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    Obtained from Canadiana:

    Ted Bundy was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

    IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.) ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs.(Stairwells are perfect crime spot).

    If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

    A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

    Through a Rapist's Eyes:

    1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

    2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

    3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

    4) The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.

    5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms.

    6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

    7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

    8 ) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

    9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

    10) Several defense mechanisms are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk, I can't believe it is so cold out here we're in for a bad winter. Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up, you lose appeal as a target.

    11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

    12) If you carry pepper spray, yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

    13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh HARD. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it hurts.

    14) After the initial hit, always go for the groin. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

    15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

    16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

    17) If someone gets in the car with you and even with a gun or knife, tells you to drive somewhere, run into a wall, another car, a lamppost, something! He will more than likely jump out and run like hell. If he ever gets you in a secluded area, you are DEAD!

    These psychos can also read women and can spot a "pigeon" who will come up to the car to see what's wrong. We have to stop being so gullible.

    From a tourist guide to New Orleans:

    If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car:
    Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
    Many trunks also have a handle to open from the inside.

    From Pat Malone: Has been a bodyguard for famous figures like Farrah Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for the FBI and teaches police officers and Navy SEALS hand-to-hand combat. He focused his teachings to us on HOW TO AVOID BEING THE VICTIM OF A VIOLENT CRIME.

    The three reasons women are easy targets for random acts of violence are:

    1. a. Lack of Awareness: swing your arms, stand straight up.
    b. Wrong Place, Wrong Time: DON'T walk alone in an alley, or drive in bad neighborhood at night.

    2. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

    3. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
    a. Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
    b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
    c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.


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    Great advice!! Thank you sooo much.
    You know the saying? ... Celeste is the best!

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    This is a great advice post. A couple of them I wouldnt even know to do, like kicking out the tail lights. Thank you!

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    What got my attention was Ted Bundy, I always help people.

    NOT ANYMORE .. lol.. Sounds bad but oh well.. better safe than sorry.


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    I think I'll print this list out and give it to my daughter.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    thanks for the tips!

    its sad that women NEED to know these.. .

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    thanks for the tips!

    its sad that women NEED to know these.. .
    Agreed.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    It's not paranoia when they are really coming after you.


    Also watch out for those people wanting you to help find their pet.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Default Re: More safety precautions…

    Quote Originally Posted by Yea
    What got my attention was Ted Bundy, I always help people.

    NOT ANYMORE .. lol.. Sounds bad but oh well.. better safe than sorry.
    Yea, I have left many a woman on the side of the road because I am so sure she would help me.

    Karma's a bitch.

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