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    Angry are our custy's married to us?

    Okay my club right now is in a horriable cut throat stage. We have a handful of new girls mixed with old girls that just came back to the club. Me i am an old girl that has not left. All the girls are so in to owning tere custys. What the hell i mean they get made if you sit with someone they were talking to 10 mims ago. I do not watch to see who everyone is talking to so i don't step on your toes if that custy dose not want me there he will tell me. In my mind there is no such thing as stealing a dance from anthor girl if that dance was hers the custy would tell me. What gives us the right to say that mans money is ours relitaly check it is his and he can give to any girl he want or no girl at all no matter how many dances he bought from you in the past. I hate it when girls are like she is cutting into my money at what point did that custy take vowl only to buy dances from you i don't think we have such a cermoney.

    I belive the custmers notice this shit and it is a big turn off they feel like they are not free to enjoy the club they worry they might couse drama and hurt someones feeling when they are just trying to have a good time. Any why sould our custmers have to feel stress like that when they are in a place to have fun. It is there money let them have fun with it. Act like a lady and it will pay off.

    please leave your comments i want to know your opiaon.

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    My opinion is that the girls in your club are unprofessional, and that the money's probably hard to make there right now. Some customers enjoy feeling like they're being fought over but the majority don't want to deal with it.

    This topic's been covered a lot here and I think the consensus is that if a dancer has left the customer (I mean, not if she ran to the bathroom or something, but if she's coming right back he should let you know), he is fair game. And you know, it's too bad that girls think you are "stealing dances." Hopefully they will learn how to actually work a crowd rather than riding your ass.

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    Bottom line is the customer belongs to the club.

    If he has been a regular custy for a certain blonde entertainer for 5 years,but one night decides he wants a redhead,thats his option.
    If the first dancer gets pissed and causes drama,the customer could be lost by the 2nd girl,the club,AND the original dancer on the "come back".

    A girl can only give one lapdance at a time for the most part.If someone has 3-4 regs in at the same time,they should be sending thier fellow entertainers over to keep thier engine warm till you can get there to take it around the track a few times.

    You cant keep a Custy,its a catch and release system.Unless of course, you put a ring on him,even then,if he is in the club and decides he wants a different entertainer,guess what.....
    yes he will take an ass whoopin that night at home and prob have to sleep in the guest room,but he has the right to decide when inside the club.


    A professional entertainer has to be able to say hello AND goodbye to a reg, with the same smile on thier face,and without breaking the fantasy.

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    i dont know about "married" , but its a nice feeling to have a new dancer chatting with, have a reg walk buy and tell her that "he's d's". My dancer and I have attained a good realtionship after two years, and altho she is the one I come to see, ocasionally if she's busy I'll get a dance from someone else. We both understand that it's no more than "filler" while waiting for her.
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    My Regs come to see me. I know that when they are there. they'll get dances from me. If another girls asks and he wants to go ahead, I'm the reason he's there and he'll come back to me. I've got one that comes form out of state and he has no problem telling girls he's waiting for me. (he's always polite about it). What gets me about soem girls is how rude they are to other entertainers. I've had girls jump my custy as soon as I get up to go to the bathroom! Or sit down when my drink is in front of them. A little curtosy(sp) goes a long way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    A girl can only give one lapdance at a time for the most part.If someone has 3-4 regs in at the same time,they should be sending thier fellow entertainers over to keep thier engine warm till you can get there to take it around the track a few times.
    Lol. That's a great way to look at it. Very well put. You bag me up Big.
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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99
    All the girls are so in to owning tere custys.
    They've yet to learn that the tighter they try to clamp down on something slippery, the faster it will fall out of their grip. Well, unless they're already straddling it, but I'm speaking metaphorically.

    Too bad they don't realize that it's unproductive to try to exercise absolute control over customers. (I think that's true for most things in life.) Not only is it unprofessional, it won't achieve the result they want anyway, for reasons you and the other posts have described. Trouble is, of course, they're not here to hear this lecture.

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    yeah my club is similar. i dont get like that. the girls who do just sit there with these guys and make no cash. i mean, maybe do a dance or two, but that's it. i take on the new guys that come in. we need new people in here that dont just sit at the bar and drink and only want to talk. a few girls got pissy at me for talking to their people, but i dont get pissy about it on them, unless they badmouth me to custys, then i get pissed.
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    When it comes to my ATF. She'll really hurt me if i get dances from other girls.
    i've only cheated on her a few times. but she let me know it the next time.
    if i was into her causeing pain i'd cheat alot more

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    I've had several very long term regulars ( 1+ years ) and I really only get upset if they are getting dances from or talking to a girl they know I don't like---and I don't mean the " she's a skank" type of dislike, I mean the" she tries to undercut my money" dislike......If another dancer is disrespectful to me, and I have explained it to my regular and he understands, then by seeing her he is being disrespectful to me. At that point I make the decision on whether my pride outweighs my garter.
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    actually i had this happen to me recently, i was dancing and i had a "fan" come in, someone who tips well and buys me drinks and everything. i said hello and we talked for a short min but it was time for me to perform on stage.

    another dancer came and sat and talked to him and i really didnt mind it at first, it's america is a free country last time i checked. but what really grated my nerves is that it was a dancer that i actually tried to be nice to earlier on in the night and she acted like she didn't want to speak. after she saw the exchange between me and the customer, she sat down with him. after my set, i didnt want to interrupt them so i just went upstairs to change and drink water before coming back down.

    he was free then, i guess she'd gotten up to do something else, and i sat down and continued our conversation. while in the middle of our conversation, she sits down and tries to "break" our conversation, but once she saw that he was very fixated on me, she got up in a huff, and i got nothing but cold stares for the rest of the night, i mean this chick was like, sitting stageside everytime i performed just to stare at me.

    i mean, wtf??? how does a person deal with this professionally?

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    Actually, a question from customer point of view:

    I have a regular dancer I get a long with fine, 99% of the time, she is who I spend my time with. However, every once in a while, especially if it is a new girl, I'm interested in getting dances from someone else.

    Bottom line, we're both there with different agendas, but I don't want to -- in the context of a club - act rudely. If I want to see someone else besides the regular, should I just tell her, wait until she's busy with someone else, or what?

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    If I want to see someone else besides the regular, should I just tell her, wait until she's busy with someone else, or what?
    Just tell her you want to get some dances/tip dancer X at the rail. This isn't a big deal.

    If she starts slinging the SS or gets her string in a twist over your spreading the wealth, you should find another ATF.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Super Cecil
    When it comes to my ATF. She'll really hurt me if i get dances from other girls.
    i've only cheated on her a few times. but she let me know it the next time.
    if i was into her causeing pain i'd cheat alot more
    "Cheated on her"?????? A little dose of reality is in line here.
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    bahahaha i actually had a customer "break up" with me tonight...lol and in those words too! i was like "huh?! we were in a relationship?" random!! then i went outside for some fresh air cos wasnt feeling so good,and he followed me,said " why didnt you tell your going outside? what are you doing..blah" like i had to explain to him everything i did! geeezzz he was only my "regular" for 3 weeks ffs.

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