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    Why is it bad for a woman to have sex, and good for a guy to? WHY does that double standard exist? Ya can't pin that one on us evil men, it's women that attack each other over it. Men are totally cool with a "slut" (believe me). How come it's so easy to overlook a dude's sluttyness but not a chicks? What happens here? Can i get the female mindset?

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    boys have a penis....girls have a vagina


    thats all i have to say...there is no real answer to this...society sucks basically


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    I don't fucking get it.

    A~ In a way, that's as good an answer as any. But i'd like to hear from thouse who aren't penile-challenged (New PC term!).

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    It's one of the con's of being a woman
    But there are many pro's though too!!

    Doesn't it seem funny that a fat, ugly, old RICH man can land a hot hot girl but reverse it and what happens?

    I don't know what that tells you about men or women. Whose the smart one here?

    I guess that these are things that make you go......... huh?

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    I think its been both men and woman labeling “sluts”. Woman b/c they want to be better than “the slut” and men b/c they want to be the only one the slut wants… Woman dumps man and goes with another, now she’s a slut!

    Also, I think it may have something to do with the fact that woman are more emotionally attached to sex so its hard to related to an overly sexual woman. (with many partners)


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    its just another direct offshoot of the gender define/divide
    not to mention the whole fucked upness of this world can probably be traced back to that

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    Yeah, but what the fuck is the gender define/divide?

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    b/c women are catty sometimes.

    When they cant find a flaw its easy to say someone is a slu*....

    ITS SAD REALLY!!!!

    Slut is becoming another word for bitch!

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    At least the word "Bitch" has it's good side. Myself, i love bitches. They, at least, tell a guy what they want and don't make him play 20 questions or guess (Women really are a mystery to us). I don't care if i have to fight with her sometimes. At least i know why i'm fighting!

    Us guys are simple. We don't get a lot of that shit you chicks throw at us. It's like a curve ball, often. I read up on astronomy, and not only are chicks more beautiful than anything up there, they are also more of a mystery to me.

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    Women call each other sluts b/c they are jealous. If Suzy lands a date with the guy Jane wnats to go out with, then he must be seeing Suzy b/c she is a slut.

    If suzy gets the promotion Jane wanted, suzy is sleeping with the boss, and therefore a slut.

    If suzy invents the cure for cancer and also effects world peace, it is because seh slept with somebody somewhere and therefore is a slut.

    It is the way the lazy, homely, incompetent, un-ambitious Janes of the world excuse their own shortcomings and failures. Anyone elses' success happens only because she slept with somebody, and therefore is a slut.

    The stupid women who perpetuate this are too hypocritical and short sighted to realize that they are selling all women short, perpetuating the idea that a woman has nothing to offer the world but can get the things she wants with sex. OR maybe they are afraid of woman who are more open and generous with their sexuality. All I iknow is, this starts for every girl in high school, and many women never outgrow it. Amazingly it happens in the SC's, too. "The only reason she makes mroe money than I do is because she does extras" is jsut nother way of saying, "she's a slut (and I'm not.)"

    But, what the hell, either way the "sluts" win! IF being called a slut means I get the guy, the promotion, the money, whatever, I'll be called a slut! Where do I sign up?

    PS, the best lover I ever had told me he thought SLUT jsut meant a woman who was comfortable with her sexuality. To this day, that is his nickname for me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    Women call each other sluts b/c they are jealous. If Suzy lands a date with the guy Jane wnats to go out with, then he must be seeing Suzy b/c she is a slut.

    If suzy gets the promotion Jane wanted, suzy is sleeping with the boss, and therefore a slut.

    If suzy invents the cure for cancer and also effects world peace, it is because seh slept with somebody somewhere and therefore is a slut.

    It is the way the lazy, homely, incompetent, un-ambitious Janes of the world excuse their own shortcomings and failures. Anyone elses' success happens only because she slept with somebody, and therefore is a slut.

    The stupid women who perpetuate this are too hypocritical and short sighted to realize that they are selling all women short, perpetuating the idea that a woman has nothing to offer the world but can get the things she wants with sex. OR maybe they are afraid of woman who are more open and generous with their sexuality. All I iknow is, this starts for every girl in high school, and many women never outgrow it. Amazingly it happens in the SC's, too. "The only reason she makes mroe money than I do is because she does extras" is jsut nother way of saying, "she's a slut (and I'm not.)"

    But, what the hell, either way the "sluts" win! IF being called a slut means I get the guy, the promotion, the money, whatever, I'll be called a slut! Where do I sign up?

    PS, the best lover I ever had told me he thought SLUT jsut meant a woman who was comfortable with her sexuality. To this day, that is his nickname for me.

    great post! thats pretty much how i feel about it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    Amazingly it happens in the SC's, too. "The only reason she makes mroe money than I do is because she does extras" is jsut nother way of saying, "she's a slut (and I'm not.)"
    Lol I agree!!!!!!!

    Has there ever been a top earner in a club that wasnt called a "slut"by the lowest earning mother theresa's?


    But, what the hell, either way the "sluts" win! IF being called a slut means I get the guy, the promotion, the money, whatever, I'll be called a slut! Where do I sign up?
    well,I can tell ya,but first i gotta show you the secret handshake and give you a brief initiation exam.

