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    Quote Originally Posted by Concubine
    Doing that to girls is a great way to promote drugs use, low self esteem and maybe even eating disorders!!! I just love how concerned and empathetic managers are.
    As much as I love to blame anything and everything on SC managers,its really hard to pin this one on them and be justified.
    The fault lies with the entertainer who put on the 10-15 lbs,not the managers.
    Low self esteem and an eating disorder are already present,they come along with the 10-15 lbs.

    I do think SC managers are somehow responsible for the Olsen twin who suffers from all the aflictions you listed,I cant prove it yet,but somehow they are involved, im sure of it now after reading your response and where you place the blame on "low self esteem","drug abuse",and "eating disorders". .

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    Yeah, it's not their fault, if you want to have a good club, you gotta have good looking girls IMO. When a customer walks for the first time, if there is a hot girl on stage then he is gonna want to stay for a drink, and if the next girl is hot as well, he's gonna want to continue to sit and throw money around. So, I ain't mad @ mgmt, in fact I feel bad that it gets delegated to them to tell us we need to lose weight. It's a touchy subject and a lot of girls don't handle it well. I'm not gonna go on a meth binge or starve myself b/c of it, b/c that might slim me up for a minute, but truth be told as soon as I start eating again it's gonna come back 10 fold. I actually hold my club in high regard for being elite. Initially I wasn't bitching that they told me to lose weight, I was just curious how the girls stay in shape

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    yeah fair enuf, u dont want a club full of ugly girls but the point is its unneccesary to put so much emphasis on dress size cos i know im prettier than some of the stick thin girls who they employ. i think if its just a matter of a few pounds then why not employ the girls and watch them lose it in a week of dancing and that way both the club and the dancer will be making money along the way.

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    Darling, if you make money, and are happy with the size of your ass, your ass is fine. If the customers in the club are giving you money to SHOW them the ass that you currently have, they probably like it. Or they just feel sorry for you - which is possible, but not likely.
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    Don't worry, it goes both ways...I've seen girls thrown by the wayside for being too skinny as well

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtynarcosis
    Yeah, it's not their fault, if you want to have a good club, you gotta have good looking girls IMO. When a customer walks for the first time, if there is a hot girl on stage then he is gonna want to stay for a drink, and if the next girl is hot as well, he's gonna want to continue to sit and throw money around. So, I ain't mad @ mgmt, in fact I feel bad that it gets delegated to them to tell us we need to lose weight. It's a touchy subject and a lot of girls don't handle it well. I'm not gonna go on a meth binge or starve myself b/c of it, b/c that might slim me up for a minute, but truth be told as soon as I start eating again it's gonna come back 10 fold. I actually hold my club in high regard for being elite. Initially I wasn't bitching that they told me to lose weight, I was just curious how the girls stay in shape
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    I am not sure if you got a chance pick up a bottle of Tonalin CLA ( like Kat suggested) but if you haven't please do. You'll see results quickly. Its not a diet pill but a supplement.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM

    I do think SC managers are somehow responsible for the Olsen twin who suffers from all the aflictions you listed,I cant prove it yet,but somehow they are involved, im sure of it now after reading your response and where you place the blame on "low self esteem","drug abuse",and "eating disorders". .

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    Yeah, I am looking it up right now. I have hideous hypertension though, so I guess I should just discuss it with whoever works @ the vitamin store. I am just leary of weight loss supplements b/c they sometimes raise your blood pressure and are expensive. Thanks for the help

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    As much as I love to blame anything and everything on SC managers,its really hard to pin this one on them and be justified.
    The fault lies with the entertainer who put on the 10-15 lbs,not the managers.
    Low self esteem and an eating disorder are already present,they come along with the 10-15 lbs.

    I do think SC managers are somehow responsible for the Olsen twin who suffers from all the aflictions you listed,I cant prove it yet,but somehow they are involved, im sure of it now after reading your response and where you place the blame on "low self esteem","drug abuse",and "eating disorders". .

    Dude, celebs and dancers are not the same. Yes, of course she has an eating disorder from some manager she isn't even associated with. Ack! I don't know how this got so sidetrack. I don't know how some silly celeb I don't even know developed an eating disorder and quite frankly I don't care.

