Ok, I have been trying to process this on my own since yesterday. But its making me too fucking angry !
Yesterday, my Mom tells me that she filed my fucking taxes. I never asked her to do that nor is it appropriate ! I filed for an extension to give me time to claim everything I can. She also informed me that she took the motherfucking liberty to claim my nieces and nephew who live with me and whom I have been taking care of since their parents died over 8 years ago !
She never helped me take care of them ! On the opposite she called fucking CPS when she learned I was a dancer ! That never went anywhere, after an investigator came out and saw what type of person I was and the fact the children were in private school and were VERY well taken care of.
To make matters worse I called the IRS and the California tax board only to find out that she has been claiming the children on her taxes since I have been their legal guardian ! They have been sending me letters regarding this but, "somehow" my mother changed my address to hers and has been keeping it "hidden" from me !
Honestly its not about the fucking taxes, I KNOW how to deal wth that !
Its more about the need to be such a g*d damn control freak !
My parents don't need the money ! They both teach at colleges in the area and purchased their many properties back when Ca. was some what affordable.
I feel so fucking violated and betrayed ! Besides the fact I have very major health issues and I don't need the extra stressors ! I have told her several times that my doctor believes my cancer keeps progressing because of it.
She acts like she doesn't give a fuck about anything but, her fucking self !



. I never asked her to do that nor is it appropriate ! I filed for an extension to give me time to claim everything I can. She also informed me that she took the motherfucking liberty to claim my nieces and nephew who live with me and whom I have been taking care of since their parents died over 8 years ago !
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Sounds like you have a plan of action as well - wanna vent? I have an extra ear, send me a message. I'm good at nodding and saying unhuh on cue. xxoo



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