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    confused as hell on this one...


    at my club we have lap dance room that are entirely closed door dances. no one can see in and the door is locked, so theres always roumers going around of girls doing more then they should.

    the thing is, the club charges a normal lap dance fee ( say $80 half hour) i always tell customers, that the clubs cut ( its not really-they only take $20 of that,the rest is ours) and its double that again if they want to touch my breasts.

    see the thing is, i know most girls charge a flat fee of $40 regardless of the length of time booked,for touching. and i know im raising some eyebrows amongst the other dancers, especially since MOST of my customers tend to book 20 min or half an hour, so it can look a lil dodgy on the outside.

    last night i was just sitting there,bymyself doing nothing,when a custy came up to me and asked if i wanted to go for a dance.well who am i to argue?! so we get to the "hostess booth" to book the dance, and he goes for an hour!!! omg! i hadnt even tried to hussle him, i explain its double that again if he wants to touch my boobs.he pays the exta.
    the hostess gives me a strange look. then i realise how bad it looks.

    ive just been booked for an hour ($160),and taken $160 cash off the guy for "touching"

    lol now im a bit worried, what if everyone thinks that about me?!?!! i can see how it would look hookerish on the outside too, but i dont wanna lower my prices cos thats what they all do. and im still making just as many dances as them even tho i charge more.

    meh, just wnated to vent i guess.

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    dont worry, you are fine/ the minute you start giving out your number to every guy is when id think twice.

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz
    we have lap dance room that are entirely closed door dances. no one can see in and the door is locked, so theres always roumers going around of girls doing more then they should.
    I'm sure there are with that set-up!

    Is that the norm in NZ clubs, locked doors and complete privacy? (If so, I hope you at least have a "panic button" to summon help/bouncers if needed.) It seems designed to encourage "extras" or the appearance thereof. Given that system, people are going to more-or-less think whatever they want, and there is probably nothing you can do about it. Denying it will just make some people think it is so even more strongly.

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    yes the think you are a hooker but its only becuse they are haters. Trust me i did 26 dances last night and now i suck dick in the vip what the fuck ever they are just jelusis take this is a compliment you are better then them.

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    Is touching allowed in your club and it's just something you personally charge extra for? It would sound bad in my club because you aren't allowed to touch, so if someone heard me say that yeah, they would be upset. But don't worry; as long as you're cool with what you're doing and you're within club rules, who cares? (I have to say, though, $320 for an hour which includes boobie touching seems a little low).

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    I'd just be worried about the dude getting in there and being a little too pushy. How do you stop them?

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    As long as you're making your money who cares really, Mer? You're not there for popularity. I'm struggling to make $160 a night in Sydney these days, it's so slow!

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    oh ashara, that sucks! why is sydney gotten so bad?!


    all girls allow touching, its no suprise for girls to charge extra for this. BUT almost all the girls ive spoken to only charge $40 regardless of the time. ie a half hour dance, they still just charge $40 extra. so me charging double that, DOES look a lil bad.

    ohh i dunno...


    and yeah having fully closed doors does seem to have dodgy conotations, but our club is very clean, in the sence that everyone is very anti-extras. thats the only reason i can handle it there! lol
    no theres no panic buttons,guys tend to be very well behaved, and if they TRY anythign, dance is over and they DONT get any refunds, our housemom stands up for us alot.

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    Anytime a dancer makes more money than other dancers, she's commonly called a hooker behind her back, regardless of whether she is or isn't. So I really wouldn't worry about what they think and just do your thing.

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    i have also done that in clubs that ive worked at with closed booths...i also charge for touching my boobs...i see nothing wrong...sometimes people forget why we are here in the club...For money...so if they are gonna pay you double or triple to touch your breasts...when other chicks and doing possibly more...go for it hun!!!

