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    I hate when you have to put your hands behind your back when u get a lap dance. Its realy no use if i dont get to feel something. and i dont mean private parts I dont have to go that far but u know if i get to jus feel their waists and legs that would be really cool!

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    CO's First Rule of SCing:

    --Always follow the dancer's lead

    If she's not going where you'd like within a dance or two, find another dancer.

    That said, you can't blame the girls for the standards of local municipalities, which usually determine acceptable distance and/or contact levels. If the ordinances don't provide the opportunity for the experience you're looking for, go to another club where the rules are different; I drive two hours to my club of choice for this very reason.

    Moreover, some girls just don't want you to touch them, irrespective of local statutes.

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    LOL CO....right on thats so right!!
    Sometimes if guys smell I dont want thier hands on me. Other than that....I cant believe you have to put your hands behind your back? Is that bay area or in SD? The rules are dumb here...but Im getting used to excepting them to work.
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    every man wants to touch! my legs and back don't bother me, but everything else is off limits.

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    When I get a lappy with a new girl, I always keep my hands to myself,either under my butt, or on the rail in the booth. Every time I've done this, the dancer has physically taken my hands and placed them on her body. It's her way of letting me know it's ok to touch her. With that being said, I am also intelligent, respectful, and mature enough to know where NOT to touch them. So long as you behave, she allows, and you don't have 80 grit hands, you should be in the clear.
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    I've worked in clubs where there were rules like that. The customers were supposed to either put their hands behind the chair or sit on their hands. (Although there weren't very many people who actually followed the rules.) I always enjoy it when a customer is respectful of my personal space though. I hate giving a dance where I am constantly having to worry about where their hands and fingers are going to try to go next.If a customer is getting handsy without asking my permission, I tend to back off and air dance the rest of the song and it's usually the last dance I will ever do for that customer.
    On the other hand, if a customer is keeping his hands to himself and acting like a gentleman, that makes me feel much more comfortable. I'm free to give an up close and personal dance when I know I don't have to fight some one off. My general rule is that the more respect a customer has for my space, the better the dance I give.

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    LOL CO....right on thats so right!!
    Sometimes if guys smell I dont want thier hands on me. Other than that....I cant believe you have to put your hands behind your back? Is that bay area or in SD? The rules are dumb here...but Im getting used to excepting them to work.




    yea i was at this club in SF and i saw the guys got their hands behind their chairs
    and i thought that was no fun beacause i always wanna be a part of the action ... now when i come to think about it maybe strip clubs are not for me

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    Ill put the guys hands on my waist if he doesnt first. It also gives me a sense of security because Ive fallen once and that wasnt fun.
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    I agree every man wants to touch, at my club we offer three dances. It is my rule that they will not touch me for the lowest price dance, basically because most customers don't know how to act, and try to grab more than they are aloud to. I have had customers change there mind when I tell them my rules, but it doesn't bother me because that just tells me they would try and disrespect me anyway.

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    I always ask a girl what her rules are before the dance and then I follow them. But a surprising number of girls will evade the question and not tell you. When that happens I just proceed very slowly so she has plenty of time to stop me if I start to go too far. I'm talking about clubs where come customer touching is allowed. I've also been to clubs where the guy isn't allowed to touch at all. But I've only been to them once. Such places seem to be especially common in parts of the Carolinas and Georgia.
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    Take his hands and put them where the rules of the club allow. Make sure he keeps them there. I have put hands on my hips, thighs and hair before with no problems. The customer always seems to understand when i placed his hands in a certain spot.

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    What should I do if they push their nipples in my mouth, dancers are always doing that to me.
    I like to BITE 'em! Boy do they scream loud.

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    Never had any great urge to touch most dancers. I read body language very well indeed and the thought of touching a dancer who is trying to pretend she likes the contact - while actually feeling a bit uncomfortable - does nothing for me. I'd much rather treat a private dance as a bit of light hearted entertainment.

    There is one exception to the rule - there has always been a chemistry between us, and she always initiates the contact. She does it because she enjoys it and knows I'll always stay within her limits. Because she enjoys it, so do I.

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    Well, if you see most customers have their hands behind their back or under them then chances are those are the rules.
    I am about to go to a club that enforces these rules because the dancer is topless, this is ONLY way be can give a topless dance. If the customer touched we would have to wear a top and shorts (not a thong, shorts.)
    Just ask a dancer what the rules are, heck you can even ask if you are aloud to touch, they'll say yes or not to that one.
    In many clubs I've had guys immediately sit on their hands, I tell them they are aloud to touch my wasit or back, but they usually say it's because they can't control themselves.. Works for me, at least they are honest.
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    I miss the days of No Touchie! back in NY. *dreamy sigh* But now that I'm in Grabby Land... I am always grabbing stray hands and moving them back to where they should be.
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