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    I'm confused again

    Heres what happened: I was giving my boyfriend oral sex last night and out of nowhere he grabs my hair and shoves my head down. I gagged and coughed a lot but figured it was an accident, and he just got carried away, so i started at it again. Few more seconds pass by and he did it again! That time after nearly losing my lunch i asked him not to do that. He proceeded to go into this big long rant about how he wants me to deepthroat him and he likes the sound of gagging. I wanted him to be happy so i finished the deed, but then to make matters worse, he finished on my face without warning. I started crying and now I'm mad at him. He apologized, but it still hurt my feelings. Really, he's not a mean guy AT ALL, and he doesnt force me to do things, it's just that I don't understand the obsession.

    It seems like a lot of guys like the whole gagging thing. What's the explanation behind the fetish?
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    I just make the gagging noises early on. I've lost my lunch several times on a guy's goodies. They like it, its a control trip fueled by popular trends in porn.........

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    Sadly, this is not a problem for me....
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    bleh... don't like it one bit. I'm sorry, just isn't me. My gf has tried to deep throat me before, gagged, and I immediately told her to stop. It just isn't that sexy and the feeling isn't any better, you know? ... although the last part sounds ok - I would give some sort of warning though .


    Also, I would feel pretty shitty if I made my girl cry because I "got carried away". and it kinda loses its appeal if she asks me to stop. weird...

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    I'm not sure, having a woman gag on my dick does not interest me in the slightest. If it bothers you like it seems to, I don't see any reason why you should ever put up with that. If your man gets off on making you uncomfortable and having you suffer, even if it's just a little bit, I can't see how that's a good thing, unless it's a mutual thing that you are both into.
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    every girl needs a good throat fucking

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sh0t
    every girl needs a good throat fucking
    What's that? Sounds painful...

    Also, he is into the subservient/dominant thing, and so am I sometimes. It's just that this particular incident was without warning.

    Do they really like when you get sick on them??
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    I can't imagine that a guy would like it if you got sick on him, but you never know. I can handle a deep throat and my BF loves it, he's very careful not to hurt me or make me gag. He's always asking if I'm doing ok while I'm at it. I love sucking cock and really enjoy going down on him

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    Quote Originally Posted by southstbabe
    I love sucking cock and really enjoy going down on him


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    Some guys have realized that for the damaged girls- these kinds of things keep them around longer.

    The ones that are the most repulsed by such concepts cognitively but have something broken inside flock to them like flies on shit... and instead of holding it against them, it makes them more interested... aroused. Something we call 'chasing a tingly'...

    Bizarre stuff, it is. The one's the most voicing disgust with such male behavior, the more strangely drawn/aroused by it they are, but in secret. Very typical of women that complain of guy XYZ, yet still strangely go to them or are willing to rationalize for them in other ways. At the end of the day, it's bad behavior/sign of low self-esteem.

    I hope if this is truly an issue for you, you'll stand up to his trials.
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    I'd rather she didn't gag, but perhaps I've just been fortunate enough to know girls that are skilled in throating techniques so that it's never been an issue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat
    Some guys have realized that for the damaged girls- these kinds of things keep them around longer.

    The ones that are the most repulsed by such concepts cognitively but have something broken inside flock to them like flies on shit... and instead of holding it against them, it makes them more interested... aroused. Something we call 'chasing a tingly'...

    Bizarre stuff, it is. The one's the most voicing disgust with such male behavior, the more strangely drawn/aroused by it they are, but in secret. Very typical of women that complain of guy XYZ, yet still strangely go to them or are willing to rationalize for them in other ways. At the end of the day, it's bad behavior/sign of low self-esteem.

    I hope if this is truly an issue for you, you'll stand up to his trials.
    If you're implying that I secretly enjoy his antics, then you're very wrong.

    Every now and then, I do enjoy when he gets rough or something, but with warning and when we are BOTH in the mood.
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    Gagging rules! You have to learn yours SO's limits before you can start holding her down or throat fucking her. She has to be into it or it's not any fun. Let her do the gagging on her own first and watch how long she can gag and then get into the "gagging". It's a great feeling and it goes over better if you think of her while your doing it and not just jamming your cock down her throat. It can be a very fun time!!! As for the facial , I always ask if it's ok first, it's like almond joy...some times she feels like a (little) nut (juice in the eye) some times she don't!
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    Hiyas dolly-
    Nothing of the sort implied- just you asked what's the deal behind the behavior (warned once, backed off.. warned twice.. explained he wanted it this way, etc.etc.)- it's a conditioned thing from him.

    Now whether you are willing to put up with it, disallow it, get pissed or oddly find it internally "sexy" but verbally repulsive.. nobody's got a clue there, only you.
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    Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!

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    Guitar player or Drummer?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!
    This year's award for Best Off-Topic Comment goes to KAT!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Off-topic, but I swallowed an entire load of musician jizz tonight without gagging once. Hooray for me!!!!!
    Hooray.... I play a little guitar now and then by the way....
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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    Hooray.... I play a little guitar now and then by the way....
    I play air guitar. Is that enough to maybe fantasize?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    Guitar player or Drummer?
    Singer and guitar player. But his voice isn't all that great.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Singer and guitar player. But his voice isn't all that great.
    Ooooh, ooooh, let me guess! Willie Nelson

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    Quote Originally Posted by SportsWriter2
    Ooooh, ooooh, let me guess! Willie Nelson
    Nah, this guy is a loser.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Nah, this guy is a loser.
    So you sucked him dry and gave his life meaning for a few minutes. Kat, you're a giver...

    Maybe he'll write a song about you....
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