^^ Whew, thanks P, for a while there I thought it was gonna be another sleepless night....![]()




Choosy extras girl.Originally Posted by Katrine
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Under your definition, I don't see how they could perform the defined acts and not be labeled that. If, on the other hand, you were to define extras as being practices beyond the standard operating procedure of the club, which is relative and varies from club to club, then no, they would not be extras girls. The club might be an extras club compared to the norm across clubs, but the girls wouldn't be performing extras if they're within SOP.Originally Posted by Katrine
I wouldn't consider them extras girls in an environment where they're not performing extras, as defined. Like someone else said, former extras girls.Originally Posted by Katrine
I understand the definition for the sake of parsimony. Locking down terms is cool for discussion's sake. But to me, extra carries with it the meaning of something extra beyond the SOP. I don't have a semantics problem using extras in a relative way any more than I would object to using mileage relatively. So, yeah, touching at a club where air is SOP is an extra in my normal vocabulary, but I probably better make that clear before engaging in a discussion about it since there doesn't seem to be universal agreement about this.
I would define that as being an undeserved victim of opportunistic assholes.Originally Posted by Katrine
Now that we have it defined, can we break out the letter jackets for the girls who meet the definition? To be fair, I think we also need to come up with equivalent terms and definitions on the consumer side. Extras addict? Extras fiend? Extras madness?Originally Posted by Katrine
There's no emotional displacement in expecting employees and customers to abide by the standards set, either actively or passively, by the club. It's simply a business model.Originally Posted by doc-catfish
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Ok, go ahead and be firm when you are out on the floor for the first time ever, no one told you the rules, and you wearing nothing but a thong, shaking like a chihuaha, being held down by 5 Messicans. I'm sure its something you would enjoy.Originally Posted by merely_lurking
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"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
Ok, I'm getting really pissed off here because of something personal that no one here really knows or cares about, I'm just not going to respond further......Originally Posted by merely_lurking
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"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
My first night back at work I always go home and cry and wonder why I ever thought dancing was a good idea. The next day I'm tough again and am perfectly capable of armwrestling any of the guys into submission. Your first night, especially in a new club, where you don't know the rules and you don't know what everyone else is doing etc., and you don't know how much money you're going to make, and you don't know if you've gained 5 pounds from not dancing over the past five months, and you remember that you are 1.5 years older than last time you started dancing, you are really, really vulnerable and can be pressured. And that's not even your first night dancing, period. Now, I'm not calling sexual assault, and I realize perfectly well that one cannot expect customers to look out for you, but it still isn't nice.
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I probably shouldn't have said anything after you clarified exactly what you were talking about. My bad, Kat...Originally Posted by Katrine
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A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....
I guess I am always a stripper. Got sidelined into the escort buisiness, sometime back, but came back to being a stripper again.
As I remember, I gave extras, but only when the customr asked for it. And only in the VIP room. Guys could feel me, and I gave HJ's but only when I used gloves and cleaned the guys genital area first. I only gave one feel me session per night. I don't like the idea of too many fingers from different people one followed by another.
I don't do BJ's or intercourse in the VIP room. I may be a whore, but damn it, this is where I draw the line. You pull that kind of krap in the club, and you could catch something and wind up dead. Moneys nice but you got to look after your health.
Thank you, if I offended you, I aplogize.Originally Posted by empelo
Well, now getting back on topic, if a guys got to have a BJ, you can use a condom.
BTW, if the guy is giving you a hassle about having to use a condom for a blowjob, there's a way you can put it on his dick without him knowing. It takes some practice, but you start with it in your mouth and then kind of roll it on his penis as your head goes down. When you're done you can just leave it on him so he can see what an asshole he is
Everyone draws their line at a different point. I have my line that limits what I do in the club for two very selfish reasons.Originally Posted by GiselleQ
1. I have an SO and would feel like crap (read as 'guilt') if I violated my line.
2. I like being free of STDs.
Thats it, it's entirely selfish. I wish I could say it was because I love my SO and I had higher aspirations, but I think its just because really I don't want to feel guility or be sick.
Wherever others feel like drawing their lines, thats cool. I think the only real issue issues are what goes on in the clubs that affect others negatively against their will. For example, if I brought home some disease to my SO without her knowing it, that would violate my sense of principles because I wouldnt want to be treated like that. Or if an extras girl ends up getting her co-workers arrested, not right. Beyond that though Id prefer that the goverment just drop the fricking laws, and leave it up to the clubs and girls to decide what their limits are. It goes on anyway, the law is mostly useless.
actually the extras girls need to be run out of the business, and if that means using law enforcement or the courts so be it. we dont need whores i our business. they have street corners.
AmyLynne
Amy glad to see you back in your usual formOriginally Posted by amylynnej
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FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Can we ban Amy from the blue side please?
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M





