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    Sad Farewell, stripperweb

    Well ladies, I just want to say that I have appreciated all of the advice, suggestions, ideas, and opinions that you have shared with me over the past few months. I will no longer be posting on stripperweb after this.

    It seems my boyfriend has felt the need to read all of my posts on here, and got upset over the way I responded to the thread on "how much do you like sex?" (I responded somewhere in the middle) So now it's become this big issue with his insecurities and all of that bullshit. Quite frankly, I do not understand why he's been spending time on the boards (Especially ladies only) if he wasn't trying to "check up" on me. He claims he wont log on anymore - like I believe that.

    Can you believe we actually had a big fight over how i voted in a poll on STRIPPERWEB? Men. Its been fun girls, and I appreciate the helpful words you've lended on several occassions. It was so great to find an online community of women whom I could relate to. I will miss it.

    Best wishes to all,
    Belle

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    phhhhht.... that sucks


    just have Pryce cancel your account, and start a new screen name. Your boyfriend will be none the wiser.

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    ^ Fuck that. Tell him to grow up. Keep your account and change the password.

    Don't go!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    I guess him maybe trying to figure out what he could do to change your answer would be too much like, unmanly and shit, right?
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    My god, LOL! Of all the crazy things to fight about.

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    Bummer, my bf knows that I posted "somewhere in the middle." It's a going joke between us.
    I'm sorry he couldn't be more openminded....
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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    I agree with the others. you should stay, and he should try harder!

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    Keep the SW account,lose the boyfriend.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

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    ^agreed.

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    What OTB said.

    Totally retarded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    ^ Fuck that. Tell him to grow up. Keep your account and change the password.

    Don't go!!!!!!
    Ditto. Jesus Christ, what a dumb thing to be mad about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    ^ Fuck that. Tell him to grow up. Keep your account and change the password.

    Don't go!!!!!!
    I agree 200%!

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    Men don't worry about stuff like that.Little boys do.
    One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.

    一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    what the fuck? how does he know it's because of him? what if you just don't like fucking that much? damn that.

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    It's laughable he's that thin-skinned. How does he handle your getting-nude-for-paying-strangers work? Dump him and start dating a grown-up.

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    Make sure he reads this fucking thread before you dump his ass, too!
    Never underestimate a hot chick with brains - even if she's nekkid!

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    Absolutely. This may just be a wild guess, but I bet he does OTHER sneeky, controllinh, immature crap, too--Right?

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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    Keep the SW account,lose the boyfriend.
    Ditto this. He sounds like he has a whole lot of growing up to do. Stay with us!

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    I agree with everyone.... he's a LOSER!!!!!!!!
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    Ewww. What little bitches men can be... makes me thankful for mine. It took me many of those before I found him though.
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    Default Re: Farewell, stripperweb

    I think he is a stupid guy. You didn't write anything bad. Your statements are quite deep and he loses a lot of you just denying that. It is a pity!

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    According to your posts in LO, you're having sex with him once a week even though you're not into it and having difficulties getting into the swing of things. That expresses your dedication to him, dedication to the relationship and desire to work on it.

    If he's unable to see how special and precious a thing that is, you really should dump him.

    While 'sex is overrated' is kind of demeaning thing to say when your with someone, I'd hope you've at least expressed this to him. If he had to discover this from a web forum as he thought everything was okie dokie, I can kinda feel for his side of things. He still shouldn't have any desire to bar you from reading here- that's just controlling.
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    Tamp, dont go! first of all he's just a boyfriend, not your husband...there is no need for letting something go that brings YOU joy...especially a lover..(within reason). You like this web site, keep it, you will laugh about this later trust me on this one...were all here for you.
    like the others said, kick him to the curb, get a new name, something...but if you do choose to go, fair well, and be safe......Barbee XOXO

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    Tampa, you can not freaking leave this site ! You are a grown woman for pete's sake and you run your life..No one else !
    My new love...is me !

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    I'm at a loss, ladies.

    I love my boyfriend, but this was just plain retarded. I know that there are some insecurity issues with him - but I didn't know it was this bad...

    I've dated a sneaky, controlling, jealous, insecure man before, and I vowed that I would never put up with anything like that again. So, I'm worried that maybe I'm just overreacting and jumping the gun. I really let him have it (I asked if he was monitoring my emails and listening in on my phone calls too, because he might as well!)

    To me, the issue was that he knows how much I value and appreciate this community of women. Sometimes (and I'm sure A LOT of you can relate) I just feel like the only one with any sanity when I look around at the majority of dancers in clubs I work in. This board gives me a sense of comfort, knowing there are other women who are ambitious, smart, and strong, and just happen to be dancers.

    I'm not sure. I want to stay, but I don't want another issue to come up. This is not the first time he has "browsed" through SW and scrutinized over posts (misconstruing what I was saying and taking things personally)

    bah. he's older (36), divorced, with children, and I think those things alone make him feel insecure with me since i'm young, never been married and have no kids. anyhow.. im rambling now..

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