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    ok my husband and i are opening a club its going to be kind of 60's 70's retro club it wont be a strip club but we'll have caged gogo dances im going to be dancing well have live band nightly. my question is does any one think that me dancing could possible cause problems in our relationship.

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    um. depends on how good your relationship is, I guess.

    Some strippers' SOs do have a tough time with their women dancing. In which case most of us tell the girl to dump the bastid. Heh.

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    Default Re: need help

    it's not like you're going to be giving lap dances, all you are doing is performing. If he's not secure enough to be OK with that then that's a bigger issue.

    Is he older than you? Has he ran a club before (sorry, being nosy)

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    yes he's older than me this is his second club

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    Only the two of you are going to be able to answer this one... Something to think about is how he reacts when other guys flirt with you when you're with him. What about when you're not with him? The reaction to you dancing gogo won't be quite the same, but it will be similar. No need to answer here. I'm just trying to help.
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    ^ Great post. All I can honestly add is talk directly to your SO about your concerns and take it from there.
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