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    They are just pissy you have found a "secret" way to truely capitalize on your time and doing very well at it too. Besides if someone is going to touch your ta-ta's and its ok at your club..I say why the hell not charge a bit more?
    This happened once at a place I worked at.....this girl who had nipples on ribs and fake hair....but although was very pleasant to be around. She gave backrubs to customers and also told them that if they didnt like their dance it was free....needless to say she didnt give extras (illegal there) and they always got more dances. A differnt approach or/and increase in earnings is ALWAYS going to attract some haters.
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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    Why should anyone think of you as a hooker when they are doing the same? All you're doing is showing everyone that you think you're worth more than $40. It doesn't matter what you're doing or for how long, theres always gonna be someone out to talk shit, whether the door locks or not. Never sell yourself short!

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    Screw them. Don't worry about what they say, you're there to make money, and there will always be others jealous of you making more than them. Keep up the good work!

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    thanks everyone!!!

    i just felt a bit weird when other dancers keep giving me weird looks about the amount of cash i was taking off the guys for touching- i jusyt dont wanna be groped for $40, in fact id rather not be gropped at all....but if i charge high then it doesnt seem so bad.

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    Wow, you had to spend an hour with that guy for just a couple hundred? Ouchies girl! Your such a cutie, you shouldn't sell yourself so short....
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    miss jessica, how much is an hour with breast touching in the states then?? wow and i was OVERCHARGING by my clubs standards!!!

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    Default Re: paranoid-do dancers think im a hooker!!!?

    The $320 is fine. Probably difficult to get more anyway. Customers can talk together and decide you are too high whatever the situation.

    In this country $320 per hour behind closed doors plus a willing, attractive provider will get just about everything in most of the US including GFE. You don't provide that service, and you're in a different country, so this doesn't directly apply to you. But it's aninteresting point of reference.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    In this country $320 per hour behind closed doors plus a willing, attractive provider will get just about everything in most of the US including GFE. You don't provide that service, and you're in a different country, so this doesn't directly apply to you. But it's aninteresting point of reference.
    thats exactly my point!!! i KNOW these guys can get laid or get hj whatever in a brothel down the road for LESS then they are paying to touch my boobies! and cao the other girls charge much less, im a lil worried they think maybe im charging more,cos im doing more.....


    im over it now.

    hey if guys WANT to touch,they can damn well pay,and im not lowering my prices for the other dancers convienance

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    Where di the $320 figure come from? 160NZD is 115USD. That's too low for an hour of touching for me, but if its above market price for NZ, then you are doing fine. We have to consider PPP(purchasing power parity) of the NZ dollar, among other factors.

    For a good hustler in a major US city, you can get more, BUT its inconsistent anywhere. Some places the dancer can get $400-500 an hour for airdances. In Texas, averaging $150 for an hour is pretty good since its all $20 dances.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Jessica
    Wow, you had to spend an hour with that guy for just a couple hundred? Ouchies girl! Your such a cutie, you shouldn't sell yourself so short....
    It's $120 for half hour, $240 for hour at my club -- full nude, contact (2 way) private dance. Touching everywhere except groin, inner thigh, pubic and ass crack. No mouth contact what-so-ever.

    Once the photoshoot is done today and I know what date (or the general date) that my centrefold will be released.... even tho' it is a "weekly" adult mag... it is national and available in most newsagents (it's not regarded as a high profile mag yet it is still something!)... I'm thinking that I might charge a little extra.

    Of course, I will include (if they so desire) a signed copy of the magazine in question as the mag. itself only sells for $4 at the most.

    Would you think that it would be looked down upon if I increased my prices due to the centrefold (esp. around the time of the centrefold being published) ?


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    Well, we have the same problem in SF. (girls giving hj/bj/fs) But luckily, most of this type of business it is only at a couple of clubs across the city so that kind of competition isn't directly in the Broadway clubs. Anyway, I charge $300 for a half hour, w/ boobie touching. Most girls in my club charge the same, some a little more, some a little less.
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