    Just because someone gains a mere 10-15lbs does not mean she has an eating disorder. Shit happens, have a too busy schedule, being stressed, and it's actually natural in places like Canada where it gets cold in the winter to put on about 5lbs during the winter. A ton of different things. And of course I guess someone that loses 10-15lbs has an eating disorder as well. Gimmie a break!

    Your job, your sole source of income, depends on you losing weight in this situation. I guess you could relate it to a celeb in that sense. Why do you think that 80% of gymnasts and ballerinas have an eating disorder? It's a very easily triggered thing with women as it is with the media and us having all of our insecurities. Then on top of it your income depends on it and you are in front of a crowd full of people with nothing on but a smile and your manager comes up and implies that you are too fat! A woman is going to do practically anything to lose the weight or just say to herself that this is ridiculous and that she doesn't have to take it and leave.

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    v true concubine, i agree with it all. i know i have to lose weight for my income but i still dont love the feeling it gives me when i place so much emphasis on my dress size. esp when im sure the custs would like me the way i am

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    Quote Originally Posted by siliconedoll
    v true concubine, i agree with it all. i know i have to lose weight for my income but i still dont love the feeling it gives me when i place so much emphasis on my dress size. esp when im sure the custs would like me the way i am
    Yes, I bet the custies would like you just the way you are as well. I personally love a curvier woman and miss my curves. I just don't understand why they wont give beautiful woman the opportunity even, or let custies have the choice of variety. When did it have to start to do with the size of a woman's ass and not the money she's taking home (or has the potential to take home)? This shit makes me so mad!

    I can understand if the woman is obese, because that's not natural. But 10-20lbs over their ideal weight for their height is not a problem and is still in healthy range. I doubt any extremely underweight girls have had their shifts cut or have not been able to work before.

    I have to admit however that I am a brainless follower of the media as well. I am 5'8" and 128lbs and think I should drop 8lbs. Even though I find curvy girls attractive and miss my well rounded hips and butt i'm brainwashed into thinking that men think thinner=prettier. *sigh*

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    i guess my idea of the perfect figure is curvy bust, curvy ass but small waist and toned stomach. prob is its kinda hard 2 get, its curves everywhere or thin everywhere. also i know if i worked a "normal" job in an office etc i would be seen as slim but its when i compare myself to others in this industry that i feel too heavy. (but dont get me wrong im not complaining, im the one who wants to be a dancer)

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    where do you work in DC that's so upscale?? I thought all DC clubs were neighborhood bars, pure stage, nude, no hustling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muyaha
    I think I have seen this flyer.
    Yeah, that's my co-worker, "Mocha" on the flyer. I'll out of town so I won't be able to see her at her show this weekend.

    To Katrine: I can undertand why you think it is demeaning. It's really an experience for me to work in SoCal. I have worked w/ many ex and current porn actresses and other dancers who work in the industry but are not actors. Some of the things I hear them talk about sound demeaning to me, yet they feel comfortable with it.

    Therefore I don't judge Mocha. She has a full time office job and does this stuff for fun and entertainment.

    Live and let live, I guess. As long as it doesn't hurt me or people around me.


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    Oh there's alot of ex porn girls and even current porn girls in this area. Things are different in what I call the valley of porn vs. other areas of the country. If it's the flyer I saw then this girl is good looking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    Your attitude fuckin rocks.
    And she is a total sweetheart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    where do you work in DC that's so upscale?? I thought all DC clubs were neighborhood bars, pure stage, nude, no hustling.
    All DC clubs are not created equal.

    We try not to make too much noise about the club (DN can tell you the name since it's her thread). Our club is a bit of a secret. As it is, most dancers around the country don't believe how much money the dancers can make with good regulars here without actually having to do LDs.

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    Well Dirtynarcosis, it sounds like you are handling this well and I m glad you are taking the necessary steps to make yourself healthier and in better shape. Like I said, keep up the workouts, increase them if you can (but not to the point of being obsessed of course) and keep up the healthy eating habits.
    Sometimes when this stuff happens it can be embarrassing BUT it can be a blessing in disguise. I am glad you are choosing a happy path in life rather than letting it bring you down. Stay positive and just take excellent care of yourself. Give it a month or two and after you are in better shape you'll look back and actually be thankful this happened to you, as it will have helped you become stronger and healthier in more ways than one.

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