At least until Derek comes back...Originally Posted by Katrine
But hey, at least she doesn't want them tortured and killed by vigilante dancers.
DATY? Means Dine at the Y? That's fucking disgusting. I like eating pussy as much as any other guy, but I also like it hygenically clean not to mention germ clean. You'd actually eat a strippers pussy in the club, ew, say it ain't so.
wait....what?!
Wait she's a dancer, so she's not hygenically clean?
Just curious about the the thought process
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People are not ruled by their memories.
It has nothing to do with being a dancer. Any woman, after working for a few hours, going to the bathroom, in my opinion is not as clean as I would like. I also don't come home from work and expect my wife to blow me before I shower. I guess I just like things clean and fresh and not sweaty and used. Now, factor in the fact that you are quite possibly not the first person to DATY that night, for all you know the last guy she just got done with was sticking his infected fingers in her. I doubt she runs to the bathroom to freshen up between custies.




Originally Posted by cpeters1
hmm... So after you've fucked her until her legs go numb do you still smell fresh & clean as a whistle?
Last I knew most people smelled sweaty & used after good sex. Key word good.
I never thought wanting to have sex with a clean pussy would get such a negative reaction.
Uh no, but we also do not typically clean each other up with our tounges after sex either. Completely different. Lick, suck, fuck, it works for us.So after you've fucked her until her legs go numb do you still smell fresh & clean as a whistle?




I'm glad that works for you. lick, fuck, suck, lick, fuck, lick, fuck works pretty good too. They're just bodily fluids shared between two monogamous people in love that only have one life to live which is very short. You might as well enjoy it to the fullest. Different strokes though so don't take me wrong. I only give advice at my RL job. (where it serves a purpose) In this circle I prefer to sit back and observe with a big bowl of popcorn.Originally Posted by cpeters1
Last edited by Moneywise; 08-19-2005 at 09:27 PM.
You can tell the guys that are truly embarased by shooting a load and the ones that are (pardon the pun) gunning for it. I personally respect a man more if he has the respect for himself (which "covers" me as well) to put a condom on before we start dancing. That way he doesn't have to penguin to the bathroom and spend half an hour in there cleaning himself up before going home. Also, I dont' have to take a shower (taking me out of commission for a while) and quarantine that outfit...
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Back when I was experimenting with extras, if I came all over the place I would just wipe up what I could with a cocktail napkin and just sort of sit there for awhile in the air conditioning to let my pants dry out. It was really dark and I don't remember anyone ever noticing. I guess from a germ perspective that was kind of reckless and irresponsible, but that's where I was "coming" from back then. I've moved on to other hobbies, and just have sex with real people now.
A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....
Well I guess I understand that. IMO tho, I don't bother worrying, only because detailed thoughts on this are purely speculation and opinion.Originally Posted by cpeters1
If I eat a girl out, I have already decided she's worth it.
People are not ruled by their memories.
I think its funny that people automatically think that because a female is a dancer that she's any more promiscuous than anyone else.
I lost my virginity years later than all of my friends, they have more one night stands and my partner count is also much lower than theirs. I've never had an STD, something I can't say for them. I'm the ONLY one that's a dancer.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Do unto others as you would have them do to you...it's less work to be nice than it is to be evil!
"Miss ChiChi, if you was my girl you would never cry from anything...except maybe happiness."





Well, now your simply not giving a smart extras girl enough credit. If a girl's MO is to offer DATY, either as a value added extra or for cold hard cash, she is going to keep the merchandise clean betwee customers. It's not that difficult to do. Hell, most strip clubs today actually have hot and cold running water....Originally Posted by cpeters1
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