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    I was just thinking about what it's going to be like once I start dancing. (just waiting on getting contacts, then gotta go get hired!) I was wondering about how it will feel the first time I see someone I know from outside on work at my club as a customer. For example, at my last job I talked to this guy let's call him ..."Joe". Anyway, what happens when Joe comes into my club. Will he call me by my real name? Expect special treatment? Will I feel too weird to talk to him?

    Plus, I live about 15 miles from the Navy base my husband works at. The clubs are always full of sailors and I know some of them. I'm not sure what exactly I'm worried about. Mostly that it will be awkward. The hubby is totally supportive so I'm not worried about him "finding out". Oh, I don't know, I would just like to know how everyone else deals with this.

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    I seriously can't stand it when I post twice on accident...Sorry. ARGH.

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    Default Re: Seeing people I personally know in the club

    There was an earlier thread about a similar topic. I think some of the girls keep dark wigs in back and use them if they recognize someone in the club. If you don't mind them recognizing you, but just want to know how to handle it, some of the girls recommended using humor to put both you and them at ease.

    Good luck!

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    If you are a military wife and if you are active in your husband's social circle,you will very likely run into some of his colleauges.Your hubby maybe cool with you dancing,but as soon as the other wives catch wind of it,you will get a lot of haters.I suggest that you dance farther away.I used to be a military wife,so I know.
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    Thanks OTB... I'm lucky, I stay away from the military wives. They are a bunch of meanies anyway. I get along much better with the sailors. I have noticed that (some, not all) military wives don't like anyone who is fun or pretty, especially if their husband likes them. So, I just hang with my hubby's friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Heaven777
    Thanks OTB... I'm lucky, I stay away from the military wives. They are a bunch of meanies anyway. I get along much better with the sailors. I have noticed that (some, not all) military wives don't like anyone who is fun or pretty, especially if their husband likes them. So, I just hang with my hubby's friends.
    That was the exact same case with me.My ex is in the USMC.Most military wives are miserable b*tches.
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    I'm actually worried about seeing someone I know from work. It would just be weird. I guess I'll deal with it if it happens.

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    Work far away from your daily life.. wear contact and/or a wig. But at the end of the day, anyone who saw you there was there also, so wtf can they really say!

    I saw one of my teachers at a club once and danced for him! hehehe... He never said a word to anyone about it. He's also married so it's not something he'll be publishing.


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    If you see people that you know sometimes it is easier to get money from them because you already have an established connection. I saw my old boss once, and if I was still dancing at that club I think I would of had a good regular.

    My step brother came in to a club where I was working, and we just pretended not to know each other. He was no where near the stage when I was dancing, and I was back in VIP the rest of the time he was there. I got the impression that he was there to see one girl anyway, and had no time to chat with me. But at family functions it is like our inside joke, so it works out okay.(Just to let you know my mother remarried when I was 24, so it's not like I grew up with this guy or anything).

    I don't often see people I know, and when I do it is usually because I have invited them to come see me. So don't sweat it, you will be in stripper personna anyway, so it's not like they are seeing the "real" you anyway.

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    My club has a policy that if you see anyone you know from 'real life' or just anyone you don't like in general, they will kick them out. As a courtesy to the dancer, of course

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    I've found that if you act like it is no big deal, they will follow your lead. Just be calm and say hello.

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    But at the end of the day, anyone who saw you there was there also, so wtf can they really say!
    exactly!

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