View Poll Results: Have you ever done extras?

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    Default Wondering how many honestly do this...

    I was visiting a friend of mine in Florida not too long ago. I went in there to watch her dance. I live in Va so we dont really have a lot of clubs with private rooms and VIPS. We can't even be topless if there is alcohol. Neway, I noticed that quite a few girls did "extras" . Like I said, it would be hard at all the places I work at for the dancers to do stuff with custys because of no private rooms etc. I was wondering how often this goes on at the club(s) you work at. Anybody going to admit they do it?

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    Hmm I smell smoke....there must be a fire somewhere?

    No, I can honestly say I have not done any extras to date. The minute I might think its a good idea (in a place where its not the norm) I will quit that very second.

    Secondly, here in SD you have to give dances w/ your top on even in the nude clubs where they dont serve alcohol.
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    I have seen girls do things from let guys touch their breasts to letting guys suck on them to putting hands in g-strings and then some. I will never change my rule which is NO GROPING!!!!!!!! The minute I change my rules to make more money that will be the day I get a personal body guard and start prostituting myself privately outside of the club. It always annoys the shit out of me how girls will do extra shit for a little more money, of course guys will buy it because it is not the "norm"...whatever it bugs me but they are usually the ones who end up hating men and hating themselves.

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    No no no. No way. No.
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    The first few shifts I worked, I did plenty of illegal acts from sitting on a customer's lap to letting my butt get touched. I've sinced changed my wicked, naive ways. However, I've always made the obvious parts (on both me and the customer) off-limits.

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    Never done any extras...it never hurt my money, either.

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    I could go on forever about "Extras" but you won't find anyone that will admit doing it.
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    Each time this topic comes up (which is very frequently, of course), someone eventually points out that the definition of what constitutes an "extra" varies tremendously from place-to-place, club-to-club and dancer-to-dancer. Maybe it is my turn to do it this time: Some consider virtually any touching to be an "extra"; some consider only HJs, BJs and beyond "extras"; and every point in between is someone's "dividing line" it seems. One reason that relatively few dancers think/say/admit that they do "extras" is because many define "extras" to mean anything more permissive than what they personally allow. This definitely makes polls such as this one difficult to interpret.

    Someone else do it next time.

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    Never,ever.Didn't have to.IMO these things should be taken outside of the club.

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    No way. Nuh uh. I always say the same thing. If I wanted the guys to see the pink bits, I'd dance nude. If I wanted them to touch me or try to do naughty things with me, I'd either go find myself a nice patch of corner or date them. Neither is gonna happen.
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    sitting on laps is considered extras ?

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    In some areas SthnrnGrl777 that is an extra.
    I dont mind ppl touching my thigh, arm or waist but thats where the line is; no boobs or pink parts.

    Maybe extras are difined by anything you are doing that is not legal in your area?
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    Pink parts ! that's foul !

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    If I wanted them to touch me or try to do naughty things with me, I'd either go find myself a nice patch of corner or date them. Neither is gonna happen.
    I am 100% with Paige on this one.

    Additionaly I can not respect ANY dancer who does extras ( in the traditional sense as in sex/bj's/fingering etc) in the club. If they want to be hookers that is their business, but do it on their OWN time. They need to be walking the streets or working for an in/out call agency or go work at a brothel or through their own website.

    When it is done INSIDE the club it then involves everyone connected to they club. Extras put EVERY single person who works in the club, invested in the club, who does business with the club and all the people connected to those people ( their kids, their husband/wife) etc etc at risk. Putting all those other people at risk IMHO makes the extras buyers/sellers members of the scum of the earth club.

    I say do it on your own time or not at all.
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    it's sad when girls go the extra mile.
    the slutty one

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    Hell no!!.....I don't know if I could live with myself if I did..

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    Hmmmm, 11 yes answers and not a single yes post?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Hmmmm, 11 yes answers and not a single yes post?
    Thats what I was thinking lol

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    Tsk tsk, too vague to be worthwhile

    How about this: Have you ever sucked dick while working a shift as a stripper?

    That's the kind of question everybody wants to know the answer to, might as well be explicit.

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    Or we could drag out Sporty's list of extras from SCJ.

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    It would be tough for a lady to start posting a "yes" message after hearing, "I have no respect for anyone who does that."

    I define extras as something that's outside of law or club rules. The question is "have you ever done extras." At least by my definition, that means if no breast touching is allowed, and just one time, for one very good return well-behaved customer, the dancer let her breasts run down the backs of the guy's hands as she slid down him during the lapper, the poll would require a "yes."

    It wouldn't surprise me that a few ladies might have done something like that at least one time.

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    Given that those answering the poll probably do not agree on the definition of "extras" and given that they are not necessarily representative (a fair statistical sample of) the dancers on SW and given that the dancers on SW are not necessarily representative of dancers in general, imo about all that you can safely conclude is that dancers who do extras are not extremely rare, nor are those who refuse to do extras, by any reasonable/plausible definition of the term. In other words, the poll doesn't tell us anything we didn't already know, and if it did, we wouldn't believe it anyway. (Not that it isn't as good a way as any to waste time online.)

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    Since lap sitting is considered an extra in some places, I guess I've done extras But as far as MY def of extras (touching of genital/breasts, rubbing a customers' genitals/breast, kissing other than on cheek, ass grabbing, and beyond), no I have not and I do pretty well, even amongst those dancers that do provide extras.


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    I agree that the question is pointless without a common definition of "extras."

    I don't dance anymore, so I have no problem answering honestly.

    During the early part of my career (late eighties to early nineties), I worked in clubs with stage dancing only. Most of them were topless, and you could get in trouble for "flashing" onstage, or letting a guy get a little too touchy while he tipped. (I sometimes did, but it was usually accidental. No, really.) In these clubs, there was no such thing as lap dancing or extras. Girls who wanted to turn tricks did so OTC.

    Once I began working in clubs with table or lap dancing, I generally stuck to low-mileage clubs. I can honestly say that (to my recollection) I have never done any of the following with a customer in a club: tongue-kissed or fucked, given a handjob, engaged in oral sex (giving or receiving), or allowed digital penetration. I add that caveat in parentheses, because I did work as a dancer on and off for over a decade, and I wasn't exactly teetotaling during most of that time It's possible that I've forgotten some lower-level transgression, but I really don't think so.

    In low-mileage clubs, I have been guilty of the following: grinding a little more intensely than was generally acceptable under club rules (but never really with the specific intent of getting the guy off. Why? Because once he gets off, he's done. duh. Keep the tease going for as long as possible...). I have probably, at least once or twice (), while feeling happily buzzed and doing multiple dances in the CR for a favored customer, allowed some very light "accidental" touching of various naughty bits.

    Toward the end of my career, when mileage was increasing across the board, my favorite club got shut down, and I had to work in some higher-mileage places. In clubs where breast fondling was the norm, I allowed that. These clubs generally allowed for heavy grinding, too. At first it all freaked me out, but then I kind of got used to it, and didn't find it particularly horrible. However, I didn't work at any of these clubs for very long. I can see how that level of contact, while okay in smaller doses, could really get to you after a while.

    There. An honest answer.

    Let me just say that I have no problem with prostitution (i.e. actual sex acts in exchange for money), I just think that it shouldn't take place within the SC. Stripping and prostitution should be two separate things.(IMHO).
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    I have never and never will do "extras".That's when you quit being a dancer and become something else.I want to be able to live with myself and no one can ever put a price tag on me.
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