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    I wish I could be a slut.
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    I think that a "slut" can be female or male personally. I've used it only to describe someone who slept around with anyone and anything. I'm just not attracted to someone who doesn't remember (or even know) the names of the people he or she has slept with in the past. For me, it's just a purely sexual definition. Matter of fact, I used to refer to my Hubby's ex-wife as a whore. He corrected me and told me that she couldn't be a whore because whores charge, and she gives it away for free. So.. Eh.. lol

    I agree with Colleen's definition too. When you hear things like "Oh, she's a slut! Just look at the way she's dressed!", for example, they're just fuming because they couldn't pull off the same sexy outfit. Or, "Oh, she makes all the money in this club, she must be doing extras! That slut!". Comments like that really make me sick. In most cases, they're jealous of something that the person has that they obviously lack. It's sad, really.

    Lately whenever I've used the term, it was in jest and my Best Friend was the one being called it. (Even though he really is a slut.. Heh)

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    Can't count the times i was called a slut! lol. Ok, so i like to FUCK. If that makes me a slut more power to ME!

    And yes Tampafldancer is correct.....SLUT IS THE NEW WORD FOR BITCH. Bitch just does not piss me off anymore, this i know, and slut....well i really take that as a compliment. lmao! And yes guys can be a slut too! It's all good, just practice safe sex.

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    Slut!Ha! Funny Word!

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    Its all about biology. You are defining it on a micro-evolutionary scale.

    Women get pregnant, women are weaker, women can get STD's much easier from men than the other way around. Its based on the need to protect women. If a woman is sleeping around back in the day, she is highly likely to get kidnapped, raped, hurt, or miscarry by the hand of the other warmongering tribe.

    Thus WE created the label to protect the women and keep them as subsurvient in the group. The trive survives, and the male leaders of the tribe know that the children are biologically their offspring...

    Fast forward to today. Survival is easy, but some of the same risks exist for a single woman. Look up the STD infection statistics. The risk of being a male slut is far less than the risk of being a female slut. Even with protection, because everyone here knows that isn't not failproof and isn't always used........

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    It's called patriarchy my friend. We hear it about it in almost every sociology class. It means male dominance. Men have always had the upper hand in our society. They hold the most powerful positions, (no female presidents in the US yet) and they compile the highest percentage of rich individuals. They are usually the head of the family. Men have always been billed as the stronger more powerful sex. Therefore, they are expected to have multiple partners to try to spread their seed. Women were usually expected to carry and birth that one man's seed. Also, women are not supposed to get pleasure from sex. I'm not saying it's right, just one explanation.
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    a general preinstilled social norm that were born into by design for limitation and division
    define and divide and divide and conquer/rule

    haha

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    ^Go, Kat!

    Madcap,
    Throughout history and across cultures, it has primarily been MEN who despise, punish, and seek to control promiscuous women. In the nineteenth century, women who were caught masturbating or engaging in premarital sex were subjected to "cures" for "nymphomania" that ranged from the ridiculous (cold baths and bland food) to the vicious (institutionalization and clitoridectomy). This was all carried out by an entirely male-run political, social, and medical establishment. Even today, there are cultures in which women who have engaged in extramarital sex are severely punished--sometimes even executed. The punishments are meted out even when the evidence suggests that the woman in question was raped.

    Women object to "sluts" for the reasons that other people stated here, but I would bet all my belongings that the first person to utter the synonymous word in some ancient language was in possession of a penis.

    Men, of course, have mixed feelings about "sluts." Privately, they approve...as long as the "slut" in question is NOT their own wife or girlfriend! [Edit to add: Blade excepted! But really, how many guys are that secure?]

    A man can benefit (biologically speaking) from the presence of promiscuous females in a population, as long as the promiscuous females end up bearing his children, and DO NOT convince him to provide parental care to offspring that were in fact sired by another male and therefore carry none of the provider's genes. It's an interesting game....

    It all has to do with the fact that sperm is cheap, females get pregnant, males exhibit "mate-guarding behavior," and there is intense selective pressure against men who are cuckolded.....

    (OK, Exam in two hours....I'll write more later!)

    It's a good question, Madcap!
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    yeah it does seem to be a problem designed by confused themselves patriarchy

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    When guys are being mean to each other I wish theyd call each other sluts and whores.....it would make me feel better. LOL
    I dont know its sucks...b/c woman are viewed to be ladies and that they dont do anything sexually expressive. This has been the stigma for decades. But, wooodly-do heres 2005 and everything is out the window...morals have changed and so has the world except w/ the few who like it the way it used to be.

    Believe me though...when I talk to my gf's and we say that some guy is a "man-whore" it doesnt have a positive tone to it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap
    Why is it bad for a woman to have sex, and good for a guy to? WHY does that double standard exist? Ya can't pin that one on us evil men, it's women that attack each other over it. Men are totally cool with a "slut" (believe me). How come it's so easy to overlook a dude's sluttyness but not a chicks? What happens here? Can i get the female mindset?
    It all gets back to protecting the "tribe"..... it is an example of an extention of the survival instinct .
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    When guys are being mean to each other I wish theyd call each other sluts and whores.....it would make me feel better. LOL
    I dont know its sucks...b/c woman are viewed to be ladies and that they dont do anything sexually expressive. This has been the stigma for decades. But, wooodly-do heres 2005 and everything is out the window...morals have changed and so has the world except w/ the few who like it the way it used to be.

    Believe me though...when I talk to my gf's and we say that some guy is a "man-whore" it doesnt have a positive tone to it.
    Nah, they call each other bitches and pussies, ie weak like women. We all have our insult lexicon.

    Luckily at 28, the slut label doesn't really mean much to me as I'm not in high school forced to hang out with peers I don't like. We're all grownups now and can surround ourselves with positive, non-judgemental friends. As far as colleauges and society at large, its none of their business!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    When guys are being mean to each other I wish theyd call each other sluts and whores.....it would make me feel better. LOL
    Men calling each other sluts and whores? Nah, that would be kinda redundant.
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