and things do tend to shift toward the dirtier side over time.
    Talk to her beforehand. Ask her what SHE likes most when you dance. Then tell her what YOU like most. Find out what you BOTH like and focus on that.

    I once had a favorite say, "If another girl offers to do something you want to do, I'll do it." It was kind of sad in a way. I just told her to be herself and hug me a lot so no one else would bother making offers.

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    Does naughty really bother you or are you looking out for her?
    either way, that's really sweet...

    hope i see you in my club someday.
    if only more customers were like that.
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    April Fools' Day was the 1st...you're too late with this one.

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    do tell her. i have customers make requests all the time (except my stage music- they know not to touch that). after all, you're paying for the dance, you should get it the way you want it- within the law, the club rules, her comfort and yours, of course.
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