I have a new regular. He is a fairly nice guy, not an asshole. he has been in to see me the last 3 nights I have worked. Now I have a porblem. THe first time I danced for him, he made some comment about wanting to get me in a hot tub. I said something like, Mmm, I love hot tubs or some othr non-committal thing like that. Second night it was, Maybe we can get together sometime. I said "I hardly know you!" last night he told ANOTHER dancer tht he wanted to get me to spend the weekend with him, and told ME that he wanted to take me to the Syberis. He had his phone number ALREADY written down on not one but TWO business cards, which I had no choice but to take. Now I have no excuse not to call him . . .![]()
So you all can see where this is going, right? I don't really want to loose his business, I don't want to be a bitch to him, admit I lied about my marriage (did he ever ask? I can't remember) or otherwise bust his bubble. I get the distict feeling tht "I don't date outside the club" is not going to work because he will want to be the exception to that rule. Or he will decide that I have been leading him on, etc.
For some reason, I don't usually encounter reg's who don't get the "fantasy" aspect of it. ANd I have never delt with one who looks so dificult to discourage!
He is bound to be there tonight, so somebody PLEASE help me think of somethng to say!



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Were it me, I would take the flighty approach for this one...*giggle* gosh I'm so sorry I didn't call...I simply didn't have time today <next day> *giggle* gosh I'm so sorry I didn't call...I lost your number*pout* <next day> gosh I'm so sorry I didn't call...I was fighting with my sister



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