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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    1. How about girls who have done that a couple of times but its not a regular selling point for her?
    Choosy extras girl.


    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    2. How about clubs where extras in the dance are the norm, and almost every girl does them? Its an extras club and the girls need to give high mileage to compete, are they then still "extras girls"?
    Under your definition, I don't see how they could perform the defined acts and not be labeled that. If, on the other hand, you were to define extras as being practices beyond the standard operating procedure of the club, which is relative and varies from club to club, then no, they would not be extras girls. The club might be an extras club compared to the norm across clubs, but the girls wouldn't be performing extras if they're within SOP.


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    3. What if those same girls would not provide the extras if and when they work in clubs where they can make good money without the extras?
    I wouldn't consider them extras girls in an environment where they're not performing extras, as defined. Like someone else said, former extras girls.

    I understand the definition for the sake of parsimony. Locking down terms is cool for discussion's sake. But to me, extra carries with it the meaning of something extra beyond the SOP. I don't have a semantics problem using extras in a relative way any more than I would object to using mileage relatively. So, yeah, touching at a club where air is SOP is an extra in my normal vocabulary, but I probably better make that clear before engaging in a discussion about it since there doesn't seem to be universal agreement about this.

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    4. How about girls who were duped by customers the first few times around into giving very high mileage because the rules were not explained to her? -This happened to me the very first time at my very first club.
    I would define that as being an undeserved victim of opportunistic assholes.

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    I just think that throwing around the term "extras girl" without really delving into the meaning it like ironing a scarlett letter upon any stripper who doesn't fit into this mold created by other strippers as to how other girls should be making money in the club.
    Now that we have it defined, can we break out the letter jackets for the girls who meet the definition? To be fair, I think we also need to come up with equivalent terms and definitions on the consumer side. Extras addict? Extras fiend? Extras madness?

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    There's no emotional displacement in expecting employees and customers to abide by the standards set, either actively or passively, by the club. It's simply a business model.

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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    The dancer needs to know the rules and be firm with her own boundaries.
    Ok, go ahead and be firm when you are out on the floor for the first time ever, no one told you the rules, and you wearing nothing but a thong, shaking like a chihuaha, being held down by 5 Messicans. I'm sure its something you would enjoy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    Being physically restrained against your will and not knowing the rules are two separate issues. If somebody is forcing you to do something, I don't see how it matters what the rules are or what you're boundaries are, because the customer is just being completely abusive. I was thinking more like a customer was touching you in a certain way, and you didn't know if it was the norm or not, so you just let him.
    Ok, I'm getting really pissed off here because of something personal that no one here really knows or cares about, I'm just not going to respond further......


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    My first night back at work I always go home and cry and wonder why I ever thought dancing was a good idea. The next day I'm tough again and am perfectly capable of armwrestling any of the guys into submission. Your first night, especially in a new club, where you don't know the rules and you don't know what everyone else is doing etc., and you don't know how much money you're going to make, and you don't know if you've gained 5 pounds from not dancing over the past five months, and you remember that you are 1.5 years older than last time you started dancing, you are really, really vulnerable and can be pressured. And that's not even your first night dancing, period. Now, I'm not calling sexual assault, and I realize perfectly well that one cannot expect customers to look out for you, but it still isn't nice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Ok, I'm getting really pissed off here because of something personal that no one here really knows or cares about, I'm just not going to respond further......

    I probably shouldn't have said anything after you clarified exactly what you were talking about. My bad, Kat...
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    I guess I am always a stripper. Got sidelined into the escort buisiness, sometime back, but came back to being a stripper again.
    As I remember, I gave extras, but only when the customr asked for it. And only in the VIP room. Guys could feel me, and I gave HJ's but only when I used gloves and cleaned the guys genital area first. I only gave one feel me session per night. I don't like the idea of too many fingers from different people one followed by another.
    I don't do BJ's or intercourse in the VIP room. I may be a whore, but damn it, this is where I draw the line. You pull that kind of krap in the club, and you could catch something and wind up dead. Moneys nice but you got to look after your health.

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    With all due respect, if you were a troll you wouldn't have written a more befitting post.
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    Well, now getting back on topic, if a guys got to have a BJ, you can use a condom.

    BTW, if the guy is giving you a hassle about having to use a condom for a blowjob, there's a way you can put it on his dick without him knowing. It takes some practice, but you start with it in your mouth and then kind of roll it on his penis as your head goes down. When you're done you can just leave it on him so he can see what an asshole he is

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    Quote Originally Posted by GiselleQ
    I don't do BJ's or intercourse in the VIP room. I may be a whore, but damn it, this is where I draw the line. You pull that kind of krap in the club, and you could catch something and wind up dead. Moneys nice but you got to look after your health.
    Everyone draws their line at a different point. I have my line that limits what I do in the club for two very selfish reasons.

    1. I have an SO and would feel like crap (read as 'guilt') if I violated my line.

    2. I like being free of STDs.

    Thats it, it's entirely selfish. I wish I could say it was because I love my SO and I had higher aspirations, but I think its just because really I don't want to feel guility or be sick.

    Wherever others feel like drawing their lines, thats cool. I think the only real issue issues are what goes on in the clubs that affect others negatively against their will. For example, if I brought home some disease to my SO without her knowing it, that would violate my sense of principles because I wouldnt want to be treated like that. Or if an extras girl ends up getting her co-workers arrested, not right. Beyond that though Id prefer that the goverment just drop the fricking laws, and leave it up to the clubs and girls to decide what their limits are. It goes on anyway, the law is mostly useless.

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    actually the extras girls need to be run out of the business, and if that means using law enforcement or the courts so be it. we dont need whores i our business. they have street corners.
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    Quote Originally Posted by amylynnej
    actually the extras girls need to be run out of the business, and if that means using law enforcement or the courts so be it. we dont need whores i our business. they have street corners.
    Amy glad to see you back in your usual form

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    Can we ban Amy from the blue side please?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Can we ban Amy from the blue side please?
    At least until Derek comes back...

    But hey, at least she doesn't want them tortured and killed by vigilante dancers.

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    DATY? Means Dine at the Y? That's fucking disgusting. I like eating pussy as much as any other guy, but I also like it hygenically clean not to mention germ clean. You'd actually eat a strippers pussy in the club, ew, say it ain't so.

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    wait....what?!

    Wait she's a dancer, so she's not hygenically clean?

    Just curious about the the thought process

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    It has nothing to do with being a dancer. Any woman, after working for a few hours, going to the bathroom, in my opinion is not as clean as I would like. I also don't come home from work and expect my wife to blow me before I shower. I guess I just like things clean and fresh and not sweaty and used. Now, factor in the fact that you are quite possibly not the first person to DATY that night, for all you know the last guy she just got done with was sticking his infected fingers in her. I doubt she runs to the bathroom to freshen up between custies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    also don't come home from work and expect my wife to blow me before I shower. I guess I just like things clean and fresh and not sweaty and used.

    hmm... So after you've fucked her until her legs go numb do you still smell fresh & clean as a whistle?



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    I never thought wanting to have sex with a clean pussy would get such a negative reaction.

    So after you've fucked her until her legs go numb do you still smell fresh & clean as a whistle?
    Uh no, but we also do not typically clean each other up with our tounges after sex either. Completely different. Lick, suck, fuck, it works for us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    Uh no, but we also do not typically clean each other up with our tounges after sex either. Completely different. Lick, suck, fuck, it works for us.
    I'm glad that works for you. lick, fuck, suck, lick, fuck, lick, fuck works pretty good too. They're just bodily fluids shared between two monogamous people in love that only have one life to live which is very short. You might as well enjoy it to the fullest. Different strokes though so don't take me wrong. I only give advice at my RL job. (where it serves a purpose) In this circle I prefer to sit back and observe with a big bowl of popcorn.
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    You can tell the guys that are truly embarased by shooting a load and the ones that are (pardon the pun) gunning for it. I personally respect a man more if he has the respect for himself (which "covers" me as well) to put a condom on before we start dancing. That way he doesn't have to penguin to the bathroom and spend half an hour in there cleaning himself up before going home. Also, I dont' have to take a shower (taking me out of commission for a while) and quarantine that outfit...
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    Back when I was experimenting with extras, if I came all over the place I would just wipe up what I could with a cocktail napkin and just sort of sit there for awhile in the air conditioning to let my pants dry out. It was really dark and I don't remember anyone ever noticing. I guess from a germ perspective that was kind of reckless and irresponsible, but that's where I was "coming" from back then. I've moved on to other hobbies, and just have sex with real people now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    It has nothing to do with being a dancer. Any woman, after working for a few hours, going to the bathroom, in my opinion is not as clean as I would like. I also don't come home from work and expect my wife to blow me before I shower. I guess I just like things clean and fresh and not sweaty and used. Now, factor in the fact that you are quite possibly not the first person to DATY that night, for all you know the last guy she just got done with was sticking his infected fingers in her. I doubt she runs to the bathroom to freshen up between custies.
    Well I guess I understand that. IMO tho, I don't bother worrying, only because detailed thoughts on this are purely speculation and opinion.

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    I think its funny that people automatically think that because a female is a dancer that she's any more promiscuous than anyone else.

    I lost my virginity years later than all of my friends, they have more one night stands and my partner count is also much lower than theirs. I've never had an STD, something I can't say for them. I'm the ONLY one that's a dancer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    Now, factor in the fact that you are quite possibly not the first person to DATY that night, for all you know the last guy she just got done with was sticking his infected fingers in her. I doubt she runs to the bathroom to freshen up between custies.
    Well, now your simply not giving a smart extras girl enough credit. If a girl's MO is to offer DATY, either as a value added extra or for cold hard cash, she is going to keep the merchandise clean betwee customers. It's not that difficult to do. Hell, most strip clubs today actually have hot and cold running water....
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